For several months now, I’ve been trying to find ways to overcome my shyness around women and people. Guess there’s nothing wrong with who I am ’cause that is who I am. There is a term for that called an “introvert”. Meaning somebody who prefers to be alone and be the quiet type and embraces it. That is me pretty much admittedly.
I have been trying to talk to women and other people more, though. I’m not the type of guy who will sit there and talk for hours and hours like a lot of people out there. I do like talking to people don’t get me wrong. I’m more of a listener than a talker. I just like listening to other people. Just like Jad here, I just talk very little and just listen to people respond.
The only time when I DO talk a lot for hours and hours is I do that only to people I know really well. I just happen to be quiet around people I don’t know. I am very picky and choosy of who I let in my life ’cause admittedly I do have a hard time trusting people out there. Only I choose who to be friends with. Admittedly I don’t have many friends in my life… hardly any in fact but I’m okay with that. I may chat with some people online on a regular basis but I wouldn’t really call them “friends”, they’re just online buddies, nothing more… hope that makes some sense.
There’s a lot of claims and myths out there that women don’t like shy and introverted guys which is actually bullshit. Women actually LOVE shy men just like Jad here explained. Shy men STILL can get a lot of women… even the HOT ones.
So I guess I’m okay of being who I am. Introverted. I do like my me time, though but still gotta practice getting out of it, though. I’m still gonna work on talking to women more which I have been doing. It be cool to have a nice woman to go to the movies and stuff with. I know you don’t wanna go to the movies on a first date… you wanna start off with a small coffee date first.
I do like talking to people but like I said, I’m very picky and choosy. Even though there is nothing wrong with being shy and introverted… I’m still gonna work on learning how to talk more with confidence.
This is a great video!
Kev
K'Brocking 
Oh, definitely nothing wrong with shyness, but don’t let that be an excuse to not get out and try. They aren’t going to just automatically find your introversion attractive.
Thanks. Yeah, I’m still gonna try and practice talking more. I really need to try and be more outgoing. I really wanna get over the shyness. If I can perform on the stage with confidence then I should be able to feel the same way being around people and women.
There are all kinds of cool “how to” videos in youtube teaching you how to get good at conversation. They’re not dating coaches, they’re there to teach you how to talk better. I’ve been watching some of that stuff.
Kev