Are you a target of trolls and haters on the world of the internet? Do you get a lot of people writing hateful and spiteful stuff about you online? I know I do. I’m about to explain to you why you do get a lot of haters/trolls and how to handle them.

First off, lets talk about why you do get a lot of haters/trolls. They don’t like you because of the way you write online… they don’t like your honesty or negative postings? Do they make fun of you ’cause you look funny and different? They think you’re weak so they feel the need to pick on you. Those are just a small part of why you get haters and trolls but it’s way more serious than that. The reason that you get a lot of haters/trolls is because I think it’s that they know your web presence is very big online and it’s bothering them. That’s the only reason why I think that is. The bigger your web presence gets… the more haters/trolls you’re gonna get. There’s honestly no reason for any of them to be hating you. They do it in a jealous rage, pretty much. I’ve noticed that people who have a very big web presence usually have a lot of haters. A lot of people with popular youtube channels, they get haters/trolls too. Bands/musicians out there that has big web presences, they’re gonna get haters/trolls. It isn’t you that they don’t like… it’s your popularity that bothers them. That’s what these guys do, you see… they look around for people with big web presences hoping to get more attention to themselves… they try to take their spotlight… that’s what they do it for. Trying to get more attention off of you.

Secondly… about how to handle trolls, haters, negative people or whatever… make sure you have your privacy settings set. Have comments moderated before approving them publicly like I do everywhere online (I don’t do this in facebook ’cause people are usually cool there). If a negative and asshole comment comes in, just ignore it and delete it.

Whenever you see someone bash you online when you have no control of moderating it, they decide to bash you somewhere else… just ignore it completely (or you could try your best to report it). Don’t respond to it at all. Once in a while, I see people in facebook just bash the hell out of me publicly for no reason but I just ignore it and don’t respond. That’s the problem that people have. Responding to people that bash them publicly and it’s bad to do. Best thing to do is just ignore everybody’s bullshit. If you respond to that online bully, they’re just gonna keep at it and things will get a lot worse. The only way to end the drama is just ignore it all, people will get bored of it when they realize that you don’t care and they will stop. This works for me all the time. I used to have a problem of responding to everything that bashed me but I learned from my mistakes over the years.

You need to be tough. Stay above the drama and not care about any of it. There’s nothing wrong with being yourself and being who you wanna be. Just do what you wanna do and say what you wanna say online… and fuck everybody if they don’t like it. Once again, I’ll repeat myself, “You can’t please everybody, the world doesn’t work like that”. You can’t make everybody happy.

When ever people bash me online… it is mostly done “anonymously”. They do it ’cause they don’t want me finding out who they really are but they fail miserably at that ’cause I can immediately tell who they are anyway just by recognizing their writing styles. Their writing styles is very easy to pick up.

I don’t care if anybody hates me or not. Go cry me a river for all I care. That’s the trick there. NOT care about anybody. You are who you are… there is nothing for them to do to change that. If you write stuff online that people don’t like or don’t agree with… just ignore the negative commentary. You have the right to say what you want to say and believe what you want to believe. Don’t let negative people get all over you. That’s what they do it for… they wanna destroy you publicly ’cause they love the attention.

On top of all this, you shouldn’t be upset that you get a lot of haters/trolls. It should be a flattering thing ’cause you wouldn’t be this popular and big online if you didn’t have haters right? Trolls don’t go after people if their online presence don’t matter… they only go after the popular ones. This is pretty much why a lot of local musicians around here don’t like me ’cause it’s bothering them that my web presence is pretty big.

Again, don’t reply to any negative bullshit or bashing… and life on the internet will be much much easier for you. Trust me. It works.

Kev