This is true. Holding a negative grudge with people is wrong and childish, absolutely. It’s one thing I never did was hold a negative grudge against someone. I don’t go around hating people ’cause drama and negativity has never been my thing.

Yeah, lots of people have unfairly accused me of being an asshole and an internet troll but if you believe that, those accusations are mostly coming from people who don’t know me or can’t understand me. I can actually be a sweetheart of a guy to people and maybe that’s part of why I have haters? They can’t stand it that I’m a good guy and approachable with people. Some people act like I’m gonna bite when I’m not. I’m not that scary at all as I’m a human being just like you.

Of course, I’ve gotten into heated feuds with people over the years… when that stuff happens, I just let that stuff slide right by and move on with my life. If people don’t like you all of a sudden then fuck ’em. I don’t have time for negative people or assholes ’cause drama & negative has never been my thing. If you wanna give me drama, then you’ll probably get ignored by me.

Holding grudges with people is just stupid. I don’t do it. If people wanna bury the hatchet and play it cool with me then I’ll be all for it. If you’re the type of person who continues to hold a grudge against me even to this day, then chances are you got a lot of mental issues. The problem is you, not me.

I don’t have time for bullshit. I just wanna live my life and enjoy it, that’s all I care about. Just wanna play my guitar, workout in the gym and do the things I wanna do.

Yes, I do know some people which shall be nameless who continues to hold a grudge against me to this day but I don’t care. If they wanna continue to hate me like little kids, fine… let ’em. I believe these people watch too many soap operas and too much Jerry Springer. Once again, I don’t deal with drama queens or assholes and I’ve run into a lot of them over the years. I like being around people who treat me with love and respect and believe me I have plenty of people that do treat me good.

If people wanna still hold a grudge against me, that’s their prerogative. If you’re that type of person, chances are you have a lot of mental issues and you’ll have even worse issues up ahead in your life if you continue to hold a grudge against people.

If people still hold a grudge against you, pay no mind to them at all. Tell them, “Fuck you then” and move on with your life. It’s the best thing you can do if they don’t care to bury the hatchet with you even if you try.

Kev