I’ll have to publicly admit that I don’t have much dating experience. I won’t get into any further details about my personal life off the computer, but I’ll just leave it at that. With the question in the title of this topic, do I enjoy living the single life? Well, the answer is yes, and no.

The yes, I enjoy being single somewhat ’cause if you’re in a relationship you don’t have to worry about getting destroyed or badly hurt when she dumps you. You don’t have to worry about dealing with 4 or 5 hour long phone calls daily or any of that stuff. Being single, means more freedom and you don’t have to rely on her all of the time. That’s the great part of being single.

The no, is the loneliness, of course. I’ll admit it. I am learning to socialize with women better, and I’m gaining more confidence talking to them. Learning that they won’t bite. They are getting more easy to talk to, more and more. They’re just people like us.

I’ve tried the dating thing, here and there, a little bit in the past, it’s just that women are real tough people. A lot of guys want to accuse women of using men for the money ’cause they work a good day job or they just have a cool car, but there ARE kind women out there that will care for who you are. I just need to find her. I know some of you would like to see me get hooked up with a nice girlfriend, down the road, I just need to find the one that’s right for me. I don’t know, maybe when I get a good enough paying job and a car, maybe getting a girlfriend will be much easier then, but there will be women out there who will care for you, no matter who you are. There is someone for everyone.

I just got to start making friends with them. Start off slow and build from there. That’s how you do it, I think. People have given me dating & relationship advice and that’s how I learn. Other people in my family are getting significant others of their own and even gone as far as getting engaged & married. After seeing all this, is getting me thinking that it’s about time for me to do the same. Get myself a nice woman for a hopeful marriage. There are too many young people in their 20’s or younger, getting married these days. I don’t know why, that’s something I don’t want to rush. I’m 36 now, almost 40, so I think it’s about time for me to do something before I get any older.

I think it’s time to hit the dating scene in 2013, and I’ll be sure to actually do something about it, instead of talking about it. I would rather date someone locally in my hometown of Greenwich or a little further. No long distance dating for me.

There are nice and beautiful women all over Greenwich, even for a small town. I met plenty of nice women all over Greenwich. They can be real nice. I just got to work on the confidence more and it is getting worked on!

Kev