Here’s another interesting dating advice video from a woman’s perspective.
Do you see an attractive woman you may think you might like but you’re afraid to approach her in public places? Are you afraid that you might bother her? This nice woman by the name of Marni Wing says don’t worry about it. If you like her just walk right up to her and talk to her right away! She won’t be bothered at all.
You could see her in a parking lot of a store, you could be walking around the mall, the grocery store, the library, the gym, you could see her just by walking through the city streets/towns, maybe even at your work place, etc. You shouldn’t have to be afraid to just walk up to her and say, “Hi, how are you”. That’s probably the best and only pickup line you could use. If you wanna tell her that she’s gorgeous/beautiful — go for that as well as it’s recommended. She’ll be interested in talking to you after you told her compliments about her looks.
When you approach women in public places and if she gives you this nasty look and walks away which you will probably get sometimes, don’t worry about it. There are a ton of women out there willing to get approached ’cause they want to be approached. If she has a boyfriend/married, not too worry about that either ’cause she’ll still be willing to talk to you as a friend ’cause I know that women like their guy friends.
Over the years, I’ve seen plenty of women that I was attracted to and think I might like but didn’t have the guts to walk up to her and talk to her. I gotta knock that off. If you see a woman you might like in public places, go up to talk to her right away ’cause chances are, you may never see her again after that. Don’t miss the opportunity as I had plenty of missed opportunities myself. I’ll admit it that I used to get nervous around gorgeous women but I don’t think I am anymore. I still need work on the confidence a little but it’ll take a little bit at a time ’cause it’s a learning skill.
I agree with this comment in this video: “You’re right Marni, the longer you leave an approach the more women see you as “that creepy guy that keeps looking at me.”
Guys need to stop being so outcome dependant and just focus on living in the moment. If she’s not interested in talking to you, so what. Next!”
If you’re shopping at a store at the mall or just walking the street and you see this gorgeous woman you can’t get your eyes off of… it shouldn’t be that difficult to walk up to her and say hi.
Women won’t bite. That’s all there is to it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5EXhMdlrsc
Kev