Thought For the Day: Good advice to those living the single life…

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It’s unfair that people who have stayed single for a long time or if you’re a virgin get accused of being losers. They get negatively judged by accusing singles of being undesirable or unwanted. They’ll start saying negative and spiteful things about you like you are not attractive enough to get a significant other. They’ll also make ridiculous claims that you’ll never get somebody ’cause you’re not financially stable. It’s all bullshit. You gotta stop listening to negative people and doubters.

Maybe people have stayed single for most of their life is for a pretty good reason? Saving themselves for someone special. There are way too many people in this day and age rushing to get into a relationship, get married and all that stuff when you don’t need to. If you wanna wait to get into a relationship at a late age is actually the best thing you could do. Nothing wrong with it. It’s actually a very positive thing to do ’cause living the single life isn’t that bad at all. As a matter of fact, it can actually be great.

It’s sad that most people can’t stay single even for a little bit. Once they break off a relationship, sure enough, they’ll get themselves into another one pretty quickly. Then they get their heart broken again. It can’t be denied that people are weird and crazy when it comes to relationships. Why would I wanna go through all that? Getting into all that drama, soap opera and gossiping has never been my thing.

I wanna get myself a woman sometime but in no hurry for it. I’m still gonna do all I can, though but gonna take the dating scene very seriously and find the right match. Find the women who’ll accept me for who I am and will like me for me. I’m looking for true love and companionship is what I want. I wanna be loved and will return the same feelings if I find the right one.

I’m not gonna become the “player” type ’cause the game does look kind of dangerous and risky. I think I would prefer to be the “ladies man” type better. There is a big difference between the two. “Ladies Man” as in someone who enjoys being around women and I think I’ve already have become that. I’m looking for friendship, companionship and possibly more.

Don’t rush yourself. I’ve known plenty of people who have gotten married at a real late age. Enjoy life. You don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy.

Kev

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