I’ll say it once more, that it really is difficult having differences of opinion on gay marriage. Since the topic of homosexuals, gay rights, and marriage equality is so huge in the media, and gays seems to be taking over the world. It’s hard for anyone to have a difference of opinion these days. I understand that people want to support gay people even if they are straight as a way to have heart and to feel all special, and all that stuff, blah blah blah. All that is fine and good. I’ve repeatedly stated, that I totally respect gay people all the way myself, but that doesn’t mean, I have to agree with gay marriage. Gay people seem to be a huge thing in the news, because why? The gay community is growing. It’s getting bigger. I don’t understand why they have to campaign for gay rights, when quite honestly, they have already have them. They can feel free to be open about it, and love who ever they want to, sure, but I’ll always believe in traditional marriage. It’s just my opinion. I have that right to believe in that.
Sure enough, people are going to be hurt and offended. If they disagree with it, they will reply and defend gay rights. It’s like, those who believe in traditional marriage are not allowed to believe in it anymore. The moment someone says a marriage should be between a man and a woman, the marriage equality supporters, will call them an evil homophobe and all that stuff. That’s how it goes these days, ya know?
Having a disagreement on gay marriage doesn’t make us evil, (I’m referring to the traditional supporters). The real evil are the ones who lash out at others for having a disagreement on gay marriage. The more you reply back and debate about it, the more it shows how crazy people can be. Everybody should have a right to believe in traditional marriage. I don’t see what’s so wrong about it. I have no problem with bills like DOMA, Prop 8, and others ’cause they are trying to save traditional marriage. I have no problem people starting campaigns and protests against gay marriage ’cause they are trying to save traditional marriage. I have no problem with professional politicians being against gay marriage in the USA, ’cause they believe in traditional marriage. If they can believe in traditional marriage, we can too.
It’s ridiculous how this is ’cause no matter what the traditional supporters say or believe, it seems that the marriage equality backers always win. I’m sick of it. When will the traditional supporters are gonna start to act tough, fight back, so we can save traditional marriage? The traditional marriage supporters are getting weaker, and the gay rights supporters are getting stronger, in this day and age.
If the equality supporters get to fight for what we believe in, we get to do it too. I warn ya. If marriage equality is victorious in Washington D.C., there’s going to be an even bigger fight by the traditional supporters. There’s going to be all kinds of lawsuits, repeals, protests, etc. You get the deal. Making gay marriage legal in the US is a very risky thing. You have to learn that it’s not for everyone.
Kev
K'Brocking 
You’re right, it’s not for everyone. So don’t get gay married then. It’s not going to have any effect on your life at all, so don’t worry about it.
Yep, what you said there, is the most popular thing that is repeatedly said by the equality supporters. Can they come up with a better defense than that? No. It shows that they are less smarter than the traditional supporters. It WILL HAVE, a major effect on people’s lives if gay marriage was allowed, that’s what people can’t get through their thick heads. For starters, it’s gonna have an effect on children, and many other things. Sometime I’ll have to make a post explaining how it will have an effect. People just don’t get it.
Kev
A lot of children are gonna expect to grow up with a Mom and Dad. Not with a Mom/Mom or Dad/Dad. They might accept it at first, but as they get older, it’s gonna have an influence on them. It could possibly influence them to turn gay too. Just a thought.
Kev
…but to be grammatically correct, “affect”, would be the right word to use.
Kev
Please, Oh please…DO explain. I would LOVE to hear it.
Millions of kids already grow up in single parent households, and that’s not against any law. And who cares if someone grows up to be gay? I though you had no problem with homosexuals.
People don’t grow up to be gay. I find that a load of crock. It’s a choice. I don’t see how people can be born gay. You don’t get born with sexual attraction of the same sex. You make that choice as you get older. Anybody who says being born gay is a lie.
As far as children being inspired to be gay by their gay parents goes, they don’t really need to be taught to be gay just like them. They need to be taught how to grow up and learn to live normal & healthy lives. On how my thoughts that marriage equality will affect children whether being raised by homosexual parents or straight parents, this is getting researched.
As far as how a gay married couple would affect me and other people, I will write about that in another post. It will have a major impact on everything and everyone if gay marriage was legalized in the US. In fact, it already had a major impact with it being legalized in several states. I don’t really like it being legal in New York.
Kev
Do you have any gay friends?
No, I don’t think so, anyway. I don’t hang out or socialize with too many people to begin with, but you never know how many people are gay around here ’cause plenty of people seem to be hiding in the closet, these days.
Kev
I do have heart, respect, and honor gay people. I just don’t agree with marriage equality. I will always believe in traditional marriage. I really feel people are ruining and destroying the traditional part of things. My upcoming post about how gay marriage will affect people’s lives maybe controversial, but the truth needs to be said.
Kev
I feel bad for you, man. We have an short time to live on this planet, and everyone deserves the right to live the human experience without being discriminated against. I know you’re frequently judged by people for YOUR differences and you don’t like how it feels. I would think you’d be more empathetic.
I agree we all live once and I agree we all deserve to be happy… but you don’t need to be happy to be married, ya know? Whether you’re gay or straight, you don’t need to be married at all to live a happy life. I may be single for most of my life (I’m not gay, believe me), but you can still live a life being happy, whether you’re in a relationship or not. There’s nothing discriminatory about denying gay marriage. While people do say that the government should stay out of marriage, but truthfully, the government are not in charge of marriage. They never were. They deny marriage ’cause it is what’s right for the traditional kind of thing, ya know? The government sticks to god’s original intention of marriage. So if you want to blame someone for not allowing gays to marry, do not blame the government like people have been doing. Blame religion and god. The Supreme Court may have not liked DOMA/Prop 8, but don’t be surprised if the federals still deny the so called rights for gays to marry. There’s no such thing as gay marriage, it’s just a fantasy.
The original intention for marriage is for a man and a woman. Marriage was originally intended to be for children to grow up with “actual mothers” and fathers. Children to give birth from their mother and impregnated by the father. That’s being “true” parents. I don’t see how two gay women and two gay men could be parents of children, it just doesn’t work that way. It’s possible that children can call their gay mother, a “mother”, but her gay partner can’t be called, “mother”. As for two gay men who adopted a child, they don’t have that right to be called a father. I think you understand my point.
I really hope they do the right thing and leave traditional marriage right where it is. It would be the right thing to do.
Kev