Another great facebook meme that is worth re-sharing.

Whether you want to admit it or not, this meme is true.

I’m pretty sure you have some crushes in your facebook friends list of who you would like to sleep with and do naughty things with. Ya know what I’m talking about, getting laid.

Admittedly, I have several crushes on women that should be nameless in my facebook account. I’m sure you guys do as well, don’t lie about it. I’m pretty sure women also have crushes on men that they would like to do naughty things with but women are better at hiding it, though.

While I’m not all for internet dating really, there are several women in my facebook friends list who I wouldn’t mind dating or even going to bed with. A few of them are single and a few of them are already taken.

Nothing wrong with fantasizing over women you have a crush on. I’ve had many crushes with women over the years of my life but of course, I never got my chance with any of them. Hopefully that will change though and I will soon get women in my life. Just wait… I’ll make it happen.

Kev

A lot of couples these days: boyfriend & girlfriend, husband & wife never meet in public places anymore like it used to be in the old days. Couples still meet in public places in person but it doesn’t happen much anymore. Why? It’s simply because that meeting your mate and romantic partner is mostly done online these days. With the likes of facebook, tinder, OkCupid, plentyoffish, craigslist, etc. In my opinion, I think meeting somebody online is kind of a terrible place to meet your lover. Why would you want your first meeting to be remembered for that? When somebody asks you “How did you meet” and if you say “Online”, that would be kind of silly. I mean, don’t you want your first meeting of your significant other to be somewhere special and something you can remember? I think it be better if you meet your partner at a coffeehouse or a grocery store or just meeting her while going out for a stroll or she could have been one of your co-workers on your job. Maybe you met her at a local band show, at the gym or at the library. Yep, people don’t meet their lovers like that anymore. It’s all on facebook or tinder or where ever.

I disagree with online dating ’cause it makes it look too easy and it also makes it looks like you don’t have any confidence at all. That’s why I’m doing all this reading & research on the dating scene so I can learn how to build my confidence and it is working if I must say. For the past year or so, I’ve grown more confidence over women than ever before and I don’t think I’m afraid of them anymore. The goal is that I wanna try to meet somebody out there in public. Not do it online. Grow some confidence and talk to women in person rather than talk to them online. I wanna see if I can do it the old school way.

Of course, back in the old days, we didn’t have any of this technology and internet stuff so couples had no choice but to meet in public places. THat’s my goal, I’m gonna do it the old-school way. See if I can meet her in public places like the cafe in town, the grocery store, the gym, maybe just walking in the street and find somebody interesting. That’s what I’m gonna try to do.

I’m not a big fan of dating online ’cause I’ve had bad experience with that in the past so I don’t think I’ll do it again. You can’t trust people you meet online ’cause a lot of women online can be frauds. I mean… they make themselves look beautiful and hot online but when you actually met her in person, you’ll be like, “No thanks”. Plus a lot of women online lie about their weight too. Women would try to make themselves look skinny and thin when the reality is they are pretty obese so you gotta watch out for that, ya know?

Yep, so I’m not really a big fan of online dating. I’d rather meet her in the real world and that’s my goal.

Kev

You hear this all the time from people. You hear this from single women and single men. Ya know, people who don’t have a romantic partner in their lives right now. Many claim the reason that they are happy being single. They make claims that they are happy being single ’cause they hate the dating scene and they don’t want to go through another heartbreak and all that stuff. Single women like to bash men and blame them, single men like to bash women and blame them.

I really think it’s a lie when people make claims they are happy being “single” ’cause you know for a fact that they are not. Everybody hates being lonely and some are just afraid to admit it for whatever reason. In the past, I used to make the claim that I’m happy being single but now I’m not afraid to admit that I hate being single. Being lonely does kind of suck and it’s not that hard to admit either. Why do some people have a hard time admitting it? Is it because to make other people around them feel proud of you? That’s probably it, I would think.

Don’t listen to people who claim they love being single ’cause the next thing you know, they hook up with someone very quickly. Usually the people who claim they love being single are lying. When single women make those claims, I think they do it as a way to help stop more guys from trying to hook up with them, ya know?

Yeah, I do hate being single and it sucks. I’m working on it, though. Working on it the best I can. Did a lot of research in the dating game and I continue to do research to this day. I’m learning and trying to figure out how it’s done and I wanna do it right. Not mess up. Ya know, get women in my life.

