Yes, I’m in a feud with a certain someone but it’s none of you guys. It’s with somebody who fronts a well-known local band that should be nameless at this time but you’ll probably figure out who I’m referring to soon enough. Which is a shame. I did nothing but support his music… going to his shows, buy his albums. I did nothing but show this guy respect but he doesn’t want to show the same respect in return and he just wants to treat me like garbage online. That’s what goes on a lot around the area’s music scene… a lot of backstabbing going on.

The feud ends here and now. I will no longer reply to this idiot ’cause all he’s doing is just trying to get attention off of me and I don’t need negative people like that in my life.

I have nothing against you guys at all. It’s just that this other douche thinks he can ruin the fun by telling me what I can and can’t post on my blog. He’s been doing that for a long while now. I’m not gonna change for him or anyone else. Not gonna happen. If he hates my blogging so much then why does he continue to read?

It’s my site. It’s not his decision to control it. It’s not his decision of what he wants to see on it.

You guys are cool with me… this dude that I speak of is not. Nobody tells me what to do or how to post on my blog.

I don’t have time for drama and bullshit. Just wanna continue to do my thing. Enjoy life and be happy.

Rock on! \m/

Kev

I agree with this one.

There are plenty of things that people don’t think I can do. Like getting women in my life is one of the big one. People didn’t think I could do the bodybuilding thing… well I did it and am doing it. There are many other things that people don’t think I can do like get my license and car. Get a good paying job and all of that stuff.

There are many that badly judge me like if I’m a sort of loser.

What makes other people think it’s okay to judge me like that? I’m almost 100% positive that their life isn’t all the way perfect even though they claim to be. They just try to be better than you and try to make you feel bad. They try to make you jealous.

Whatever your goals and dreams are… don’t let people doubt you. Whether you want to be more successful with the opposite sex. Whether you want to be more successful in music. Whether you want to be successful in life and career. Whatever it is you want to do.

Fuck everybody and do it. If they talk down on you and make claims that you can’t achieve your goals and dreams, fuck ’em. Do it and become successful. Make them look ridiculous is how you want to do it. When you become successful at whatever you want to do, you’ll be the one to make them jealous and envious of you instead.

People don’t think I can hook up with a great looking woman but watch me do it. I’ll try to hook myself up with a nice one before the year is over with. Shouldn’t be that hard to do.

Kev

I love how people try to call me out on things of what I write on my site… YES, “MY SITE”. NOT YOURS.

If people don’t agree with the things I say on here or I say something that maybe offensive… maybe something sexual and derogatory to them — maybe they find some of the stuff that I say is hypocritical, they’ll try to vent in the comments. Some of them even had the guts to vent on their own site or start an anonymous blog page.

You can call me out any way you want to, any how you want to… nothing is changing. When you try you’ll just get ignored. I never cared what anyone thought of the way I blog ’cause I blog the way I want to. I’ll write my thoughts on any topic anyway I want to.

So what… my blogging is a little controversial yes but I don’t care. I just write what’s on my mind. That’s how I am. That’s how I’ll always be. I’ll write things on my mind no matter how controversial it gets.

I don’t have to write things that makes other people happy ’cause that’s not what this blog is about to begin with. I’ll tell the truth on certain topics even if no one else has the courage to say it.

Calling me out is not gonna solve anything, you’re just wasting your time. I’m never gonna change the way I blog just because other people don’t like it. If you don’t like it, then why do you keep reading it? It isn’t that hard to quit.

Once again, I don’t blog for other people really… I do this for my own reasons.

If you like my blogging and entertained by what I write on here, that’s good. If you don’t like it and you’re easily offended, that’s good too.

A lot of people usually don’t get offended by my online blogging. When they do it’s usually because of my conservative views in politics. People mostly get offended at my Obama posts… thoughts on gay marriage, abortion, 2nd Amendment, etc. I’ve had many people stop supporting me ’cause of my conservative views. They’re okay with my other topics like movies, music, the entertainment industry… it’s just my political views people have a hard time taking seriously. They don’t like my right-wing views in politics.

I’m not afraid to tell the truth about Obama no matter the consequences.

I’ll write other topics how I want to as well. I’ll write what I want to. This blog doesn’t need to be clean, appropriate and family-friendly. Anything goes, brotha!!!! That’s all there is to it. Have fun! It’s not against the rules of the TOS of wordpress to talk however you want to. They really believe in freedom of speech and the 1st Amendment quite well.

The thing is people will never quit reading my blog even if they don’t like it ’cause they’re obsessed with my blogging and will never admit it. They can’t wait to read what I’m gonna say next.

That’s pretty much what I do it for. I do it to entertain people whether I get a good response or bad response. I’m good with either one, man. That’s what a critic does… drive people crazy.

