Yeah this is a dating advice video but I thought it’s another one worth posting. It’s not only helpful for myself but it could also be helpful for you guys who have women in your life.

When you meet women, not all women are gonna be friendly & nice 24/7. You’re gonna meet some women with temper tantrums and you’re also gonna meet women who gets cryin’ too easily all the time. Yeah, you’re definitely gonna run into some drama queens. If I ever meet a woman like that (I’ve already had a few times before), I guess I shouldn’t take it personally ’cause I guess a relationship that is positive all the time would be kind of boring, hey? I guess a woman with a temper tantrum could make a relationship kind of interesting and adventurous? I guess I have to learn how to put up with a little drama instead of being quick to dump her, ya know? Women may seem pretty mean but maybe she’s just doing it just to make the relationship more interesting and less boring like this guy said. I know a lot of women can be pretty dramatic, I gotta learn to put up with it if I wanna become a “man”.

This is a video worth listening to so check it out.

Kev

When out looking for women, not all of them are gonna be nice to you. You’re gonna get some pretty rude women and some are gonna be really mean to you when they reject you. I know I said I was gonna stop watching these dating videos in youtube but I figure this one is worth posting. It’s pretty good advice actually.

When a woman gives you negative shit when you were only trying to be nice, just smile and walk away. Go to the next one.

I’m probably gonna continue to get a lot more rejections and will probably get more bullshit… best thing to do is just ignore her and move on. When they say that “women do the choosing”, they are right. If they aren’t interested in you, they aren’t interested. The truth hurts but that’s the way it is. Like I said before, going through all the bad women is gonna be worth it. There’s someone for everyone out there. Guess I gotta keep trying until I find someone who will accept me. That’s the way to do it, I guess. Just gotta be strong and have a thick skin about it.

Kev

Yeah, I know the dating scene isn’t always gonna be good. You’re gonna run into some good and bad experiences with women. I’m sure you guys out there who are more experienced than me would know that. You just gotta learn to be strong and tough. Not let the bad experiences bring you down. If you get bad experiences out of the women that you meet? Just ignore it and let it slide right by! Don’t get yourself into this negative drama like I almost did. I shouldn’t have replied to that crap to begin with and just let it go. You gotta have a thick skin and have balls in the dating scene. If you let the bad women bring you down, you’re not gonna succeed. You gotta ignore negativity and the soap opera stuff then move forward.

And like one reader said, people of all ages are crazy. If you get a bad experience, who cares, ya know? Not the end of the world. There’s tons of women out there everywhere and there will be someone who will like you for you.

And like one reader said, I really shouldn’t be picky with women. If I continue to be picky and choosy, being all strict — the lesser chance I’m going to succeed.

There are too many guys that complain about the women they meet in facebook and in blogs but in my opinion, it’s a bad idea to do. If you get bullshit and drama in the dating scene, you just gotta ignore it ’cause making it all publicly will just make you look bad. If you get bullshit, just move along. That is all. If all women wanna do is make you look bad, just let her do her thing and continue to live your own life.

If one woman gives you crap, forget about her and keep finding women who WILL treat you good. It’s gonna be tough and a little overwhelming for ya to have to go through all the bad ones but it’s worth it if you wanna find the good one and find Ms. Right. I would like a relationship before I turn 40 and gonna do all I can to make it happen. You just gotta believe in yourself and stay positive.

Kev

It’s unfair that people who have stayed single for a long time or if you’re a virgin get accused of being losers. They get negatively judged by accusing singles of being undesirable or unwanted. They’ll start saying negative and spiteful things about you like you are not attractive enough to get a significant other. They’ll also make ridiculous claims that you’ll never get somebody ’cause you’re not financially stable. It’s all bullshit. You gotta stop listening to negative people and doubters.

Maybe people have stayed single for most of their life is for a pretty good reason? Saving themselves for someone special. There are way too many people in this day and age rushing to get into a relationship, get married and all that stuff when you don’t need to. If you wanna wait to get into a relationship at a late age is actually the best thing you could do. Nothing wrong with it. It’s actually a very positive thing to do ’cause living the single life isn’t that bad at all. As a matter of fact, it can actually be great.

It’s sad that most people can’t stay single even for a little bit. Once they break off a relationship, sure enough, they’ll get themselves into another one pretty quickly. Then they get their heart broken again. It can’t be denied that people are weird and crazy when it comes to relationships. Why would I wanna go through all that? Getting into all that drama, soap opera and gossiping has never been my thing.

I wanna get myself a woman sometime but in no hurry for it. I’m still gonna do all I can, though but gonna take the dating scene very seriously and find the right match. Find the women who’ll accept me for who I am and will like me for me. I’m looking for true love and companionship is what I want. I wanna be loved and will return the same feelings if I find the right one.

I’m not gonna become the “player” type ’cause the game does look kind of dangerous and risky. I think I would prefer to be the “ladies man” type better. There is a big difference between the two. “Ladies Man” as in someone who enjoys being around women and I think I’ve already have become that. I’m looking for friendship, companionship and possibly more.

Don’t rush yourself. I’ve known plenty of people who have gotten married at a real late age. Enjoy life. You don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy.

Kev

Aaaaaaah V-Tines Day, a holiday that couples love and people who are single hate! I hear them, though. It’s another lonely V-Tines Day for me too and hopefully it’s gonna be the last and I’ll have a girlfriend for next year’s V-Tines hopefully.

I’m sure people are expecting a V-Tines write-up about dating and relationships and stuff so I thought I would make it a brief post.

