The message that this guy sends in this video is so good that I felt that it was worth passing along. This guy who’s name is Matt has a dating channel that’s called, “33 Secrets” but he just made a new channel that is designed to teach men how to be Alpha Male’s. This guy’s new channel is not just about giving dating advice, it’s about Alpha Male stuff. That’s one thing that I need to get improved on is learn how to be an Alpha Male.

If you’re too lazy to watch this video, this guy explains that in order to be a confident man, you should detach yourself from judgements and opinions about you from other people. Like if people are judging you, slandering you, hating you, bashing you, etc.You don’t ever wanna listen to those people. He also says that when you get a lot of people judging you and saying all kinds of opinionated stuff about you, it’s not making you weaker, it’s actually making you a much stronger person and I agree. If so many people are talking about so much shit about you, that’s gotta say something, right? It probably means that there is something special about you and people are hating it.

I get people judging me and saying all kinds of opinionated bullshit about me all the time and I still get that crap today. It used to bother me about criticism from other people but it don’t really bother me anymore. I just learned to ignore all criticism about me and continued to be myself.

I think jealousy have to be the no. 1 reason is why people talk shit about you. There’s gotta be something that they are jealous about. If they weren’t jealous then they wouldn’t have been talking about you in that way.

I get so many people telling me how much of a loser I am and I get so many people telling me how bad of a guy I am. The last thing you wanna do is listen to them and don’t ever let them control you until you satisfy them. Like I’ve said, I’ve had way too many people over the years who thought it was okay to change me. So because other people are telling you that you are a loser or a bad person, I’m pretty positive they are no different. Nobody’s perfect even though some people think they are.

I’ve seen a facebook meme going around sometimes that says, “Before you judge me, make sure that you’re perfect” and it’s true. I mean think about it, right. People are always saying all kinds of crazy things about you… thinking they know everything about you when in reality they don’t know shit. When they judge you… you should ask, “Okay, name one thing that is perfect about you?”. I bet they won’t be able to come up with anything and they’ll be silent after that. I’ll say it again, that when people are telling you that you are a loser or a bad person, they are no different. Chances are, they are losers themselves and you know, they will never admit it.

No matter what people think of me, I’m not a loser or a bad person. I’m living life and enjoying it. That’s being a winner, in my book. That’s probably why people hate on ya ’cause they don’t like the fact that you’re happy and enjoying yourself. When people talk shit and judge you, chances are… they might have a lot of problems in their personal life.

Simply put don’t listen to other people’s bullshit and drama. Just continue to be you. Live your life the way you want to and fuck everybody else. That’s how you become a confident person. The more you live under this attitude, the more people will respect you for it and you can make new friends this way.

Kev