It turns out that Tom wasn’t invited to Isabella’s wedding at all and even Nicole wasn’t invited either. Even though Nicole wasn’t invited, she went anyways but of course Nicole was allowed in. Of course, Nicole is her mother she had to be allowed in!
Tom knew about the wedding but it seems that he isn’t happy that he didn’t get invited.
http://www.tmz.com/2015/10/05/tom-cruise-daughters-wedding-isabella-bella-nicole-kidman-parents/
So I take it that Tom isn’t getting along too well with Isabella and that’s why they don’t want him there?
Don’t expect Tom to get into details about this during his interviews ’cause he never liked to talk about his personal life. In interviews, he only liked to talk about his film career and that’s it.
He probably could have gone to the wedding if he wanted to but he probably didn’t want to create a scene. You know, start drama and stuff. He wanted his daughter to have a happy wedding so he let her have it. They’re just probably afraid of how Tom would react since Max isn’t a Scientologist.
In my opinion, there should have been nothing for them to worry about ’cause from what I see, Tom is a pretty cool and humble guy. I’m sure Tom would have been cool with Max. He wouldn’t have done anything to hurt Isabella.
Kev