A lot of people mistakenly believe that a man staying single for most of his life is sad, pathetic and wrong. They usually get picked on and laughed at by other people since they made a choice. You see it isn’t pathetic and wrong for a man living the single life. It’s actually a very good thing to do really. There are too many people out there who can’t live their life without sex but there are some that can survive without it. There is more to life than just sex and romance, all that stuff. You can actually be happy and find life very enjoyable being a loner, trust me on that. It’s your choice of how you want to live your life. You can settle in and get into a relationship at a late age. I think it’s actually better to settle in at a late age instead of rushing things at a young age. There are too many young people, in this day and age, getting into relationships, rushing to get married and stuff. I look at all this going on, and I’m like really? Why are there too many young people rushing into things? I sort of, blame that on TV and celebrity gossip that people obsess over and they follow along with it. That’s how mainstream media controls people.
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve actually tried the relationship thing several times before in my life, but they never worked out. I have been friends with women before and they were just that, just friends. Nothing more.
I think it’s time for me to get a nice woman, sometime, hopefully in the near future. I think I’m ready for it now, before I get any older ’cause I’m gonna be 40 soon. The only thing though, is that’s it’s so tough to get somebody, these days. A lot of women out there seems to be pretty self centered people. All they seem to care about is the money, really. I mean, look who all the women are getting married to lately. Yes, that’s right. They seem to be marrying wealthy guys. Why? It’s so that women can live in a good home and expensive cars, so they can raise a family and have a good life. Divorces are on the rise too, and who are filing the divorce papers mostly? Yes that’s right, it’s the women, so they can get after the money. It’s a harsh reality that all women care about is a guy’s wealth, but it is what it is. Some couples are only together ’cause of the children only.
This is why this relationship and marriage stuff is pretty scary. Women would also only date guys for the good looks and for sex also.
I know not all women are shallow people, there will be one out there who will love you for you and actually care about you, she’s just hard to find. I guess the trick is, that you just need to stop looking if you don’t want to keep getting hurt. You will find the love of your life at some point, it’ll happen when it happens.
I don’t need people helping me to get a woman, this is something I need to do on my own, but I’ve had other people give me tips and advice. I’ve been told to respect her. Give her nice compliments and make her, smile, and happy a lot. Have fun conversations with her and be confident. Start off slow and build your way up. See how things go from there.
I’m looking for true love. A lot of you would never be able to see it but yes, I am capable enough of treating a woman like a queen and can make her a happy person. I can do it, I just need to find the right one. I guess I need to weed out all the bad ones until I find the one who actually cares. That’s the trick I guess.
I usually try not to talk about this relationship stuff on my blog but since Valentine’s Day is coming up around the corner, I figure I would do this and get it out of the way. So enjoy.
Kev
K'Brocking 
Stick this on an internet dating site, and watch the offers come flooding in.
Dating sites, I refuse to do. I’ve tried the internet dating thing before, and it’s all just a big fantasy world. Internet dating are for losers who don’t have the confidence to ask a woman out in person. Plus, most internet dating sites are full of scammers and spam bots, anyways.
I’m gonna try to hook up with someone locally in my hometown of Greenwich. If I see someone interesting, I’ll just walk up to her and say hi, see how it goes from there. I’m coming to a realization that women won’t bite and they are real easy to talk to.
Kev
Most women, and they know who they are, just want sexual relations and that’s it. They don’t like to spend quality time together with us men and do things like we like to do. I am a big time cuddler and snuggler – in past girlfriend relationships this has always lead to sexual lovemaking and I wasn’t always in the mood, so I felt pressured to perform. It was frustrating. I have been dumped many times because of my need to have quality time with my ladies and NOT just have things be strictly on a physical plain in the relationship. Oh well, I will find the right one soon. I want a woman who can balance out quality time with time that’s well spent and time alone to ourselves in intimacy. She’s out there looking for me too. We just gotta connect ourselves.
Yeah, you gotta love it when women complain and whine about how bad men are at relationships, when in reality, they can get a lot worse. They’re not only self centered, and shallow, they can be hypocrites as well.
Kev
They can even be difficult when you just want to be friends with them, nothing more. If you want to have lunch with them or go to a movie, as a friend, not as a date, a lot of them will say no to that as well. Women, I tell ya. Can’t understand ’em.
Kev
You CAN’T be friends with them!! You just CAN’T! Sex always gets in the way. So many times I just wanted to be friends, but it never works out that way. They ALWAYS have to have you know what… Good luck finding the right one.
I do want the sex, and get laid, of course. Just to be clear, I’m not the “wait until after marriage” kind of guy, but I would rather know the woman well enough first, though. Do it with somebody special.
Kev
It would be pretty cool if you guys would keep it civil for once. I never understood why people have to write nasty things to me anonymously, which is pretty cowardly, in my opinion. Why do people thinks it’s cool to be an asshole to me every time they write something? It’s just one of those 100 reasons, why I hate people in general.
No matter what you think of me, there will be somebody for everyone. There will be kind women out there who will accept you for who you are, no matter what kind of person you are.
The things I said about women in this post is the truth. I understand that women want guys to be an adult and want them to take care of themselves, which is why a lot of women want guys to have jobs and their own cars, all that stuff, but that’s just more proof that women don’t know, what “true love” is. They don’t know shit about love, when they think they do.
True love in my opinion is loving and caring the person, every step of the way. Telling her that you love her everyday, and she cares for you in return. Never wanting to let each other go and wanting to be with each other, no matter what happens. If you’re feeling down, she’ll be willing to make you feel better, and you do the same to her if she’s feeling down. Staying together no matter what happens, even through good times and bad times. That’s the kind of true love, I’m talking about. Just loving each other.
That’s the whole point of this topic. Women think they know what true love is, but in reality, a lot of them don’t. They rely on guys being independent people. It isn’t because women want guys to be able to take care of themselves, I interpret that as the women saying, “Oh I want to be spoiled and be taken care of”. Women would date a wealthy guy so they can be bought dinners, drinks, expensive gifts, and maybe even take some of his money. You get the deal.
As for my dream girl, she doesn’t have to be hot or attractive. I care about personality. She must have the same interests and hobbies, is a plus too. I like music, movies, books, etc. I expect her to like the similar stuff. I look for an honest woman, who is good at long conversation, and easy to talk to.
Maybe men can be just as shallow, but study says that women are more shallower than men are.
Kev
Now now people, no need for hating. There’s no women hating here. I only speak the truth. I’m pretty sure I’m not alone on how women treat men by using them for money and rejecting them ’cause they don’t look good enough. Men have been complaining about this stuff for years.
Kev
I know you guys agree with everything I say here, you’re just bashing me just for out of pure fun and enjoyment. Well, no more of this ’cause I’m closing the comments in this post. There is nothing wrong with my post. It is pretty insightful that most guys talk about when it comes to love & relationship discussion. You should also give me the kudos and respect for having the balls for being honest and open about this stuff, which most people are afraid to do.
Kev