I have many insecurities. Not just my scoliosis and my curvy body… but I have more which I don’t wanna get into. Like I said before, I worry that women weren’t going to appreciate the way my body is but thanks to this guy… this dude makes me not want to worry about that stuff anymore. Like this guy said… no matter who you are, what you look like, what race you’re in, how much money you have, etc…. anybody can be successful with women. I mean, I have seen bald men and overweight men… who were successful with women myself. I have even seen men with different physical disabilities be successful with them. I have been told by some people that I can’t get women ’cause I’m not good looking enough or don’t have a good enough job. All that is just a bunch of bullshit.

A hot and gorgeous looking woman will date any guy of any type as long as you’re confident and know how to treat them.

This guy is making me want to go out there and meet some women. Next time I go out to the gym, the mall or the grocery store… I’ll try to chat up with her. I’ll try to talk to any random woman I don’t know and see what happens. I’ll keep the conversation casual for now as a way to build up my confidence around them. I won’t meet women at bars or clubs, I don’t think. I think the gym might be the best place ’cause that’ll be the place where you’ll meet a woman who is healthy, eats clean, takes care of herself, and doesn’t drink/smoke. I see nice looking women workout at the Y in Greenwich all the time and I see men there chat up with them at the gym so it shouldn’t be a problem. As long as you don’t interrupt the ladies workouts at the gym, they’ll be willing to chat with ya in between their sets. Maybe compliment their workouts and maybe ask her to teach me some workouts… say something like, “Hey, that’s an impressive workout, can you teach me how to do it?”. That’s an idea… I’ll try to give it a shot!

Kev