Have a good New Year’s tonight, readers. If you’re going out tonight, whether you’re going to a local band show, a dance club, or a house party, or whatever, be safe and don’t drink and drive.

I’m not going anywhere tonight. I find partying on New Year’s Eve is lame anyway.

Tonight, I’m going to have a pizza dinner, and after that, I’m planning to watch “Expendables 1 an 2” on Blu Ray before the ball drop.

Enjoy tonight. Behave and be safe. Don’t get arrested or do anything stupid, lol.

Rock on! \m/

Kev

I’ll have to publicly admit that I don’t have much dating experience. I won’t get into any further details about my personal life off the computer, but I’ll just leave it at that. With the question in the title of this topic, do I enjoy living the single life? Well, the answer is yes, and no.

The yes, I enjoy being single somewhat ’cause if you’re in a relationship you don’t have to worry about getting destroyed or badly hurt when she dumps you. You don’t have to worry about dealing with 4 or 5 hour long phone calls daily or any of that stuff. Being single, means more freedom and you don’t have to rely on her all of the time. That’s the great part of being single.

The no, is the loneliness, of course. I’ll admit it. I am learning to socialize with women better, and I’m gaining more confidence talking to them. Learning that they won’t bite. They are getting more easy to talk to, more and more. They’re just people like us.

I’ve tried the dating thing, here and there, a little bit in the past, it’s just that women are real tough people. A lot of guys want to accuse women of using men for the money ’cause they work a good day job or they just have a cool car, but there ARE kind women out there that will care for who you are. I just need to find her. I know some of you would like to see me get hooked up with a nice girlfriend, down the road, I just need to find the one that’s right for me. I don’t know, maybe when I get a good enough paying job and a car, maybe getting a girlfriend will be much easier then, but there will be women out there who will care for you, no matter who you are. There is someone for everyone.

I just got to start making friends with them. Start off slow and build from there. That’s how you do it, I think. People have given me dating & relationship advice and that’s how I learn. Other people in my family are getting significant others of their own and even gone as far as getting engaged & married. After seeing all this, is getting me thinking that it’s about time for me to do the same. Get myself a nice woman for a hopeful marriage. There are too many young people in their 20’s or younger, getting married these days. I don’t know why, that’s something I don’t want to rush. I’m 36 now, almost 40, so I think it’s about time for me to do something before I get any older.

I think it’s time to hit the dating scene in 2013, and I’ll be sure to actually do something about it, instead of talking about it. I would rather date someone locally in my hometown of Greenwich or a little further. No long distance dating for me.

There are nice and beautiful women all over Greenwich, even for a small town. I met plenty of nice women all over Greenwich. They can be real nice. I just got to work on the confidence more and it is getting worked on!

Kev

I’ve been trying to watch a Netflix movie last night, and couldn’t get it to work, but I guess everyone else had the same thing. There are articles all over the net that they had an outage on Christmas Eve night. I bet it pissed off all the customers too. I was a little pissed myself that Netflix wouldn’t work last night, ’cause like most everyone, I wanted to enjoy a Netflix movie on Christmas Eve. Ah well.

I won’t be watching Netflix tonight, ’cause I got a few Blu Ray’s today.

I’m hoping to see “Django Unchained” tomorrow in the theater. I think I’m definitely going to see, “Les Miserables” later this week as well. After I see those two films, I’ll definitely get the “15 Best of Movies of 2012” list up here then. I won’t bother waiting for “Zero Dark Thirty”, that can wait for next  year’s list since that film will be released everywhere in Jan, anyway. I just want to get this list done and get it up here.

Kev

Here’s a few good stuff I got today for Christmas. I did get more but the rest of the gifts were just other stuff, clothes, and things like that.

In the Stephen King picture, that red hardcover is “Carrie” if you can’t read it. I’m just about done collecting Stephen King’s complete bibliography. I just need 4 more of his books left and then I’m done. Except the last 4 I need left are the hard to find ones ’cause it’s very hard to get the classic Stephen King books these days.

It’s been a pretty good Christmas for me so far.

I’m probably gonna watch Expendables 1 & 2 later this evening, or maybe Led Zep’s “Celebration Day”. Don’t know yet!

Hope, all of ya’s are having a good holiday today. Enjoy yourselves!

Kev

I haven’t posted on the blog much this weekend ’cause I have been busy. With Christmas parties all weekend and other things.

Plus, I’ve watched a few movies at home over the weekend. Just re-watched “Prometheus” on Blu Ray. On Netflix, I watched “The Game” starring Michael Douglas and earlier this afternoon, I watched “Marathon Man” with Dustin Hoffman. I was gonna watch another movie on Netflix tonight, but the Netflix server don’t want to seem to work tonight for some reason.

I had a pretty good weekend and hope you all had a good one too.

Everyone’s talking about New Year’s resolutions, I hate doing these things ’cause they really never happen. Well, other than the fitness thing. My new year’s resolution this year is to hopefully become more outgoing. I need to stop being a loser and become somebody. Be a part of this world by socializing more with people. If I want to get myself a nice lady in my life, this is what I need to do. Learn to be more sociable and meet new people. It is getting worked on. I’m the type of guy that is only talkative to people I know well. I need to get used to talking to complete strangers more. It is definitely a learning skill, indeed.

Have a good night everyone, and keep an eye on my twitter tomorrow, ’cause I’ll be posting photos of some of the gifts, I’ll be getting. Enjoy!

Kev

The Brock, enjoying a PBR! Yes!

Thought you guys would have a laugh with this one, so have fun with it!

