I’m not trying to sound like an internet dating guru or anything but last night I went to a local music festival in Greenwich. The band EBJ held their very first music festival in my hometown in Greenwich. It was fun. Saw a bunch of bands play. They were all great.

Anyway, if you guys want women to come to you at band shows, bars, clubs where there’s music and dancing… don’t just stand there looking like a bum. Women want to see guys having a fun time and enjoying themselves. They don’t like guys being bored and being lazy. Women wanna have fun. You see, when I go to band shows and things like that, I don’t go around asking random women to dance with. I just dance myself and wait for them to come to me and they usually do. Just dance, smile, and make it look like you’re having a fun time. When women see that you’re having a fun time, they’ll approach you first.

Here’s a pic of me dancing with some gorgeous girl I didn’t even know. She approached me first. When she approached me, she started talking to me so I put my hands out and she took them so we dance throughout most of EBJ’s set. I think it may have been possible that she was attracted to me and had the hots for me or something. She wouldn’t leave me alone, ha! Not a bad thing though ’cause I enjoyed hanging out with her throughout most of EBJ’s set. She showed some signs of interest or better known as IOI (Indicator of Interest). I didn’t ask her for her name first ’cause I was waiting for her to ask my name first and she did. (That’s an IOI). Then she asked me where I was from (Another IOI). During the show, when she started talking to somebody else, I felt her touch the back of my arm (another IOI, that’s when I started thinking to myself, “Yep, I think this chick wants me or something”).

Not sure if she was single or already taken but she was with some other guy I believe. I was gonna try a number close on her and really wanted to but had to leave the show early. I would have if I stayed for rest of the show though. Oh well, bummer. Maybe I’ll see her again at another EBJ show ’cause she is a fan of that band. EBJ is lucky… they get all the hot babes at their shows.

Above is the pic just so I can prove to you that I can get women to dance with me at shows and not making it up. So enjoy the pic.

I had another girl approach me during EBJ’s set but she was drunk and really stoned out of her mind, though. She offered me a hit of her joint that she was smoking in front of everyone but I politely said “No” ’cause I don’t smoke weed anymore. Had to stop it.

It was a good time last night. That’s why my blog slowed down yesterday ’cause I was gone most of the day.

Anyway, why do you think women who have boyfriends & stuff look around for other guys to dance with at live bands shows & clubs? Probably because their boyfriends are bums and they don’t give their women enough attention. HA! The women wanna have fun and their man refuses to dance with them ’cause they don’t like dancing.

Kev