Women are becoming more and more easier for me to talk to, in fun conversation. I’ll have to publicly admit that I am quite shy around them… seriously. I am working on trying to become more confident around the ladies. It definitely is a learning skill and takes a bit of practice to get used to talking to them. Treat them like human beings, treat them with respect, and you could be on your way to your first potential date with them. All you have to do is when you see a pretty lady you might be interested in, just walk up and say, “Hi, how are you doing?” — You never know, things will hit it off from there. I’m trying to get out of the house more and trying to be more sociable with people.

I went to Tulip Fest in Albany yesterday (yes you guess it, to see EBJ play — they kill it on stage like usual). After that, we all went to hang out at some bar in Albany to hang out with friends. I don’t drink anymore, I just wanted to hang out and do something since it’s better than staying home doing nothing, ya know? I’m trying to get out more. Meet new people and hoping to make new friends of my own to hang out with.

A lot of people like to comment on me that I’m a pretty quiet and shy person. To be honest, it’s true. I’m the type of person who is only very talkative to people I know really well like family members or people I know from Greenwich. I only talk to people only if they speak to me first and then I’ll gladly respond. I’m looking to change my life around. Trying to be more sociable, even to people I don’t even know.

Back to the conversation of women, you know how they all say that “women won’t bite” — it’s true. Women seem to enjoy talking to me every time I go out. I don’t know what it is. Maybe it could be my muscle building physique and maybe women find me attractive looking after all? Maybe they just find me a good guy? Maybe a combination of all three? I like giving women kisses too. Nothing that serious, just a big hug and a quick kiss on the cheek. They usually don’t mind either. They like it, I think. At least I have confidence to do that. Next goal is to actually try to ask for her number and even ask her out in front of her face. I was talking to a couple of gorgeous ladies at the bar I was hanging out in Albany last night. Good times.

Getting a woman should be easy, you just gotta know how to do it, and do it right.

So that’s what I did on Mother’s Day yesterday. Before anyone asks, yes, I did spend some time with my mother. Went out for breakfast in the morning.

Kev