Kev

My goal as a guitarist is to fully master the instrument. Become more professionally skilled. Not really a virtuoso but my goal is to become a great guitar player. I have been trying to get there for the past 19 years I have been playing.

I feel that I got good enough at rhythm guitar. I have a good sense of timing with the metronome now. I think I totally understand… timing, rhythm and tempo. A long time ago, I used to hate playing along with a metronome ’cause it used to be so hard but now I love it. Playing along with a metronome is a piece of cake now. The more you practice, the easier it becomes.

While I feel I’m a good enough rhythm guitarist, I feel I still have a lot of learning to do on lead guitar and I’m doing all I can to improve that as well. I practice every day on lead guitar. Trying to become great at guitar solos like all of my guitar heroes: Hendrix, Satriani, Page, etc. I wanna be able to play like them but add my own style to it as well.

It takes years and years of practice and hard work to get great at guitar. I just wanna take my guitar playing to the next level. Become more advanced. I’m studying music theory too and I think that’s important for me to do is to memorize all of this music theory stuff and understand it all. Music theory isn’t that hard to learn either. Getting better at ear training and improv too. I wanna become an improv musician. Be able to play what I hear in my head is my goal.

I appreciate that there are a lot of bands and solo artists writing songs with guitar but many of them are forgetting one thing. Great guitar playing. Sure, it’s okay to throw a bunch of chords together and write a little song with it but if they take the guitar playing more seriously… that’ll take your songwriting to the next level.

I’m trying to get better. I wanna become a guitar great and it just takes a lot of time to get there. Still have a lot of learning to do.

Kev

Here’s your facebook meme for the day.

This is so true. When people treat you badly and then you treat them the same way to show them how it feels… they don’t like it. I know the feeling ’cause I dealt with this online and off, all the time.

Trust me… I’ve had a lot of people treat me like shit ’cause they get intimidated with my online web presence and me as a person. When I call them out and retaliate, they don’t like it. They think they have all their right to talk shit and treat me like garbage. When I do the same to them, they’ll whine and cry about it. Accuse me of slander and harassment when they are the ones who treated me the same way first. When I respond, they usually act like the innocent victim. They make up lies and pretend they have said nothing wrong to me. They always like to make it look like that I started it. I’ve dealt with people like this for years. Interesting how this is, isn’t it???

It is always interesting how others think they have the right to treat you badly but you’re not allowed to treat them the same way. I’m sure they’ve threatened you to court and I’m sure they’ve threatened you to the cops. It happens.

I’m sure you’ve experienced this kind of drama yourself.

I mean, if you decide to treat someone badly, you can’t expect them to respond so kindly. You give them bullshit, you get bullshit in return. That’s how it goes with me. You wanna give me bullshit, I’ll give you bullshit.

Simple as that.

Kev

You see it all the time in facebook and other social networking like twitter/youtube/etc. People explaining themselves to stupid people. Being the Jackass Whisperer which means you try to explain yourself hoping to win over the idiots. Explaining yourselves to the donkeys, hee hawwwww….

People go through this all the time. If somebody doesn’t like you they’ll let you know about it, talking all kinds of shit about you… judging you… slandering you… saying all kinds of opinionated shit about you… then you try to explain yourself hoping that would shut them up. It won’t. Responding to stupid people like that, you’re just giving exactly what you want to them. They want you to respond in a rage.

I’ve seen people in facebook all the time about how badly they get treated by others so they vent publicly about it.

You don’t have to explain yourself to anybody. Just be you and ignore ’em. Fuck ’em if they don’t like who you are or if they don’t wanna show you any respect. That includes your family members and your friends. Don’t let people think they can get all over you like that.

They don’t know anything about you even if they think they do when technically they don’t know shit.

Over the years of my life, I’ve had too many people talk all kinds of nonsense about me. The only way to win is not respond to any of it. If you do, you’re just giving them even more attention. You don’t have to listen to others drama. Just keep being you and live life the way you want to. It’ll all be good! Let ’em talk shit.

Those who get obsessed with talking shit about you are either jealous/envious of you or they’re just a bunch of losers with nothing to do.

Never let the donkeys out there think they’re better than you. You don’t have to change a damn fuckin’ thing to please them.

Kev

I stumbled upon this meme in my facebook newsfeed and thought it be worth re-sharing here.

This is so true and this is what I’ve been trying to say on this blog for a long time. Ya know, as quoted by me, “they think they’re telling the truth but in reality they’re full of shit”. Watch out for those people.

People will judge you. Slander you. Make up all kinds of lies about you. If people don’t like you, they’ll come up with a bunch of ridiculous bullshit as they think is the truth. They’ll accuse you of being crazy, delusional, unintelligent, etc. I’ve been called every name in the book by people. They honestly believe it’s okay. They’ll always think they’re right about you no matter the situation. No matter how hard you try to defend yourself, you can never win. That’s why you gotta do your best to ignore people who talk about you and fuck ’em, ya know?

