Ya know, after I told those two women at that show that she was either “gorgeous” or “beautiful” to her face… it made me feel real good after I said it. It made me realize that women are easy to talk to and not tough as you think. I need to do that more often. If I think a woman is gorgeous or beautiful… I need to tell it to her face more instead of telling her on the computer. If you tell it to her face, women will respect and appreciate you for your confidence that you had the balls to say it to her. It lets me know that I’m heading to the right direction and already getting pretty far when it comes to being successful with women. It was a pretty awesome feeling to make women smile like that.

I wouldn’t recommend telling a woman she’s “hot” right away. They don’t mind, “hot”. They like being told that too but I learned women like the words “gorgeous” or “beautiful” more. The word, “stunning” works too. You tell her she’s “gorgeous” or “beautiful” with confidence — not trying to sound nervous or anything — she’ll be all over ya before you know it. Tell it to her like you really mean it. You smile when you say it too (which I did).

I really need to talk to women more and it is getting worked on. I don’t really wanna meet a woman off the internet or at the bar/club ’cause my goal is to work on the confidence of meeting women at public places like the gym, the store or where ever. When trying to get dating advice about women… people would try to tell me what topics you can and can’t talk about to women. I disagree. From what I’ve learned about women is that a lot of ’em are willing to talk about any topic. Whatever you wanna talk about to them, they won’t care. Don’t listen to those dating gurus in youtube ’cause they’re full of shit sometimes.

I really need to improve my social skills and stop being a coward. Need to make more guy friends too to hang out with and that’s also getting worked on. Need to change my life and improve myself.

I write this stuff on my blog as a way to remind myself that I need to get it done. The dating scene may not be as hard as a lot of people make it out to be. Treat women with respect, confidence and anything is possible. Some people don’t think I can do it but I’m pretty sure I can get myself hooked up with a beautiful and attractive woman. Watch me. I can do it.

Kev