That’s the problem we’re having in this day and age. In the age of social networking, you see men and women ranting about how people are bringing them down. They have to explain themselves to the person they are getting attacked and bullied by. They have to try and defend themselves, hoping this bully will stop picking on them and the bully will try to be more friendly with you. Never gonna happen. When negative people attack you… they want you to respond. They want you to see you ranting about it. They want to see you pissed off and angry. That’s why they do it is to piss you off and anger you on purpose ’cause they find it amusing and entertaining to them.

When you get negative people judging your life. Judging you by the way you live… you don’t need to explain yourself to them. When you do, all you’re doing is making situations much worse. The bully will continue to be an asshole to you no matter what you say or do knowing from my own experience. So a good way to handle negative people is by not responding to them at all and removing them your life. Pretend that they’re dead is what I do. Ignoring negative people completely is the best thing to do really. Ignoring negative people really does help make your life much more peaceful.

I try to give that advice to other people but they don’t listen to me. They continue to defend themselves against negative people getting all over them. In my facebook newsfeed, you see people ranting everyday about how people are getting all over them especially women mostly.

I’m sure you’ve noticed by now that I don’t respond to negative people at all. I just delete anything negative and just block them. WordPress doesn’t have a block feature so I just delete the comments and ignore it if something negative comes in. I only reply to positive responses, that’s what I look for. People can disagree with me on certain topics as much as they want to as long as the response is positive. I don’t mind people disagreeing with me on things. I just want people to be positive about it. In this day and age of social networking and the internet when people disagree with you on certain topics, they have to be mean and be a douchebag about it. Call you every name in the book, get into all kinds of drama. I know from experience.

When it comes to politics discussion though… liberals have to be so negative when they disagree. They’ll call you a bunch of names, swear up a storm and all that stuff. It’s part of why we’r getting fed up with liberals ’cause they’re really nasty to people. Almost all the time. Wow. They continue to be nasty to people to this day.

There’s so much negative people everywhere these days whether online or offline. You have to eliminate negative people from your life. I don’t have time for negative people. I want to surround myself with positive and joyful people. Don’t give negative people any attention ’cause when you do, all you’re doing is giving them more attention and they don’t deserve it.

Kev