People are always gonna talk shit. There are assholes and douchebags all over this world. You gotta avoid ’em the best you can if you wanna be happy and live a positive life. Avoid negative people like the plague.

One thing I never did is judge other people. It’s true. There are people I don’t like but I just keep it to myself. It’s just a waste of time and life to talk about people you don’t like, ya know? People give ya a hard time? Just pretend they are dead, that’s what I do! It works, trust me.

Don’t listen to other peoples “truths” ’cause in reality, it’s all just opinion. Let ’em have ’em.

Kev

When you want to blog, facebook, twitter and all that stuff… you just have to ignore everyone’s thoughts and opinions about you because when people are whining, complaining and bitching about how you are online… it’s only a matter of opinion. Yes, people aren’t gonna like you. Not everyone will.

Everybody wants to speak their minds on the internet. That’s what the internet is good for. It’s a powerful tool to express yourself publicly and gets things off of your system. It’s a powerful tool to say whatever you want. However, when you say things that people disagree with or get offended… they expect you to change so you can satisfy them. When you say things people don’t like, they complain. They attack. Bash you. Call you out. They expect to change your opinions and views on certain topics. They bark orders at you. They control you.

I have had this problem for over 10 years or more. They expect me to post things that people are gonna like every time. They expect me to make them happy 24/7.

No matter how good of a person you are or how nice of a person you are online, you are always gonna get haters and bullies all over you. You can’t let people control you like that.

It’s your life. Be who you want to be and fuck everybody. Just say what you want to say. Get what’s off of your mind and ignore everybody’s hateful opinions and misinformation about you.

It’s not you. It says something about them when all they want to do is talk all kinds of shit about you. They are nothing more than envious. They wanna be you. I mean, think about it right? If they really don’t like you and hate you, then they wouldn’t waste all that effort to write all that shit about you online.

You don’t need to listen to others criticism about you.

When you want to have a web presence online and get yourself out there… you’ll get all kinds of critics from people… yes even your own family members and your closest friends can become haters too.  A lot of people just bully you around ’cause they find it entertaining to them, that’s pretty much the only reason they do it. They get a laugh out of it and they become obsessed with it. They won’t stop until their fingers fall off, trust me.

These people think they are telling the truth about you but in reality they are full of shit. Everything that comes out of their mouth is all bullshit. They just do nothing but try to put you down and trying to make you feel bad. That’s all they’re doing.

You don’t have to say things that everyone agrees with or say stuff that are positive. If you wanna have a negative opinion on something or say something offensive, go for it. There’s nothing wrong with it.

I’ll admit that I’ve said some pretty negative things about women in the past on how they are all gold diggers and how they are the same but that’s in the past though. As years went along, I made a vow I would no longer talk about women like that and be more positive if I want to be more successful. Of course, trolls and bullies would just do anything to make me look bad by bringing up something about me from the past when I’m not like that anymore.

I try to change for the better but no matter what I do, someone is always going to come around and be offended at something I post. That’s why I’m done satisfying or pleasing other people.

I don’t have to do what other people say. Nobody tells me what I can or can’t say, ya know?

I don’t need anybody’s help. I don’t need anybody’s advice. I’m a grown man and adult enough to take care of myself.

When you want to make the haters and bullies go away, the only way to handle them is to ignore them completely. I gotta do that. Starting now.

As of this point, I have turned off the “re-blogging” option for my own reasons. I’m also trying to figure out how to Ip block someone so this certain someone would stop reading my blog, I’m looking into it and doing wordpress research.

Kev

Edit to add: Fixed this post up a little bit and added a few things.

Remember now, guys, nobody has the right to tell you how to live your life or tell you who to be. My life may not be perfect right now but nobody’s perfect. Everyone’s not. Don’t ever let other people think they’re better than you. I am looking to improve myself, though. It’s called “self-improvement” and that’s what I’ve been doing with myself a lot lately. I’ve gotten into bodybuilding to get into shape. I’m trying to talk a lot more to people and be less shy/quiet. I’m trying to build my confidence around women and learn to be more successful with the ladies. I’m trying to improve my music. There are other things I’m working on to improve myself.

Be who you want to be. Do what you want to do.

Thanks to the Ultimate Warrior for the inspiration… he got me thinking that life is great, life is serious and it was him that inspired me to improve myself like this. I’m becoming more of a philosopher ’cause of him as you can probably tell.

No matter what anybody thinks of me, I’m a happy guy and I keep myself busy too. Live life how you want to. Don’t listen to anybody. Ignore negative people and critics, life can be great.

Kev