I went to see EBJ at the Putnam Den last night… the show was a blast and the band played a really good set like they always do but once again, women were all over me at the show last night. I danced with 3 different women last night. 2 women approached me to dance with them and I approached one myself to dance with during a slow song. I also talked to some other women as well.

On the final song for the night, a woman approached me to dance with her and even though it definitely looked like that she has a boyfriend/husband or something… he was real cool to let her dance with me.

One woman that I was dancing with was really hammered and didn’t know what she was doing but she was still fun!!!!

The slow dance with that other woman wasn’t just a regular slow dance… it was a romantic one actually!

On my way out the door after the show got over with… I went to pick up my coat that I had to pay for to hang up and the lady who gave me my coat back was real gorgeous looking so I decided to tell her that. I said to her, “You look gorgeous btw, I like that dress you’re wearing”. See? I gave her a great compliment and I really meant it that she was gorgeous, she had a nice dress on. She was smiling from ear to ear after I said it and she said, “Thank You”, so I think I just made her day.

I told two women to their face that she was “Gorgeous” and “beautiful” last night.

I’m practicing and working on my confidence… and it’s working. The dating advice from those youtube videos that I watched really works! Confidence is key to getting women… no other way around it. I saw one video where one guy said, “In order to eliminate shyness, just go and do it… the shyness will go away”. This guy was right. I tried it and it really worked.

I think I’ve got it with the women, guys! I’m beginning to see that maybe women do find me good looking and attractive! To attract women on dance floors, just look like you’re having a great time and they’ll approach you! This makes me want to start hitting the nightclubs like maybe Vapor in Saratoga Springs to see what kind of chicks I attract there.

Now I gotta start getting their phone numbers and asking them out on dates. Next goal. See that? I’m actually doing something about the women thing. If I keep it up, I could get myself a nice girlfriend before you know it!

Happy Thanksgiving everybody! Enjoy yourselves!

Kev