I usually see this debate quite a lot online and I’m sure you’ve seen it too. The “Do Looks Matter” debate has been going on for a long while. I see a lot of men and women declaring that “Yes, looks matter”… men would make the claim that women would only date you if you’re good looking. Women would also make the claim that men only goes after “good looking” girls. If you’re a man or a woman making that claim that “looks matter” then chances are, they aren’t good looking themselves. Usually those claims are coming from people who aren’t really “good looking” anyways. They are either average looking or below that.

To me, looks don’t really matter at all. My dream girl don’t really have to be a 9 or a 10… although that would be nice. Looks don’t really matter to me ’cause rating people on their looks is pretty stupid, in my opinion. I don’t really care how attractive her face is or not as long as she accepts me for who I am and loves me for me, ya know?

This “Looks matter” debate is pretty silly to me ’cause I don’t really pay any attention to any of it ’cause it’s all pretty opinionated, really.

The truth is you’re not gonna really find “good looking” and “perfect” looking people in the real world anyway… leave that shit to Hollywood. So a girl you like may look like a 9 or a 10 but take off all that make-up she wears, she won’t be as attractive looking as you thought she was. Yes, people can be “good looking” and “pretty” but you’re not gonna find “perfect” looking people… like I said leave that to Hollywood. Women don’t really look like that anyways.

Rating people for their looks is dumb. How about accepting people for who they are? A hot girl for me would be nice but I don’t care either way. I’m just looking for a best friend, that’s all I need.

When people make that claim “Yes, looks matter”… I see it as them saying, “Hey, I’m good looking”. Don’t call yourself “good looking”. Stay humble and let other people tell you that.

I don’t think I’m the best looking guy but I’ve been told by some that I’m “cute” but that’s about all. Looks don’t really matter and that’s the truth.

Kev