I just unsubscribed to all those dating gurus that I follow in youtube. Yes, all the male and female dating gurus. “Dating gurus” aka people who teach you how to hook up with women successfully. Nothing against them. It was nothing personal at all. They all do a good job at teaching you how to pick up women. I learned a lot from those guys. Some of it is bullshit and some of it actually helped me! Then when I discovered Neil Strauss, he’s all the dating advice that I need. Mr. Strauss is the real deal. I’m halfway through reading his book, “The Game” and it’s addicting stuff. Can’t put it down. If you want to be more successful in the dating scene learn from him. The reason I just unsubscribed to all those dating gurus is because I felt I don’t need to listen to their advices anymore. I learned plenty of info about women. I think I know what to do now so I don’t think I need to learn anymore. Unsubscribing to those dating gurus is just my way of saying to myself, “Kev, you gotta stop watching these people and go out there and do these things.”.

I would like to hire a dating coach to help me or join dating workshops but I don’t know if there are any around my area so I just teach myself the dating game. Teaching myself by reading books, watching youtube videos, reading e-books, etc. Well, I think I’m gonna stop doing that and start putting these things into action. I’m just gonna finish reading Neil Strauss’s “The Game” book and then I’ll follow his instructions through his “Rules of the Game” book and then I’m done learning from these people.

Actually, my game with women already started last year. Remember how when I go to band shows and wedding parties, women would be all over me? That’s just the beginning of it. It is true that women get all over me when I go to parties like that. I’m not making it up. It is possible to get a woman to approach you on the dance floor without you approaching her. Just dance like crazy to the music, act like you’re having a fun time by dancing and smiling, women will approach you. A lot of men are afraid of dancing but not me. Women want to have fun. They look for men who are enjoying themselves.

I remember the night of my sister’s wedding reception and I started to dance all by myself. There was this woman who just wouldn’t leave me alone. She wanted to dance with me the whole evening. She wouldn’t leave me alone for just a few seconds. My sister’s wedding reception had a live band and every time the band played a fast song, the same woman would come up to dance with me. She maybe a little older than me but she was beautiful and stunning. Only problem though, she already had a man so I didn’t bother trying to ask her out. I would have if she was single. Seriously this woman wouldn’t leave me alone that night. I was like a little confused… asking myself, “Why won’t this woman leave me alone? Does she have the hots for me or what?”. True story, I wasn’t making it up. I did enjoy her though and had a lot of fun. I’ll never forget that night.

That’s what you want to do when you go to a band show, a wedding party or a nightclub. Go on the dance floor and own it. If you own it, look like you’re having a fun time… women will approach you and you won’t have to worry about approaching women yourself at a dance party. This is why I’m thinking about trying the nightclub. Just to experiment with the nightclub scene and see how it goes. There are a couple of nightclubs around this area in Saratoga Springs… there is “Vapor” and a club called, “13”. There is also the “Putnam Den”, they have DJ’s and dancing too.

One thing I won’t do in the dating game is date women who already have boyfriends or husbands. I’ll never be that kind of guy who will take women from their man. I’ve had women who were already taken get all flirty with me before. It’s not gonna be my thing. I don’t wanna get involved in any negativity and drama.

It won’t be just for the sex with me either, I’m gonna want more than that. I’m gonna be all about love and relationships. I just wanna be accepted. Hoping I find women who will like me for me. I’m hoping for a marriage out of this so to do that, I need to date a bunch of women and find the best one. I’m not gonna feel “used” over this.

When I finish reading Neil Strauss’s “The Game”, I’ll give it a full review. It’s good stuff.

Kev