Yesterday at the mall, I chatted with a nice redhead woman who worked at the cashier at Dick’s Sporting Goods. I was paying for my stuff and she looks at me and says, “How is your day going today” and I just said with a smile on my face, “My day is doing really good. How is your day going?”. Then we started chatting from there, just joking around and stuff. It was just all small talk and stuff, ya know? Just having fun and laughing a bit.

When women ask you “How your day is going today”, you wanna reply to her like you’re in a good and positive mood. Smile when you say it too and that’s how you get her going. After she finished what she was doing and gave me the receipt, she looks me in the eyes, smiled and said, “You have a good day, okay” and then I smiled in return and said, “You have a good day too”. I didn’t start talking to her, she started talking to me first then I responded confidently.

When women ask guys “How their day is going?”, a lot of guys would be like, “Ugggh, pretty good” like a bunch of bored wimps. No. You wanna say things like “My day is doing really good, how about yours?” That’s how you get women going when they see that you’re in a good and happy mood. If you want women to respond to you… you’ve got to be in an upbeat mood and not act like a grump, ya know?

Talking to women who work at the mall, the cashier is a great practice tool for sure so I think I’m gonna do that more each time I go to the mall. Small talk is the best way to go. The only opener you need to talk to women is “Hi how is your day going” or just a simple “Hello” and that’s pretty much all.

Doing all that research on this stuff was worth it and this stuff is helping me believe it or not. Talking to women is becoming more and more easier and I’ve become better at it lately.

Kev