Ya know, to get the partner of your dreams, you don’t really need to go through all that PUA bullshit in youtube to learn how. You don’t need to waste money on dating lessons from those online gurus. What I find funny about all this PUA crap you see online is that they make you go through all this Step-by-Step nonsense when you don’t really need to go through all that. They make this “dating” thing seem difficult for ya and it seems like it’s a lot of work. I’m not knocking all of it, though, some of those dating guru lessons actually helped me some. Some of the dating guru stuff online works and some of it doesn’t. In reality, you don’t really need to go through all that. I just did it for research and stuff, ya know?

It can’t be that hard to go up to talk to women ’cause they aren’t gonna bite ya know? Women are usually pretty easy to talk to. Just be confident, don’t be so needy, don’t rush things and you should do fine. That’s what I learned. You don’t have to go through silly “openers” and all that garbage when all you need is to simply be yourself. What’s wrong with being yourself? Those dating gurus just try to force you to change of who you are and you don’t want that.

I’ll get myself a woman at some point. Just need to find someone who will accept me for who I am. Someone who will like me for me, ya know what I mean? There are a bunch of doubters who think I won’t get one but there is somebody for everyone, that’s a fact.

My dream girl is someone with similar interests and hobbies. She should share my passion for music and movies. Political views? Her political views doesn’t matter to me. I’ll date a liberal woman, sure, why not? As long as she can accept me for my conservative views I’ll accept hers too but it’ll be nice if I can find a “conservative” woman too, though! Age don’t really matter to me but I prefer to date women my around own age or a little older.

I’m not gonna do internet dating and not gonna do long distance relationships either, I don’t think. I prefer local women around this area. I’m 38 now and the goal is to get in a relationship with a special someone before I turn 40. She doesn’t have to be hot and beautiful; although, that would be nice. I’m not too worried about the looks like most guys are.

Some people make this ridiculous claim that “love” will find you if you stop looking. Well, I did exactly that and “love didn’t find me so I find that claim ridiculous. I think people just say that so you won’t feel bad for being single but whatever. If you want love, you gotta go out there and get it yourself. It doesn’t really fall in your lap.

I’ll get somebody at some point. It just takes time and patience to find the right match and to find someone who will accept me for who I am. Yeah, I’m probably gonna run into a lot of bad women like users, controllers, gold diggers and cheaters but you gotta get rid of the bad ones until you find the one who is perfect for you, I guess that’s what it takes.

I should have no problem getting someone ’cause I know women enjoy talking to me and not sure why. I just gotta have balls, ask for her phone number and ask her out which shouldn’t be all that hard.

I enjoy most holidays but like some, yeah, V-Tines sucks.

Kev

The dating guru thing online and in the media is pretty huge. It’s a popular thing these days, thanks to famous dating gurus Mystery and Neil Strauss who were the ones who started the whole pickup thing. It just got bigger from there. Neil Strauss’s book, “The Game” is what helped make the PUA thing a big deal in this day and age.

I know all of these pickup artists and dating gurus are criticized by a lot of people. When you look after them and taking advice from these guys, some would say, “You shouldn’t take advice from these experts”.

In my opinion, you should look after these guys. I respect these guys for what they do ’cause these dating gurus in youtube just wanna help people. Most of these guys speak from their experience in the dating game and they just wanna pass along what they learned. I can respect them for that. Yes, many of these dating gurus famous or not just do it to make money. Hey, if that’s what these guys wanna do to make a living more power to them.

Yes, some of their advice and tips on dating and picking up women maybe bullshit, I agree but honestly, a lot of their stuff really helped me. After doing all of this research on the dating game by reading books and watching youtube videos, a lot of that stuff really helped me.

They helped me become more confident around women and they made me realize that women are not gonna bite. They made me realize that I think I have what it takes to pick up beautiful women even the perfect 10’s so I thank them for that. They taught me to say to a woman that she’s “beautiful” and “gorgeous” to her face without any fear and I have been doing that a lot lately and when you do that, their response is amazing. They love it when you tell them that.

They inspired me the way I live my life and they inspired me to change. Just last week, I went and did some major clothes shopping so I went out and bought some nice clothes. Clothes that would attract women. I wanted to look sharp and handsome for the women so I bought some nice shirts, long sleeve t-shirts, dress pants and some nice jeans. Got a new pair of walking shoes last month. I’ve also been wearing boxer briefs instead of white underwear ’cause I’ve read that women are attracted to men in boxer briefs, it’s true.

My next step is to get a haircut and shave on a regular basis. Stay clean shaven.

Women wanna see guys looking nice and that’s what I’ve been doing. Thanks to Neil Strauss and all the dating gurus in youtube. No more wearing crappy t-shirts for teenagers and wearing junky jeans (I’ve thrown most of those out).

It’s time to become a real man. I’m just getting myself prepared and getting ready.

I admire what these dating gurus do. They’re just trying to help men in America who are having trouble with women and trying to make a difference. I think that’s a powerful thing. Sure, some of the dating gurus you gotta be careful who you take advice from but most of their stuff is good and inspirational.

These guys are really helping me and I thank them for what they do. What they’re doing is pretty impressive stuff.

I’m not having any luck yet, just getting started. Greenwich is a small town so there’s not gonna be much to do. Next time I go to the mall, I’ll start practicing approaching women and doing small talk with them. I’ve already had been doing that at the mall, though. I’ve been doing that in the town of Greenwich sometimes too. I just gotta work on “number closing”, get their phone numbers which shouldn’t be hard.

The dating guru thing is good stuff. I think they deserve a lot of respect. Like it or not, they are changing the world.

Kev