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Book Review: “The Art of Asking” by Amanda Palmer…

Today I’ve just finished reading “The Art of Asking” by Amanda Palmer and here is my review.

I have been a fan of Amanda Palmer ever since I’ve seen her inspiring TEDtalk from last year (see video below).

Amanda Palmer is known as the singer of the Dresden Dolls and she’s also most famous for being the “Queen of Kickstarter”. She was successful at Kickstarter for raising millions of dollars for her solo album, “Theater Is Evil” that was released in 2012.

This book is not just a memoir. It’s also a self-help book, the way I looked at it. I’ve read a lot of celebrity memoirs over the years and I’ll tell you. This book here was the most honest and real memoir I’ve ever read. It really was a powerful, moving and inspiring read. Amanda wrote this book as if she’s writing on a blog. She spoke from her mind. Writing all of her thoughts down.

She told interesting stories of how she made a living over the years. She didn’t want to get a regular 9 to 5 full time job like most normal people. She wanted to make money her own way… just by “asking”. Not really “begging”. She started off being a street performer. She started off as a living statue, the 8 foot bride… where she would dress up in a wedding dress and paint her face white. She would have a hat in front of her where people can put money in and when people put money in, she’ll give them a flower. She went from being a street performer to a musician. You probably remember that name Amanda Palmer of her famous band, The Dresden Dolls (I’m sure you’ve heard of them before).

This book is not just about Amanda and music. It’s not about her kickstarter success. This book is all about the art of learning how to “ask”. She just wants you to learn to not be afraid to ask for things like money, help, friendship, love, etc. Whatever. That’s what she teaches you in this book.

I couldn’t put this book down. It took me like 3 or 4 days to read. I’m glad I read it. Now that I finished it, I really want to get into Amanda Palmer’s music now and I’m planning on getting her Dresden Dolls albums and her solo albums too. She really is an inspiring woman. I started looking up to her ’cause she reminds me of myself in so many ways. She’s controversial and different. She’s trying to be understood… just like myself. She maybe the most hated woman on the internet but she’s passionate about the things that she does whether it’s her music or writing. She is somebody I would like to meet in person someday and she is somebody that I could talk to for hours and hours.

She maybe a little weird and a little crazy but who isn’t, ya know? We all are so what’s the big freakin’ deal??? I respect her for wanting to help people and she’s just an awesome woman. I’ve been following her social networking stuff since her TEDtalk last year and still follow her stuff today.

If you like inspiring and powerful reads, you should definitely check this book out. I am glad to finally have read it.

Kev

Thought: Music should really be about pleasing yourself, and not other people…

I know I posted something like this before, but since I came across Amanda Palmer’s Ted Talk video today, I thought I would get this off my chest now.

All bands & musicians want to get discovered and get heard. I hear ya. I want to be discovered and get heard for my own music as well. There are plenty of bands & solo artists struggling to get heard and become established for their talent. All bands & artists expect to be super popular with their music, and they expect to please everyone with their tunes, but does music have to be that way? No! Absolutely NOT! I’ve been a struggling solo musician for years, and still am. I have a hard time being accepted as an actual musician and songwriter. A lot of people want to be critical, hateful, and opinionated about my music and my dreams. I’m sure a lot of them go through the same thing. You get all kinds of musicians trash talking you. Getting rejected by the clubs. Getting rejected by record labels. Not getting much support from actual music fans. Not getting much support from your own family and friends. All that stuff. You get the deal. I’m going through all that too.

I try my best to improve my talent and musicianship, so I can be accepted and welcomed in the music community, but after seeing Amanda Palmer’s video here, just made me look at music in a totally different way. She’s struggling through the music industry herself. Amanda Palmer (former Dresden Dolls singer), has been dealing with a lot of negative stuff with the labels, but that’s not stopping her from doing what she loves. Playing music in bands. So she starts her own kickstarter campaign which earned her over a million dollars to help finish her album with her current band she’s in. How did she get all that money? Just by asking people, and not demanding. Despite the negative stuff she’s going through, she keeps going with the music ’cause that’s what she loves to do.

It doesn’t matter how many people think she sucks musically or how many people dislike her. If music is your passion, you shouldn’t have to give it up for anything. It’s about what you want to do and not worry about anyone else. If music is what you like to do, fuck everybody, and just do it. If you want to be proud of your music and enjoy your own music, nothing wrong with that either. Bands & musicians shouldn’t listen to negative people.

Like always, I do music for me. It’s good to let the music speak on it’s own. It’s all up to the people if they want to support it or not. I want a lot of people to support my music, yes, but if it doesn’t happen at all, I’m all good and cool with it. Even if you’re a struggling musician and if your music is not for everyone, chances are, you WILL still have loyal fans and supporters. There will be people who will be kind enough to support you, every step of the way. I have a very small fan base (I think, anyway), and I’m fine with just a few supporters enjoying my music.

I also agree with Amanda, that more bands and artists should be giving away their music for free. I always saw that music should be a free market, and I’ve been saying that in these blogs for many years. I’ve always gave out my music for free. Why? Because, it shows, I was never into music for the money, and it’s a good marketing skill. I think unsigned and local bands are very delusional when they want to sell their music and make money off of it. A lot of bands are selling their albums at ridiculously high prices, somewhere around $10 – $15. Sure, I understand bands want the money back after all that money spent on studio time, but if you give your music out for free, people will respect you even more. Amanda gave her album with her band out for free ’cause it would be wrong if fans would have to pay for it again after they had to pay for your kickstarter campaign. With this being local and unsigned music, bands & musicians have the power to give out their music however they want to. Music doesn’t always have to be about the money. I was never about the money. I don’t do music for that. I do music for the love of writing songs, and playing on the stage. I don’t care to make as much fans and money as possible.

If you want your kickstarter campaign to work and be successful, asking, instead of demanding is the trick.

Thanks to the gorgeous Amanda Palmer for this powerful and inspirational speech. She just got a whole lot of respect from me. I’ll be following her stuff. Somebody introduced me this video in facebook after I complained about being a struggling musician, and she made me feel better!

Kev