Man, I gotta stop reading all of these ebooks and stop watching all of these youtube dating videos on how to pickup chicks and actually go out and do these things for real. I think I learned enough about how women are in the dating scene so I should have no problem. I gotta work on achieving my goal in 2014 to meet as many women as possible. Try to talk to women I never met before is the goal.

I won’t do the bar and club scene but I’ll try to meet chicks at other places like the gym, library, the mall, etc. I could do the internet too yes but I want to try to build up my confidence with women by talking to them face to face in person. It’s a learning and practice skill indeed and I have been practicing as you can tell.

One thing I’ve been doing a lot is smiling to women more in public places and trying to be in an upbeat and happy mood when talking to her as well.

A lot of guys only date chicks ’cause they think they’re beautiful. Nothing wrong with that. I like beautiful and gorgeous women myself but I look more at her personality than anything, though. She have to be a good match with me. Have lots in common. She don’t have to be a musician but it would be cool. If she’s not a musician, then she must have a love for music at least. I would like her to be a movie buff like myself. I would also like somebody who is talkative and can hold a conversation. No drama and negative bullshit. I won’t play games with them. If they give me bullshit and soap opera stuff or if they cheat on me, I’ll be the one to dump ’em asap.

Yes, when I start talking to women in public places… I know some will not be interested in talking to me or already have a boyfriend/married but when you run into women like that, nothing to see there… move on to the next girl.

I know some people out there will have negative opinions about me in the dating scene. Some will say I don’t have what it takes and will think women won’t want me but I disagree. There is someone for everyone no matter what you think of the person. A lot of women out there may not be interested in you but keep looking… there will be a woman out there for you who will have a major crush on you. Don’t listen to negative people and prove them wrong. Prove them wrong that you have what it takes in the dating scene and I’m about to do just that. Prove everyone wrong.

I used to think women are difficult people but they are really not. Women will date guys no matter the looks or who you are. They just want a confident man and to be safe around with, ya know? Learn how to talk to them and you can get any woman you want. Even the hot ones.

I’m working on my confidence and trying the best I can. I have to get rid of the shyness around women. It’s gotta be done.

Check out this nice video by this woman giving dating advice:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSLa_v6WHo

Kev