These days it seems that anyone who wants to be realistic, honest, state a different opinion about something… you are immediately judged as an “outspoken’ and “controversial” person. Why? Is it because you don’t care to follow popular opinion? That’s probably what it is, I believe. I never thought of myself a controversial person and never thought of myself that way. I’m just a guy trying to keep it real. If people wanna call me “controversial” and “offensive” then so be it. I’ll just take it as a compliment as it don’t really bother me too much.

What bothers me is how easily offended people get. People even get offended at the dumbest things even if there is nothing wrong with it and even if it’s totally positive. Even if you do try to change your opinions and views to more positive, someone is still gonna come around and complain & bitch. No matter how you are or how good of a person you are, you’re always gonna get haters & assholes. I try my best to be “good” to people but I’m done trying. Last thing you wanna do is please everyone and satisfy everyone. I don’t have to follow popular opinion and I’m not going to.

I’m just being myself and keeping it real. Stop trying to get people to understand you ’cause it doesn’t work that way. There’s always gonna be negative people judging you so you have to keep being yourself. Being who you wanna be… fuck the world and just enjoy your life.

Even if there is nothing wrong with my posts at all whether on my blog, facebook or twitter… I’m always gonna get someone bitching. I’ve dealt with this for years so you have to do your best to ignore people and be yourself.

Don’t change for anyone at all. I don’t care what people think of my opinions on certain topics whether politics, the dating scene or the entertainment industry. I will speak what I want to and don’t allow people to control your thoughts and your mind. If they’re offended, who cares. Just because one person is offended, doesn’t mean everyone else will be. Opinions differs ya know? There will be a handful of other people who will agree with what you say and enjoy what you say even if a few people maybe offended.

If people wanna call you an “controversial” and “outspoken” person then you must be saying the right things. Even a lot of famous celebrities are going through the same thing… Donald Trump is a perfect example.

Don’t care what anyone has to say about you and stick to your guns. That’s the right attitude to have in life. People who get easily offended aren’t worth my time. If you’re that person then the internet really isn’t for you. Welcome to it.

Kev