I love most holidays but like most singles, I hate Valentine’s Day. V-Tines Day is only good for those who are in relationships or married. I would like to find the love of my life at some point but in this day and age, maybe the dating world has gotten tough. It’s gotten tougher than ever before admittedly. You may want to get into a loving relationship but you could risk getting cheated on, get your heartbroken and get destroyed… etc. etc. etc. blah blah blah. You get the deal. Sometimes the dating world is good. Sometimes it’s not.

It is well-known that women know what they’re doing in the dating scene and they think they know everything. Women rail against men of how bad they are in relationships all the time but you all know that women can be just as bad. They are plenty of women out there that don’t know what they’re doing and are pretty bad at it too. I keep getting strange and wacky women trying to pursue relationships with me in social networking and still have that problem. Can’t figure it out at all. Am I this good looking or what? I don’t know. I know women in facebook can be dating scammers and can tell which women are real… I’m not that naive at all. I’m pretty careful with the women I talk to on the internet these days. I even had a few local women who appeared interested in me online but I wasn’t interested in them.

It’s hard finding the right one for sure. That’s because women are so hung up in social networking, their Iphones, texting, etc. That’s how they’re mostly doing relationships these days ’cause it’s how they get their validation. I don’t do Iphones and texting and all that crap. Not my thing.

Don’t get me wrong… I’m still gonna look for Ms. Right and I’ll find her somehow. Looking for Ms. Right can be a little overwhelming and a lot of work but I’ll keep searching. They say that Ms. Right won’t come the more you keep searching but that’s a load of bull. A woman won’t fall in your lap if you stop looking, you gotta go out there and get her. It’s your responsibility and you’re on your own. I’m gonna do the same but I have been working on it, though. Talking to women a lot more and building my confidence around them so that’s a start.

The Dating scene has gotten a lot tougher for sure. Women make it tough on ya but they do it for a good reason, though.

I guess that’s the name of the game in dating. You have to go through all the bad women in order to get the good one. That’s why they call it the game ’cause it is kind of like playing the game. You just gotta be strong and tough about it when you meet a woman who turns out to be bad… just forget her and move on to the next one. I guess that’s what I gotta do.

Kev