When you want to blog, facebook, twitter and all that stuff… you just have to ignore everyone’s thoughts and opinions about you because when people are whining, complaining and bitching about how you are online… it’s only a matter of opinion. Yes, people aren’t gonna like you. Not everyone will.

Everybody wants to speak their minds on the internet. That’s what the internet is good for. It’s a powerful tool to express yourself publicly and gets things off of your system. It’s a powerful tool to say whatever you want. However, when you say things that people disagree with or get offended… they expect you to change so you can satisfy them. When you say things people don’t like, they complain. They attack. Bash you. Call you out. They expect to change your opinions and views on certain topics. They bark orders at you. They control you.

I have had this problem for over 10 years or more. They expect me to post things that people are gonna like every time. They expect me to make them happy 24/7.

No matter how good of a person you are or how nice of a person you are online, you are always gonna get haters and bullies all over you. You can’t let people control you like that.

It’s your life. Be who you want to be and fuck everybody. Just say what you want to say. Get what’s off of your mind and ignore everybody’s hateful opinions and misinformation about you.

It’s not you. It says something about them when all they want to do is talk all kinds of shit about you. They are nothing more than envious. They wanna be you. I mean, think about it right? If they really don’t like you and hate you, then they wouldn’t waste all that effort to write all that shit about you online.

You don’t need to listen to others criticism about you.

When you want to have a web presence online and get yourself out there… you’ll get all kinds of critics from people… yes even your own family members and your closest friends can become haters too.  A lot of people just bully you around ’cause they find it entertaining to them, that’s pretty much the only reason they do it. They get a laugh out of it and they become obsessed with it. They won’t stop until their fingers fall off, trust me.

These people think they are telling the truth about you but in reality they are full of shit. Everything that comes out of their mouth is all bullshit. They just do nothing but try to put you down and trying to make you feel bad. That’s all they’re doing.

You don’t have to say things that everyone agrees with or say stuff that are positive. If you wanna have a negative opinion on something or say something offensive, go for it. There’s nothing wrong with it.

I’ll admit that I’ve said some pretty negative things about women in the past on how they are all gold diggers and how they are the same but that’s in the past though. As years went along, I made a vow I would no longer talk about women like that and be more positive if I want to be more successful. Of course, trolls and bullies would just do anything to make me look bad by bringing up something about me from the past when I’m not like that anymore.

I try to change for the better but no matter what I do, someone is always going to come around and be offended at something I post. That’s why I’m done satisfying or pleasing other people.

I don’t have to do what other people say. Nobody tells me what I can or can’t say, ya know?

I don’t need anybody’s help. I don’t need anybody’s advice. I’m a grown man and adult enough to take care of myself.

When you want to make the haters and bullies go away, the only way to handle them is to ignore them completely. I gotta do that. Starting now.

As of this point, I have turned off the “re-blogging” option for my own reasons. I’m also trying to figure out how to Ip block someone so this certain someone would stop reading my blog, I’m looking into it and doing wordpress research.

Kev

Edit to add: Fixed this post up a little bit and added a few things.