The dating guru thing online and in the media is pretty huge. It’s a popular thing these days, thanks to famous dating gurus Mystery and Neil Strauss who were the ones who started the whole pickup thing. It just got bigger from there. Neil Strauss’s book, “The Game” is what helped make the PUA thing a big deal in this day and age.
I know all of these pickup artists and dating gurus are criticized by a lot of people. When you look after them and taking advice from these guys, some would say, “You shouldn’t take advice from these experts”.
In my opinion, you should look after these guys. I respect these guys for what they do ’cause these dating gurus in youtube just wanna help people. Most of these guys speak from their experience in the dating game and they just wanna pass along what they learned. I can respect them for that. Yes, many of these dating gurus famous or not just do it to make money. Hey, if that’s what these guys wanna do to make a living more power to them.
Yes, some of their advice and tips on dating and picking up women maybe bullshit, I agree but honestly, a lot of their stuff really helped me. After doing all of this research on the dating game by reading books and watching youtube videos, a lot of that stuff really helped me.
They helped me become more confident around women and they made me realize that women are not gonna bite. They made me realize that I think I have what it takes to pick up beautiful women even the perfect 10’s so I thank them for that. They taught me to say to a woman that she’s “beautiful” and “gorgeous” to her face without any fear and I have been doing that a lot lately and when you do that, their response is amazing. They love it when you tell them that.
They inspired me the way I live my life and they inspired me to change. Just last week, I went and did some major clothes shopping so I went out and bought some nice clothes. Clothes that would attract women. I wanted to look sharp and handsome for the women so I bought some nice shirts, long sleeve t-shirts, dress pants and some nice jeans. Got a new pair of walking shoes last month. I’ve also been wearing boxer briefs instead of white underwear ’cause I’ve read that women are attracted to men in boxer briefs, it’s true.
My next step is to get a haircut and shave on a regular basis. Stay clean shaven.
Women wanna see guys looking nice and that’s what I’ve been doing. Thanks to Neil Strauss and all the dating gurus in youtube. No more wearing crappy t-shirts for teenagers and wearing junky jeans (I’ve thrown most of those out).
It’s time to become a real man. I’m just getting myself prepared and getting ready.
I admire what these dating gurus do. They’re just trying to help men in America who are having trouble with women and trying to make a difference. I think that’s a powerful thing. Sure, some of the dating gurus you gotta be careful who you take advice from but most of their stuff is good and inspirational.
These guys are really helping me and I thank them for what they do. What they’re doing is pretty impressive stuff.
I’m not having any luck yet, just getting started. Greenwich is a small town so there’s not gonna be much to do. Next time I go to the mall, I’ll start practicing approaching women and doing small talk with them. I’ve already had been doing that at the mall, though. I’ve been doing that in the town of Greenwich sometimes too. I just gotta work on “number closing”, get their phone numbers which shouldn’t be hard.
The dating guru thing is good stuff. I think they deserve a lot of respect. Like it or not, they are changing the world.
Kev