This is an interesting article I just found through facebook and I thought I would share it here. Why is it that some people find me very intimidating and might find others the same? For many years, people were always scared to death of me and I could never figure out why. People over the internet are scared to death of me and people through the local musicians community are scared to death of me too.
This article pretty much explains it all perfectly. This article is pretty much spot on. I like all these signs.
I especially love reasons #1, #2, #3, #9 and #10.
I may be controversial and a bit “extreme” admittedly but in reality, I can have a lot of heart and can be kind to people. Really, I do care about people, it’s just that I’m not afraid to be real. I’m just tired of fake people these days and there are plenty out there for sure. I’m just not afraid to be me and that’s the biggest reason people find me intimidating. I’m just not afraid to be who I want to be and that’s it, ya know?
Nowadays, people are afraid to be themselves. Like, they hide their honest thoughts to themselves and they try their best to fit in the crowd. Not me, though. People like to judge me as a mean person and a “bully” but don’t believe the hype. I can be good to others. There are people in my world who I look up to and check in on them to see how they’re doing and all that stuff, sure. I can be nice to those only if you treat me the same way you like to be treated.
I have a lot of supportive people for a reason. In today’s society, it seems like being a real, honest and good person is intimidating to some which is sad.
Maybe all this is why I’m such an easy target by internet trolls and cyberbullies all the time. They can’t take that I’m a real person and it kills them.
I don’t mean to talk about myself in this post but to help inspire others as well.