After all the dating self-help stuff that I read about the dating scene over the past year or so many of them would say to ask a woman out, say something small like, “Would you like to see each other again sometime like get some coffee or whatever?”.

I disagree and that is kind of weak. Saying to her lets hang and chill is kind of acting like a pussy. It’ll make it seem like you’re the one friendzoning her instead.

I’d say bite the bullet and saying something ballsy like this, “I’d love to take you out sometime for live music and good food. What day works for you?”. Yes, mention the word “out” as in “date”, ya know?

I wouldn’t pay attention to all this PUA advice stuff you see on the internet. Best way to do it is just be yourself and go for it. I’m gonna give this a try next time I meet somebody in public.

It’s an appropriate thing to do is to ask her out asap if you like her ’cause you may never see her again after that and I’ve made that mistake many times. Waited too long to ask her out or ended up not asking her out at all out of shyness and I gotta knock that off. Be a real man and grow up. Learn to become this powerful and brave alpha male is what I’m trying to do.

Women want men to take the lead. Don’t ask her what she wants to do for dates. She wants you to make the plans. I guess taking the lead is pretty much key to getting women and I’m learning.

Kev