Another video gone viral is worth sharing here. A video that investigates the life of being single and investigating what is the word “love”. This video wants to send a positive message that it’s okay to be single. Study says that 40% or over, people are living the single life. Meaning, being single for most of your entire life. This video uses real singles and real couples to talk about this. Check out the video below.
As someone who have lived life being single, I can totally relate to this video. People always mistakenly believe that you need to be in a relationship to be happy. Not exactly true. People also mistakenly believe that it’s pathetic and wrong for people who don’t date. Not true either. A lot of people have criticized me for not having a significant other. Nothing wrong with living life single and you can STILL be very happy being single. A lot of people out there can’t stay single ’cause they hate being alone. Why? What’s wrong with being alone? Being alone can actually be the greatest thing ever. You can do what you want to. More freedom. No drama. No negativity.
While I would like to be in a relationship myself, I’m not that desperate about it. I’m just happy being me and that’s all that it matters. All I wanna do in life is lift weights, play my guitar, watch movies, play video games, etc.
Don’t get me wrong, though, I have tried the “relationship” thing before in the past and they just didn’t work out. I hung out with women before but they were just friends and nothing serious. I tried dating a few women in the past briefly, and they just didn’t work out.
Living the single life is great.
I’m still gonna try to find the love of my life but I’m in no hurry for it. Not a lot of people out there believe in being single, it’s pretty rare these days.
Maybe I’m better off staying single, ya know? Women make relationships tough on men anyways. They mostly date the bad guys anyway. A lot of ’em also just want guys with a good job, a car ’cause they want men to be able to take care of themselves. Women can be spoiled and shallow. You could risk getting your heart broken and lots of other dangerous things that could destroy you.
Speaking of risks, this video also gives you the advice that if you like someone you should take the chance by calling them and telling them… see where it takes you. Sounds like good advice that I could try myself. If she rejects you, and doesn’t want you… who cares, don’t be upset about it. That’s the message this video is sending I think.
This is a pretty inspiring and moving video and I’ll be looking forward to the next episode.
Being single can be amazing. Don’t always believe that people who live life being single are sad, lonely, and depressed people ’cause it’s not always true.
Kev
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I agree with most of this except for when you say “A lot of ‘em also just want guys with a good job, a car ’cause they want men to be able to take care of themselves. Women can be spoiled and shallow.”
That’s not spoiled or shallow. That’s just wanting a man who acts like a man. A man (or woman, really, if the situation was reversed) should be able to take care of himself.
“That’s not spoiled or shallow. That’s just wanting a man who acts like a man. A man (or woman, really, if the situation was reversed) should be able to take care of himself.”
Yeah, that’s pretty shallow no matter what you think of it. Money isn’t everything when it comes to love and marriage. There are women out there who put love first before money but there aren’t many out there these days.
Kev
It’s mostly the beautiful and hot women who want guys with a good job. An average looking woman will take any guy no matter who he is.
Kev
If I get myself a good paying job and a license/car, I’m willing to bet the dating scene would become more easier then. I’ll bet your money on it.
Kev
Don’t come on here asking questions or talking about my personal life or you’ll be banned off of here (bone). I’m sick of you doing that. It’s a part of why I think you’re an asshole.
Kev
I wasn’t asking anything personal, those were rhetorical questions.
It’s my choice whether I want to answer them or not… anyway…
I may not have a license or a job but this stuff is getting worked on. Getting a job is tough these days ’cause of the bad economics and all. Even though, I’m still unemployed, I’m just living life as best and happy as possible so I’m all good.
I may not drive but there are plenty of women that do and they won’t mind doing the driving as long as she likes you and stuff. I was friends with women in the past before who drive so they don’t mind.
If she doesn’t drive, then are ways to figure things out to go out on dates that are inexpensive and cheap. Like going for long walks, hanging out in the park, there are restaurants and diners in town…. lots of possibilities. Or even better just cuddling up and watching movies at home would be good for romantic dates too. That’s why I want a woman who is into movies/TV shows so I can have somebody to watch that stuff with.
Dating doesn’t always have to involve money. I’ve learned that women don’t want expensive dates anyways. They just want something casual.
Kev
Another thing, the reason they want guys with a good job is not because they want men to take care of themselves. That’s not the real reason at all. The real reason is that they want to live in a good home and all of these luxuries so they can raise a family and stuff. A lot of women out there love money. That’s all they want and think about. It’s interesting how defensive people get when they’re called out on their gold digging. None of ’em will ever admit their gold digging.
Kev
Are you speaking from experience?
Yeah, pretty much. I’ve gotten rejected by plenty of women ’cause they thought I wasn’t wealthy enough. If I continue to search for women, I would probably keep dealing with that shit but I just gotta keep looking until I find the one who WILL accept me for who I am. Not all women are gold diggers, you just gotta find her.
Kev
Did the women tell you to your face you weren’t wealthy enough? Or did you deduce that from something else?
No. They don’t do it to your face. Mostly online. Even if they don’t tell me, I can tell that money is all they care about and want. I’ve had women that used me for money before.
Kev
Maybe I’m wrong, though. You guys could be wrong too. It’s not always true that women won’t date “losers”.
As long as you’re a nice guy and know how to treat a woman, she’ll go out with you no matter who you are or what you look like. You’d be surprised of how many smoking hot women out there who are dating un-attractive men who are losers.
Like Tom Petty would say in a song, “Baby, even the losers get lucky sometimes”.
That’s true.
Kev