Man, I gotta stop reading all of these ebooks and stop watching all of these youtube dating videos on how to pickup chicks and actually go out and do these things for real. I think I learned enough about how women are in the dating scene so I should have no problem. I gotta work on achieving my goal in 2014 to meet as many women as possible. Try to talk to women I never met before is the goal.

I won’t do the bar and club scene but I’ll try to meet chicks at other places like the gym, library, the mall, etc. I could do the internet too yes but I want to try to build up my confidence with women by talking to them face to face in person. It’s a learning and practice skill indeed and I have been practicing as you can tell.

One thing I’ve been doing a lot is smiling to women more in public places and trying to be in an upbeat and happy mood when talking to her as well.

A lot of guys only date chicks ’cause they think they’re beautiful. Nothing wrong with that. I like beautiful and gorgeous women myself but I look more at her personality than anything, though. She have to be a good match with me. Have lots in common. She don’t have to be a musician but it would be cool. If she’s not a musician, then she must have a love for music at least. I would like her to be a movie buff like myself. I would also like somebody who is talkative and can hold a conversation. No drama and negative bullshit. I won’t play games with them. If they give me bullshit and soap opera stuff or if they cheat on me, I’ll be the one to dump ’em asap.

Yes, when I start talking to women in public places… I know some will not be interested in talking to me or already have a boyfriend/married but when you run into women like that, nothing to see there… move on to the next girl.

I know some people out there will have negative opinions about me in the dating scene. Some will say I don’t have what it takes and will think women won’t want me but I disagree. There is someone for everyone no matter what you think of the person. A lot of women out there may not be interested in you but keep looking… there will be a woman out there for you who will have a major crush on you. Don’t listen to negative people and prove them wrong. Prove them wrong that you have what it takes in the dating scene and I’m about to do just that. Prove everyone wrong.

I used to think women are difficult people but they are really not. Women will date guys no matter the looks or who you are. They just want a confident man and to be safe around with, ya know? Learn how to talk to them and you can get any woman you want. Even the hot ones.

I’m working on my confidence and trying the best I can. I have to get rid of the shyness around women. It’s gotta be done.

Check out this nice video by this woman giving dating advice:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSLa_v6WHo

Kev

I know some people out there want me to pursue this dream… go after a big career in music. Ya know… constantly gig a lot, playing the big shows, and bigger stages and all that stuff. Maybe even get signed to an indie label or something like that. All that stuff would be kind of cool, admittedly. The only problem with that is, all that stuff requires a lot of traveling and I don’t drive. I’m gonna hopefully work on getting my license soon.

I could pursue a career like that… kind of like what EBJ is doing but other than that, I’m just not taking myself too serious. I’m just enjoying life and enjoying myself playing music.

However, it is possible to get big and well-known over the internet. The internet is a big-deal these days so I could focus on being an internet-only musician which is part of why I wanna do the internet album and live-stream show. You can do some pretty cool and creative things with the internet to get yourself known as an artist.

How do you think Justin Bieber and all those youtube musicians get so big and popular? It is possible to get big over the internet.

I would like a big career in music but I’m not too worried about it. It would be awesome to perform the big theater stages and arenas, though. An indie career could be possible but I just like playing music for the love of it. I’m not that desperate for it, ya know?

I’ll just keep playing the music and see what happens. That’s all I can say.

Kev

I used to think that women wouldn’t date me ’cause they would find me unattractive looking and all that stuff but this nice lady in this video is so right that I gotta stop being so negative on myself when it comes to getting women. I gotta start being more positive on myself if I wanna be successful in the dating scene. That’s getting worked on too as you can see. I’m just beginning to see that maybe a lot of women out there do like me after all. She’s saying if you be more positive on yourself, your confidence will grow and you can get any woman you want even the hottest ones out there with great boobs and all. This was a cool video so I decided to share it here.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTSLXN8_T6E&feature=c4-overview&list=UU1rYBR1t45OA1EXexmPM1sQ

Kev

Last week I accidentally busted my output jack on my electric Hollow Body guitar and I’m like, “Oh shit, will I have to take a trip to Parkway Music to get this output jack repaired”? So to save the trip and gas money, I decided that this fix should be quick and easy to repair myself so I went looking for how to videos in youtube. Found a few useful videos in youtube on how to fix output jacks on Hollow Body electrics and I fixed it myself with no problems. It was a quick and easy fix like I figured. After I successfully screwed the jack back on, I plugged in my electric guitar to my amp and it worked perfectly. So that saves the trip to the repair shop. I couldn’t believe how simple it was.

I wanna start making some electric guitar rock songs. Just demos and song ideas for now with no bass and drums. Someday, I will form my own rock n’ roll band, though. I’m just not ready yet. I may be a pretty good rhythm guitar player but still got a lot of work to do on lead guitar. I’m trying to improve myself on lead guitar too ’cause I wanna be able to play my own guitar solos and jam out. I’m learning to play better guitar, though… learning more music theory, scales, modes, ear training, etc. Yes, I’m still learning all that stuff.

Back to the topic, though, it was pretty cool that I fixed something myself on an electric guitar. Glad that I didn’t have to pay someone else to fix it. I’ll be careful with my electric guitar from now on, though. I’ll be sure not to break off the output jack again.

