One thing I’ve noticed with guys in facebook is that they seem to go around using facebook as a way to hit on beautiful women. A lot of men in facebook like to shower women with compliments on their good looks, flirting with them all the time or even worse I see a lot of guys writing sexual comments to them. I see that stuff all the time, everyday. In my opinion, that’s the wrong thing to do. You shouldn’t treat women in facebook like that, ya know? Putting women on pedestals and feeding into their egos… giving them more attention. Most guys use facebook hoping to hook up with hot women and hoping to get laid and stuff.
I try not to treat women like that at all in facebook. I like to treat them like human beings. Ya know, a person. I don’t treat women like sex objects in facebook like most guys tend to do. I like to start conversations with women in facebook. I like to swap private messages back and forth to talk about whatever and I like to talk with them publicly too. I try not to talk all romantic and try not to talk sexual with them and stuff ’cause if you do that, you’re in a risk of getting “friend zoned”.
Treating women in facebook like people is probably the best thing to do. I like to talk to women in facebook about normal things like music, movies and things like that. Treat women with respect and maybe they will be interested in dating ya, who knows? Yeah, there are some women that I talk to in facebook on a regular basis which is cool. When they respond to all your messages right away, it’s a pretty good sign that they might like you. Keep it up and who knows what might happen.
Kev