I know I repeatedly said that I wouldn’t go for the nightclub and bar scene to pick up women but maybe I should try the nightclub to see how it goes. According to this guy aka the PlayerSupreme, he says that the best places to pick up women is in a nightclub. Not at a bar. Not at a bookstore or a coffeehouse. He says the nightclub. You know… nightclubs with all the cool lights, the dance floor and all kinds of dance/techno music playing.

The more I watch his videos and listen to his advice, I’m beginning to think that I should really try the nightclub. There are a few nightclubs in the town of Saratoga Springs. One nightclub that I know about is called the Vapor nightclub and I know right exactly where that is.

I would like to try and go to a nightclub but I would have to go with someone ’cause I wouldn’t know how to get there since I don’t drive currently.

He also says that the reason most guys don’t succeed in dating ’cause most of us fear rejection. Maybe that’s a huge reason I don’t have much experience with women ’cause I fear rejection. I feel too insecure with myself. I gotta stop that and knock it off.

Not only that I gotta work on my confidence which is what I’m working on and trying to get better at. I also gotta change the way I look and the way I dress. That’s pretty much why I got into bodybuilding like 4 or 5 years ago ’cause I got into it hoping to attract more ladies. I’m also trying to keep my hair real short and try to stay clean-shaven the best I can. I also gotta change the way I dress too.

One thing, I gotta stop wearing are t-shirts with rock bands, wrestlers and superhero characters on the front of it. I gotta wear clothing that’ll attract women. Not suits and ties but nice clothing. I gotta find nice shirts and nice pants. I’m sure I can find plenty of nice shirts at clothing stores at the mall and I think I will go clothes shopping soon which I haven’t done in a long time.

I also gotta get my life together like get a job and a license/car… maybe that’ll help me get my chances of getting women. That stuff is getting worked on too.

I also love this guy’s advice that the key to getting rid of shyness around women is “biting the bullet and going for it”… that’s what he said on this video. If you like a woman, shouldn’t be that hard to approach her. If you get rejected, who cares, it’s not the end of the world. There are women everywhere. This guy tries to teach you that he doesn’t want you to get hurt when you get rejected.

As you can see, I am working on trying to improve myself. I’ll confess it that there are things in my life that needs to get worked on and I’m doing it.

This guy’s channel is very good. He’s the best dating coach in youtube. He woke me up on a lot of things. His channel is aimed at men who are “players” but still a very good channel for guys who are struggling with women.

Watch this video below if you’d like. Good stuff.

Kev