Kev

So I’ve seen “Grudge Match”, “American Hustle” and there’s one more 2013 movie left that I need to see which is “The Hobbit: Desolation of Smaug”. I’m probably gonna see “Desolation of Smaug” tomorrow as soon as I see that film, I’ll work on getting the Best/Worst of Movies list of 2013 up on this site.

I’ve already picked my no. 1 choice and I’m not saying anything until the list is out. I remember last year, I picked “Les Miserables” as the no. 1 movie of 2012 and I still stand by it too. This year will be something different.

I love doing these Best of yearly lists. They maybe different lists than other movie critics but that’s the point of ’em. Just my way of showing people that these lists are my opinions alone and I don’t go by everyone else.

I’ll try to get the list up tomorrow. There’s a pretty good chance that I’m going to the mall to do some shopping and see a movie for something to do.

Kev

Most guys are into relationships for the sex. Not with me, though! Don’t get me wrong. Sex is important in an relationship, I would want it but that’s secondary to me. I’m all about the “love” and “romance” part of it. Most people can’t see it but I believe I have what it takes to make women real happy. So to all the women who refuses to date me, they are really missing out! I believe I can be a romantic guy. Some of you may have seen that I can be real nice and sweet to women. That’s just me, ya know? I enjoy making them smile and making them happy. That’s key to getting women to like you, I think. You want them to like you… you gotta be thinking about them and NOT about yourself.

Yes, a lot of women are gonna continue to reject me and I’ll probably get stuck in the friend zone ’cause I don’t have a job and a car but if I keep looking… I’ll find a nice woman who will accept you for who you are and not as shallow. Not all women are selfish gold diggers. You just gotta find ’em.

Another question is, will I date a woman who already has a child? I probably will end up doing that. I used to want a single woman with no children so I can get a family of my own but you’re not gonna find much women with no children in this day and age. There are single Moms all over the place. I would date a woman with one or two kids but if she has more than that, no thank you. Dating a single Mom would be kind of tough, though. You have to learn to accept the fact that she’s going to love her kid more than you. She’ll see her kid as her first priority and you secondary. That’s the tough part about dating single Moms, I think. You have to deal with being around her kid all of the time and being able to accept it.

If I ever do get a girlfriend, though, will I ever introduce her to everyone online? Not sure. I really should keep my relationship with women as private as possible ’cause I don’t want haters or anonymous trolls saying bad stuff about her or our relationship, ya know? I think it might be best if I keep her identity secret for protection and safety and stuff.

I’ll make the girlfriend thing happen this year the best I can. There’s a few single women in facebook (yes, they all have a kid) who I might be interested in so I’ll give them a try. I’m serious that I will do something about it instead of sitting around doing nothing and waiting. Women won’t fall in your lap. It’s the guy’s responsibility to go out there and get her yourself. If you like a girl it shouldn’t be that hard to start up a conversation with her and ask her out later.

I will work on getting a job and my driver’s license/car this  year if that what will take to get women, though.

Kev

What C.S. Lewis said is right. You’re never too old for anything. I may have started bodybuilding and guitar playing both at a late age (I started playing guitar at the age of 18) but age doesn’t make a difference to do what you wanna do in life.

I may not have gotten married yet when a lot of people have gotten married at a young age but I’m in no rush for marriage. I have no problem getting married at a late age. I will get married to a nice woman sometime but only to the right one.

If I want to go back to school, get my license and get a good paying job… I can do all that stuff any time.

I used to think I was a bit old to get into bodybuilding but after seeing people in their 50’s working out in the gym… I thought… why not?

I have a lot of goals in life that I wanna achieve and trying my best to achieve them all.

Kev

I think I’m pretty much all set with all the movies that I wanted to see in 2013 except there are two left of that year. I still need to see “American Hustle” and “The Hobbit 2”. As soon as I see those two films, I’ll get the Best/worst of movies list up on the site asap. I wanna see if those two movies are worth it to make the list.

I have no interest in seeing, “The Wolf of Wall Street” ’cause I’m no fan of Leo Dicaprio and pretty sick of him so I’ll wait for rental on that one.

Last year was a pretty good year for Hollywood. A lot of good films came out last year and you’ll see that list soon.

Kev

I figure my final post of 2013 would to show off my end of the year fitness progress a little bit. I’ll have a few more pics coming tomorrow.

This pic is just me showing my arms, shoulders, traps, etc.

You see the size of that arm, haters? You haters better watch who you’re talking shit at or else I’m gonna around and open a big can of whoop ass!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway, like I said, I don’t go out on New Year’s Eve. Today, I spent some time trying to finish up “Grand Theft Auto V”, and then I watched, “Man of Steel” on Blu Ray.

What are my New Year’s Resolutions? Well, to be honest, I hate naming New Year’s Resolutions ’cause most of those things don’t happen anyway, ha! Ah well, I’ll name some of them anyway… 1) keep committed in bodybuilding in 2014, eat cleaner and workout harder 2) Try to get myself a nice woman 3) Hopefully, get myself a job this year 4) Keep making music. These are in no particular order really.

Enjoy tonight. Hope you’re staying safe and stay out of trouble. Don’t get yourself arrested either!

Kev