Admittedly I used to be very shy around women I don’t know. I’m usually quiet around them. I’m usually talkative to women that I already know if you know what I mean by that. I’m not alone though ’cause other guys can be this way too.

I’m beginning to realize that talking to random women out there, the ones you don’t know at all isn’t that bad. They aren’t gonna bite. Most of them are pretty down to earth and easy to talk to. Sometimes you will run into a mean and grumpy woman when she does act mean like that, just forget her and say “next please”.

When I went to that music festival in Greenwich back on Aug. 1st and talked to a couple of women I never knew, it gave me a big confidence boost for sure. Talking to strange women you don’t know is definitely a practice and learning skill for sure but at least it helped get me started into talking to women more, ya know?

Even if the women you meet maybe taken, at least you tried and it’ll help give you more experience in meeting women so you got to learn to be proud of that.

I gotta go out there and do that more often. Talk to women more, any woman. It’s not that hard just to go up to her and say, “Hi, how are ya”.

I have been taking all the stuff I’ve learned from all the self help dating instruction and putting them into action and some of that stuff actually works and is helpful. Most of it’s bullshit but some of it is useful.

Kev