Welp, after going through more dating “how to” videos in youtube, I guess pretty much all of them are saying that the only way to approach a woman you like is just one simple word: confidence. Like I said before, there is no other way around it. I really got to work on that and I’ve also gotta work on my social skills. My goal is to learn how to talk more. People are always saying how I’m a quiet and shy person but admittedly I am. I gotta work on my speaking skills ’cause I know that one thing women love to do is “talk”, “talk”, “talk”. You know how that a lot of women out there enjoy talking way too much ’cause that’s pretty much all they do. I gotta stop being a quiet idiot and learn to be more outgoing. I’m trying, and practicing.

Another secret I learned to hook up with women is that I need to learn how to be the “alpha male” which means dominance. You need to be dominant and have complete control over her. It’s all about the art of body language and how you speak to her. Stuff like that. Instead of asking and being weak… you need to step up and tell her right away that you like her and stuff… who knows how she may respond.

Giving her nice compliments. Make her smile, be cool, make her laugh, and keep it playful. Try not to be the “pick up artist” and be real. If she rejects you and if she’s not interested, move along to the next girl — there’s nothing to see there.

I used to think the dating world is hard and difficult but after heavy research of dating through youtube, google, and even books… I’m beginning to think that women might be pretty easy.

Do women worry about money and looks like I mistakenly kept saying in the past? From what I learned, no. I learned that they don’t care to go on expensive dates and they don’t care to get expensive gifts, and stuff… they just want to be normal and spend time with you. Your first dates with her should be inexpensive and normal something like a coffee date, a walk through the park… things like that. Going to the movies aren’t good for a first date ’cause the reason is, that takes too much time from talking to her and getting to know her. Movies are great for dates but you don’t want to go to the movies with her in the beginning. The goal is to talk to her on a first date.

I also learned that not all women are the same. Do women want sex? Even though they try to hide it, you know they all do. You know that’s what a lot of them want. However, there will be some women who will be open about wanting sex and enjoying it. Some will think sex is no big deal and some will want more time before they do it. Some will even wait ’til after marriage. All women are different. It all depends on the woman.

Yes, you will come across a lot of bad women as well. The ones you want to stay away from are the sluts, skanks, gold diggers, drug addicts, controlling women, users, etc. You will run into some of those. The trick is to weed out the bad ones until you find the good one.

Yeah, I want to get laid but only to the right one. I don’t sleep with random women. I don’t want to be the single Dad who banged a chick I don’t know well so I’m being careful with myself, ya know? It’s better to sleep with women you know well enough, can trust, and truly love. I’m not only about the sex like other guys are. Just to be clear — I’m not the wait until after marriage type. I’m the relationship type of guy myself. Yes, I’m a musician and love women but I won’t take random women home after gigs and at parties and stuff. Not my thing.

I know you guys out there probably know all this stuff already but I’m just saying the stuff of what I learned. Learning about women is fun and interesting. Now that I know all the stuff and know what to do… I gotta actually do these things and try ’em myself. I gotta stop talking about ’em on here and actually try them. Approaching women and hoping to get a date with one.

I’m 36 now. Turning 37 soon in Dec. Gotta do something before I get any older. I wanna settle myself in with a nice woman before I hit 40… NOT after. I learned that I could get any type of woman I want. Any type of man, no matter the looks or how much money he has can get a hot woman. It’s not about the looks and money… it’s how you talk to women. Learn how to talk to women with confidence you can get any hot woman with a great body and beautiful face. I don’t really care to get a hot woman but it would be nice.

I try not to talk about myself publicly like this but I do it just to let people know that I’m trying to improve myself in life. I’m not perfect but I am trying to better myself if I want to be successful. I don’t want to be a single bum for the rest of my life, that’s for sure.

Kev