Man, I liked this guy’s advice about, “Avoiding Party Girls” when it comes to trying meet women so I decided to share it here. He’s so right that a lot of dating gurus out there like to try to get you to practice picking up women at bars/clubs when in reality, it’s a bad idea. Bars/clubs or even house parties aren’t the best places to pick up women at all. If you pick up a woman at a bar/club, chances are… she’s gonna be really hammered that she won’t know what she’s doing most of the time. It’s pretty likely she’s gonna forget who you are pretty quickly. If you end up taking a girl home to have sex with later that night, you could be into a lot of trouble if you get her pregnant and you could even get STD’s with these party women. These are reasons why I would completely avoid the bar/club or the party scene when picking up women. Guys think it’s cool to pick up party women but in reality, it’s not cool… in my humble opinion. Party women are very dangerous… they could ruin your life so watch out for them.

If you wanna pick up “good women”, I’d suggest places like the gym like I’ve been saying for a while. If you meet women at the gym chances are she’s gonna be very healthy and she won’t be into heavy drinking and stuff so she can stay fit so the gym is probably a cool place to meet women. What are some other places to meet good women? Maybe the library but of course, you may have to talk very quiet. The Church maybe? Meeting women at a church may seem cool but the only problem with that is you may have to wait to sleep with her until after marriage but if that’s what it takes to get a girlfriend, dating a religious woman might be worth it. Other places to meet “good women” are coffee houses like Starbucks ’cause you know women like to get coffee and stuff. There’s no Starbucks in Greenwich yet but there are coffeehouses around here.

Just look around. There are beautiful women everywhere. Meeting beautiful women doesn’t always have to be the bar/club/party scene.

I agree with this guy that party women are awful. People mostly use bars to hook up for sex, anyways. If you’re looking for more than just “sex” and want actual love/romance, the bars/clubs aren’t the way to go. When I go to EBJ shows, I don’t go there to practice meeting women… I go there to enjoy the music of EBJ but women seem to approach me at these shows anyway. I go to bar/clubs sometimes to see local bands, not to pick up chicks.

Party girls are stupid. It makes you wonder why there are so many beautiful women who are single mothers in this day and age.

Kev