I’ve had a couple of women who seemed interested in me but they live too far, though. I don’t think I’ll do long distance dating ’cause it isn’t for me, really. I’m gonna be looking for women more locally. Date women who are in my hometown of Greenwich or anywhere near here like Saratoga Springs. I wanna date someone who lives closer to me, ya know? Long distance dating usually doesn’t work anyway and I tried it before… I’m not a big fan of long distance relationships.

Yep being single sucks and I’m doing all I can to switch from “single” to “happily taken”. Doing all I can to get there and it’ll happen hopefully soon. I’m not gonna sleep around random women at all if that’s what you’re thinking. No way… I’m not gonna be a player at all. I’m looking for the love of my life, my best friend and soul mate. Somebody to hopefully get married to.

Kev

One thing I’ve noticed with guys in facebook is that they seem to go around using facebook as a way to hit on beautiful women. A lot of men in facebook like to shower women with compliments on their good looks, flirting with them all the time or even worse I see a lot of guys writing sexual comments to them. I see that stuff all the time, everyday. In my opinion, that’s the wrong thing to do. You shouldn’t treat women in facebook like that, ya know? Putting women on pedestals and feeding into their egos… giving them more attention. Most guys use facebook hoping to hook up with hot women and hoping to get laid and stuff.

I try not to treat women like that at all in facebook. I like to treat them like human beings. Ya know, a person. I don’t treat women like sex objects in facebook like most guys tend to do. I like to start conversations with women in facebook. I like to swap private messages back and forth to talk about whatever and I like to talk with them publicly too. I try not to talk all romantic and try not to talk sexual with them and stuff ’cause if you do that, you’re in a risk of getting “friend zoned”.

Treating women in facebook like people is probably the best thing to do. I like to talk to women in facebook about normal things like music, movies and things like that. Treat women with respect and maybe they will be interested in dating ya, who knows? Yeah, there are some women that I talk to in facebook on a regular basis which is cool. When they respond to all your messages right away, it’s a pretty good sign that they might like you. Keep it up and who knows what might happen.

Kev

Yeah, another one of those dating videos in youtube but this one is worth posting. I have been told by many people that I’m not attractive enough to date beautiful women. Ya know, the hot ones. The ones with the drop-dead gorgeous face, a great body and the ones with the great tits. Some think I can’t get those kind of women, hey?

According to this guy, he says looks doesn’t really matter to attractive women and I totally agree. I’ve been saying that for a while on here now that looks don’t matter. There is also this myth going around that men think women are gold diggers and they think they only date men who are wealthy/rich. That’s not true either. You see women don’t care if you’re not attractive or not rich at all. What they want is that they want men who are able to has what it takes to treat them like a queen. That’s all they want really. They don’t care about looks or money.

I agree with this guy that I too have seen the most ugliest looking guys that get a lot of hot women.

Maybe I’m not the best looking guy in the world but I’m noticing that more women have showed interest in me lately, the good looking ones. Maybe it’s because they know that I’m a good guy, ya know? That’s what these women look for… they look for nice guys. Good guys is very rare for women these days ’cause they always date the jerks and they don’t like that.

Looks don’t matter. I could go out there right now and get myself a nice looking 9 or a 10. All it takes to get the hot women is confidence and making her happy. Treat her like a human being. If you do that, she could be all over you and she’ll be in bed with you before you know it. I can get any woman, it’s just the matter of doing it right and treating her good. I just gotta get out there and prove those doubters wrong that I can get the beautiful women. Honestly, I think the good looking chicks do like me so I should do fine. I am working on it, though.

There is love for everyone out there, remember that.

I gotta stop listening to negative people when it comes to the dating scene ’cause all they’re gonna do is make it look like that I can’t get women at all. I gotta stop listening to those assholes and gotta try to prove ’em wrong and I will, trust me. I’m starting to get out there to talk to women so I’m working on it and practicing. Women are not gonna bite at all, even the beautiful ones.

I can be a very lovable and romantic guy to women, watch me. I have what it takes to make ’em happy and I’ll show people I can do this.

Kev

Came across this excellent meme in Facebook and decided to share it. A good meme for those who are single and available.

This is my goal. This is what I want is to be able to wake up in bed with a woman every morning. Someday I’ll make it happen.

I guess what they all say is to take it slow, make her feel safe and not to be all needy. Follow those steps and she’ll end up in bed with you is how it goes? Not all women are quick with relationships… some take it slow and some don’t. Every woman is different, ya know?

