I completely understand why I get a lot of haters, trolls and critics out there. Some find the way I post online is considered offensive and some believe I go way out of line of certain topics. Some believe that I never write anything positive. Some believe I’m always negative and hateful on everything I post. Some believe I’m a hypocrite of some of the things that I write but you know what? Once again, I don’t really give a shit what anybody thinks of my online presence anymore. I’m really am at that point where I believe that, “I’m at that point where I don’t care if people like me or not. If you do great, if not that’s great too”. No matter what I say and no matter how good my thoughts and opinions are, somebody is always gonna come around and be offended. Disagree and complain. That’s why you gotta stop pleasing others.
One thing to be sure, I am not always negative and hateful on a lot of things. I write a lot of positive thoughts too. I try to write positive things and yet people still see me as a negative person. People can be really weird and crazy, ya know?
I understand that people try to call me out on the things I say so they try to vent in the comments. They create anonymous pages like on facebook, twitter, wordpress as a way to vent to and it’s their way of retaliation against me but try all you must, none of that stuff is gonna change who I am. I don’t have to change for other people ’cause others don’t like the way I am online. I’m just being me but apparently, it seems to be a crime for other people out there.
You can’t let people think they can control you. I have every right to an opinion. I have every right to speak on anything I please as long as I’m not discussing anything criminal which I have never done over the years. It’s really weird how everyone thinks they have the right to say what they wanna say but every time I open my mouth, I’m always the bad guy. No matter what comes out of my mouth, people are gonna be offended and complain. I’ve dealt with this attitude with people for years so I learned to ignore everyone’s opinions and thoughts. I don’t care if people think I’m a hypocrite, a troll, a negative person or whatever you wanna call me these days. None of that is changing me. I will always be the same guy.
So people don’t like me deleting comments on my “blog”… well that’s tough shit. I don’t tolerate bullshit on here. I just delete stuff I don’t like. I only approve comments that are positive and valuable to the discussion. I don’t tolerate attacks and insults against me. I also won’t talk about my personal life too much. All the dating stuff is fine but everything else in my persona life? No.
I actually love it when people get offended at the things I say. I really do. That’s what a critic and blogger does. Their job is to get people all fired up and get ’em going. If you’re not doing that, then you’re not a very good blogger and not getting enough attention with people.
I am honest man and that’s all there is to it. I will talk shit about Obama all I want to. I will talk shit about local music all I want to. Nothing’s changing.
Also, it is funny how a few of you guys get easily offended when I talk dirty about women on here. You see, anything goes on this blog. This is not a PG rated or a family oriented blog. ANYTHING GOES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Swear your head off. Talk dirty. Sex. Whatever you want. If I wanna say that a woman has nice tits or a nice ass, I’ll say that on here if I want to. That’s the way men talk about women sometimes and there’s nothing wrong with it. It’s called being a man.
This blog wasn’t designed to make every reader happy. It doesn’t work that way. Sorry.
Kev