It took me years to figure it out and realize it but I’m beginning to think that maybe a lot of women do like me out there after all. It’s pretty obvious I would say. If they didn’t like you then they wouldn’t give all their effort to try and contact you… they wouldn’t be approaching you first and that kind of stuff. I think you get the deal.
So how do you become popular with the women? Don’t mean to sound like an ass but I’m gonna say the cold hard truth that looks is a big part of it. If they think you’re good looking then they’ll come to ya. Attraction is a huge part of this indeed. No doubt about it.
Also, being yourself and being a nice guy is a huge part of getting women to like you. Be a nice person and you’ll grab their attention. Being nice to people really helps.
A good sense of humor is a must ’cause you know how women like to laugh a lot. My sense of humor is okay but I could improve that as well. I try to be funny as best as possible but I would like to try to learn how to make people laugh better. I think I need to get better at that.
With that being said, though, maybe I already am successful with women? I should have no problem in the dating scene. You just gotta learn not to listen to negative people and critics doubting you. Critics saying you can’t do it. Believe me, I had many critics telling me I don’t have what it takes to get the ladies and soon I’m gonna prove ’em all wrong. You can’t listen to negative people and be positive with yourself.
Kev