Should I neglect asking women out over the internet??? I really shouldn’t but…

… the goal is to ask her out to her face in person… show her you got the balls and confidence to do it in person than over the internet.

Maybe internet dating is a good thing. In these days, it seems that the internet is a big deal. Everybody’s doing it. People are hooking up through paying dating sites and social networking like facebook. I’ve known plenty of couples who just hooked up through facebook. So maybe this stuff does work? As long you’re careful and watching out for scammers, prostitutes, women with STD’s, and all that stuff… internet dating should be good.

Maybe I will give internet dating a try… don’t know.

I just think it would be more fun if I try to score a date with a woman who I just met publicly like out at a store or a band show or the gym or something like that. So I guess you can say that one of my New Year’s Resolutions for 2014 would be try and be more confident with women. Start talking to women I never met before… I need to do that more. I need to work on my conversation skills and it is getting worked on. Talk to people in person like I talk a lot on the computer. Shouldn’t be that hard.

Goal for 2014… try to talk to and meet as many women as possible. I’m 37 now, almost the big 40 and I wanna get myself a nice lady before then.

To be honest, I’m not worried about looks in a woman. It’s the personality that I look for. As long as she’s fun to talk to and you can click pretty well with her… who cares if she’s beautiful or not. It doesn’t mean I’ll date an ugly or an overweight woman, though. I would like a good looking and hot woman but if not, I’ll take a normal woman too.

I can’t see myself being single for the rest of my life and I really need to do something about it. Would like to get married someday but only to the right one.

Kev

4 thoughts on “Should I neglect asking women out over the internet??? I really shouldn’t but…”

    1. So I guess there’s nothing wrong with dating women from far away places like from out of state or out of country? There’s a woman who I’ve been chatting with online who is from the UK for the past several years now or more and we’ve gotten pretty close over the years. I wouldn’t mind a relationship with her but the long-distance travelling would be very tough. Yes, she is gorgeous and beautiful too. She has a boyfriend currently but I’m glad for her, though. We still keep in touch.

      I guess it shouldn’t be a problem asking local women out over the internet as well.

      Kev

  1. I don’t think that anything that makes two consenting adults happy is wrong. If the long distance thing is cool for you and her, why not? Go for it man!

    1. Thanks. There are a few different local women around the area who I keep in touch with regularly through facebook… sorry, not naming names. So it shouldn’t be a problem asking them out for a coffee or a lunch or something. I figure that as long as she enjoys talking to you through facebook… as long as she’s responding to ya and all that stuff… that’s a sign that she maybe interested in dating you or something. I’ll work on it.

      Kev

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