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Does facebook/twitter destroy relationships???

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Another interesting “study says” that is worth posting here. A doctoral student named, Russell Clayton, made a discovery that the use of facebook/twitter can lead to cheating, breakups or divorce.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tech/social/Twitter-Facebook-use-can-lead-to-infidelity-divorce-Study/articleshow/33455211.cms

Over the years of social networking, I have noticed this actually. I have seen couples in facebook break-up/divorce through heated conflicts online. It happens all the time. That’s the way it goes in this day and age of technology, ya know?

There is so much gossip and soap opera stuff in facebook with couples all the time. I get forced to read this stuff every day by people in facebook with their problems in relationships. You pretty much know everything going on in couples lives ’cause they’re posting it all on facebook/twitter. Sad but it is what it is.

I don’t get into stuff like that. All that stuff was meant to be for their personal business but they’re making it public by posting it all publicly in facebook.

Which is pretty scary, ya know? If I start getting into relationships with women myself, I have a feeling a lot of them aren’t gonna last long ’cause of my popularity as a blogger and internet person. If I ever start getting into relationships with women, that’s why I gotta try to keep ’em private as I possibly can but it’s gonna be hard to do ’cause people are gonna know everything. They figure things out quickly anyway.

I’m not gonna lie that women can be pretty egotistical and dramatic a lot. A lot of men have been destroyed online because of them. That is a small part of why me hoping to get into a relationship with a woman is pretty scary. That’s why I gotta be careful and be VERY picky with women. Just because women are pretty and gorgeous looking doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll be a good person. That’s why I gotta take her personality very seriously. I would want a good looking woman, don’t get me wrong but I’m not gonna date her if she’s gonna be all difficult and tough. Looks doesn’t really matter to me. I just want a good woman who’ll accept me for me and like me for me. A woman like that could be hard to find in this day and age of technology.

Kev

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Living single is not too bad at all… check out “The Science of Love” by SoulPancake…

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Another video gone viral is worth sharing here. A video that investigates the life of being single and investigating what is the word “love”. This video wants to send a positive message that it’s okay to be single. Study says that 40% or over, people are living the single life. Meaning, being single for most of your entire life. This video uses real singles and real couples to talk about this. Check out the video below.

As someone who have lived life being single, I can totally relate to this video. People always mistakenly believe that you need to be in a relationship to be happy. Not exactly true. People also mistakenly believe that it’s pathetic and wrong for people who don’t date. Not true either. A lot of people have criticized me for not having a significant other. Nothing wrong with living life single and you can STILL be very happy being single. A lot of people out there can’t stay single ’cause they hate being alone. Why? What’s wrong with being alone? Being alone can actually be the greatest thing ever. You can do what you want to. More freedom. No drama. No negativity.

While I would like to be in a relationship myself, I’m not that desperate about it. I’m just happy being me and that’s all that it matters. All I wanna do in life is lift weights, play my guitar, watch movies, play video games, etc.

Don’t get me wrong, though, I have tried the “relationship” thing before in the past and they just didn’t work out. I hung out with women before but they were just friends and nothing serious. I tried dating a few women in the past briefly, and they just didn’t work out.

Living the single life is great.

I’m still gonna try to find the love of my life but I’m in no hurry for it. Not a lot of people out there believe in being single, it’s pretty rare these days.

Maybe I’m better off staying single, ya know? Women make relationships tough on men anyways. They mostly date the bad guys anyway. A lot of ’em also just want guys with a good job, a car ’cause they want men to be able to take care of themselves. Women can be spoiled and shallow. You could risk getting your heart broken and lots of other  dangerous things that could destroy you.

Speaking of risks, this video also gives you the advice that if you like someone you should take the chance by calling them and telling them… see where it takes you. Sounds like good advice that I could try myself. If she rejects you, and doesn’t want you… who cares, don’t be upset about it. That’s the message this video is sending I think.

This is a pretty inspiring and moving video and I’ll be looking forward to the next episode.

Being single can be amazing. Don’t always believe that people who live life being single are sad, lonely, and depressed people ’cause it’s not always true.

Kev