Getting into a reationship with a woman shouldn’t be all that hard. If other guys can do it then I should be able to as well. I gotta have the balls to be a leader and be more confident… and I’m working on both.

I don’t think I’m shy around women anymore like I used to be. I’m starting to talk to women out there in public places so I’m working on it.

Doing all I can to get a woman in my arms or even better get her in bed with me.

Someday it’s gonna happen. I deserve a woman and I’m sure you guys agree and I’m sure you like to see me get one. Sit tight, it’ll happen. I won’t fail and will prove those doubters wrong.

Kev

I know I can be a lovable guy to women. I know I have what it takes to give them what they want. Just need to find the right one, ya know?

Getting women to like you is easy, I can do that with no problem but getting all romantic with them is the tough part, though. I’ll figure it out and find a way. Just gotta stay positive and know that I can do this.

I’ll find the love of my life someday and that’s what I’m looking for, really!

Kev

Admittedly I used to be very shy around women I don’t know. I’m usually quiet around them. I’m usually talkative to women that I already know if you know what I mean by that. I’m not alone though ’cause other guys can be this way too.

I’m beginning to realize that talking to random women out there, the ones you don’t know at all isn’t that bad. They aren’t gonna bite. Most of them are pretty down to earth and easy to talk to. Sometimes you will run into a mean and grumpy woman when she does act mean like that, just forget her and say “next please”.

When I went to that music festival in Greenwich back on Aug. 1st and talked to a couple of women I never knew, it gave me a big confidence boost for sure. Talking to strange women you don’t know is definitely a practice and learning skill for sure but at least it helped get me started into talking to women more, ya know?

Even if the women you meet maybe taken, at least you tried and it’ll help give you more experience in meeting women so you got to learn to be proud of that.

I gotta go out there and do that more often. Talk to women more, any woman. It’s not that hard just to go up to her and say, “Hi, how are ya”.

I have been taking all the stuff I’ve learned from all the self help dating instruction and putting them into action and some of that stuff actually works and is helpful. Most of it’s bullshit but some of it is useful.

Kev

I’m not trying to sound like an internet dating guru or anything but last night I went to a local music festival in Greenwich. The band EBJ held their very first music festival in my hometown in Greenwich. It was fun. Saw a bunch of bands play. They were all great.

Anyway, if you guys want women to come to you at band shows, bars, clubs where there’s music and dancing… don’t just stand there looking like a bum. Women want to see guys having a fun time and enjoying themselves. They don’t like guys being bored and being lazy. Women wanna have fun. You see, when I go to band shows and things like that, I don’t go around asking random women to dance with. I just dance myself and wait for them to come to me and they usually do. Just dance, smile, and make it look like you’re having a fun time. When women see that you’re having a fun time, they’ll approach you first.

Here’s a pic of me dancing with some gorgeous girl I didn’t even know. She approached me first. When she approached me, she started talking to me so I put my hands out and she took them so we dance throughout most of EBJ’s set. I think it may have been possible that she was attracted to me and had the hots for me or something. She wouldn’t leave me alone, ha! Not a bad thing though ’cause I enjoyed hanging out with her throughout most of EBJ’s set. She showed some signs of interest or better known as IOI (Indicator of Interest). I didn’t ask her for her name first ’cause I was waiting for her to ask my name first and she did. (That’s an IOI). Then she asked me where I was from (Another IOI). During the show, when she started talking to somebody else, I felt her touch the back of my arm (another IOI, that’s when I started thinking to myself, “Yep, I think this chick wants me or something”).

Not sure if she was single or already taken but she was with some other guy I believe. I was gonna try a number close on her and really wanted to but had to leave the show early. I would have if I stayed for rest of the show though. Oh well, bummer. Maybe I’ll see her again at another EBJ show ’cause she is a fan of that band. EBJ is lucky… they get all the hot babes at their shows.

Above is the pic just so I can prove to you that I can get women to dance with me at shows and not making it up. So enjoy the pic.

I had another girl approach me during EBJ’s set but she was drunk and really stoned out of her mind, though. She offered me a hit of her joint that she was smoking in front of everyone but I politely said “No” ’cause I don’t smoke weed anymore. Had to stop it.

It was a good time last night. That’s why my blog slowed down yesterday ’cause I was gone most of the day.

Anyway, why do you think women who have boyfriends & stuff look around for other guys to dance with at live bands shows & clubs? Probably because their boyfriends are bums and they don’t give their women enough attention. HA! The women wanna have fun and their man refuses to dance with them ’cause they don’t like dancing.

Kev