This guy’s channel is one of my favorite youtube channel’s. This guy Shogo Garcia is not really a dating guru. He teaches people in youtube how to socialize with people. Have good conversation and all that stuff. He does give dating advice with women but most of this channel, he focuses on conversation skills.

I figure this video deserves more views so I would share it here.

Over the years of my life, I’ve been rejected from women who I’ve had big crushes on and I’ve been friend zoned by some of them too. That’s probably why I gave up searching for women in the past ’cause I felt like a failure and felt terrible about it.

After watching this video, getting rejected is not a problem. This guy explains it’s a gift when getting rejected. It’s part of an experience. No matter what people say or think, you are still winning by living your life and breathing. Even if you get rejected and she says “No”, you’re not losing… you’re winning. He’s saying that you didn’t get rejected, you’re still part of the world.

So when I start searching for women again, I’m probably gonna continue to get rejected and get friend zoned a lot but I gotta learn to stop feeling guilty about it. I gotta accept it as a gift, know that I’m still living and breathing. I gotta learn to treat rejections more positively and feel proud about it.

Getting rejected and friend zoned is the name of the game. You’re gonna go through it a lot when searching for a date. I gotta learn how to be strong, deal with it and feel proud that I tried to ask her out. Even if I tried to ask her out and she said “no”, don’t feel guilty, it’s the right step in the right direction. I gotta keep going. Keep finding the woman who WILL want me in her life.

This was a really good video that I think you should check out. It’s a good message and I thank Shogo for this. He seems like a cool guy to hang out with!

Kev