I can’t really ban or block people on my site, however though, I can put them on the blacklist, which means if you try to post a comment, it’ll get sent to the spam folder instead of the blog here, where I can’t read it.
I’m going to be real about the way people post online, though. A lot of it, is very disturbing, and scary stuff. The way people interact with each other in forums, social networking sites, and blogs. I’ve been watching the way people post online over the years, and honestly, a lot of people on here, have bad communicating skills online. A lot of folks on here don’t want to admit it. I try to surround myself with happy, positive, and joyful people, the best I can. It is why I post in facebook and my blog, as positive as possible, so I can get friendly replies and be around good people, but sure enough, negativity will always find it’s way around.
A lot of times, tempers flare or drama breaks out quite often. It seems that my postings can be controversial only if my views and opinions are different than everyone else’s. My thoughts and opinions were never hateful or bashing, I just have a different view on things. I don’t do this stuff for attention. I’m just a guy who likes to discuss things and debate on things. I’m no different than every other person online. I’m just an honest guy, who is NOT afraid of the truth. I just won’t tolerate people being hateful ’cause they think it’s funny. People online are like little kids being told to stop by their kindergarten teacher but they won’t.
Yes, I know there’s going to be people that won’t like me, but I can’t please everyone.
I’ve been dealing with too much negative people over the years. Not sure what it is, and I don’t care…but deep down though, I know some of you out there have no problem with me and actually like me, you just don’t want to admit it. Some idiots just like to continue to be negative people ’cause they think it’s funny and entertaining to them, like little kids, ya know? So when someone tries to put up a negative comment on here or you just want to ridicule me for fun, I just remove those.
Just treat me like a human being, and we’ll all be good. I don’t need negative people in my life. Life is too short for that. I have a choice.
I can understand why people want mental health to be looked at in America, ’cause quite honestly, our whole country is crazy and insane, and the way people communicate on the internet is just proof of it. I would like everything on the internet to be positive, but I know it’s not going to be that way in this day and age of technology. People just enjoy being negative. It’s addicting to them, they can’t help it. It’s not the internet that makes people negative, it’s probably how they really are in the real world.
I try to be positive the best I can ’cause I choose to be a good guy and that’s who I want to be.
Kev
Edit to add: I don’t mind people disagreeing with me on things, and I’m not right on everything. We can get into intelligent debates and insightful discussions, in a respectful manner. That’s what I’m hoping for.
I also truly believe some of you guys think I’m right on certain topics and agree with the stuff I say on here, again, you just ridicule me just for fun. Just remember, when you come into my site, you don’t win any discussions here.