Kev

Whenever I go out somewhere in the public, like going to hang with some friends or family or whatever, I always get people coming up to me and telling me in person, giving me feedback on my online web presence. Whether it will be my personal facebook page or my blog, people are always saying how they love my work. They find my stuff that I do online interesting and entertaining. Of course, there will be some that will hate my web presence. Some will accuse me of not being smart or crazy as hell, but believe me, there are people out there that love everything I write online. I really like mixed opinions on my online web presence. You either love me or hate me. Either is good.

People will usually come up to me and say, “I follow your stuff online, I love what you do”.

I think the best feedback I ever got from someone was, “You’re the type of blogger who doesn’t give a shit”.

And this person who said that is exactly right. I don’t give a shit. I’ve had that kind of attitude from day 1 ever since I started blogging. I’m just the type of guy who is not afraid of things, you know. Some on this blog, accused me of being afraid of the truth, when that is not true at all. That’s what my blogs and social networking sites are about. I like the truth about things. It might hurt some people, but I’m not afraid of it. Just like all the stuff I say about Obama, current events in the news, and even entertainment news.

I do have a big “following”, but it’s mostly for my online web presence, and not for my music.

One thing to keep in mind though, I don’t do this for popularity, to get fame, money, or any of that stuff. What I do is not only to entertain people. I like entertaining people, of course, but I just want to teach people it’s okay to be real about things. It’s boring as hell having the same opinions as everyone else, and I don’t need to be that person. My goal is to give people a reality check on things. That’s how my blogs have always been.

I’m not ashamed to be this way, and don’t have any regrets.

Kev

I don’t think the end of the world is coming to an end tomorrow, of course not, but it is funny how people in facebook get into it and make jokes about it. I’m sure the end of the world will happen one day, but not now. Planet Earth will be around for a million years to come or more. An apocalypse can happen any time really. Ya never know that this planet could explode or a bunch of asteroids start dropping on us or this planet could start heating up, whatever. The end of the world happened to Dinosaurs, it could happen to us too.

As for what I want on the last day of Earth, just for fun, well, to get laid with a hot woman, of course, lol.

We’ll still be standing tomorrow, but if something really does happen tomorrow if the Mayan Calendar happens to be right, I’ll see y’all on the flip side.

Kev

One of the things that pisses me off on this site, is when I post up a blog post and I decide to close comments, that means the blog post is closed. They were meant to read and not reply.

You guys can defend yourselves, pretend your smarter than me or act like you’re better than me, all you want to. I will always stand by the things I say on here. You just don’t get it that I just want positive and friendly discussions, yet, you continue to be negative ’cause you think it’s fun like I said previously. If you don’t want to be positive, there’s no sense of keeping the comments open anymore. If you don’t like me or don’t like how I run my blog, then why continue to read? I just don’t understand it. Fuck off, and quit reading, if you don’t like how I do things here. It’s that simple.

Comments in this blog will be closed for a while. Maybe for good.

Kev

I can’t really ban or block people on my site, however though, I can put them on the blacklist, which means if you try to post a comment, it’ll get sent to the spam folder instead of the blog here, where I can’t read it.

I’m going to be real about the way people post online, though. A lot of it, is very disturbing, and scary stuff. The way people interact with each other in forums, social networking sites, and blogs. I’ve been watching the way people post online over the years, and honestly, a lot of people on here, have bad communicating skills online. A lot of folks on here don’t want to admit it. I try to surround myself with happy, positive, and joyful people, the best I can. It is why I post in facebook and my blog, as positive as possible, so I can get friendly replies and be around good people, but sure enough, negativity will always find it’s way around.

A lot of times, tempers flare or drama breaks out quite often. It seems that my postings can be controversial only if my views and opinions are different than everyone else’s. My thoughts and opinions were never hateful or bashing, I just have a different view on things. I don’t do this stuff for attention. I’m just a guy who likes to discuss things and debate on things. I’m no different than every other person online. I’m just an honest guy, who is NOT afraid of the truth. I just won’t tolerate people being hateful ’cause they think it’s funny. People online are like little kids being told to stop by their kindergarten teacher but they won’t.

Yes, I know there’s going to be people that won’t like me, but I can’t please everyone.

I’ve been dealing with too much negative people over the years. Not sure what it is, and I don’t care…but deep down though, I know some of you out there have no problem with me and actually like me, you just don’t want to admit it. Some idiots just like to continue to be negative people ’cause they think it’s funny and entertaining to them, like little kids, ya know? So when someone tries to put up a negative comment on here or you just want to ridicule me for fun, I just remove those.

Just treat me like a human being, and we’ll all be good. I don’t need negative people in my life. Life is too short for that.  I have a choice.

I can understand why people want mental health to be looked at in America, ’cause quite honestly, our whole country is crazy and insane, and the way people communicate on the internet is just proof of it. I would like everything on the internet to be positive, but  I know it’s not going to be that way in this day and age of technology. People just enjoy being negative. It’s addicting to them, they can’t help it. It’s not the internet that makes people negative, it’s probably how they really are in the real world.

I try to be positive the best I can ’cause I choose to be a good guy and that’s who I want to be.

Kev

Edit to add:  I don’t mind people disagreeing with me on things, and I’m not right on everything. We can get into intelligent debates and insightful discussions, in a respectful manner. That’s what I’m hoping for.

I also truly believe some of you guys think I’m right on certain topics and agree with the stuff I say on here, again, you just ridicule me just for fun. Just remember, when you come into my site, you don’t win any discussions here.