There’s a myth going on out there that internet love doesn’t work. People say it’s phony. Well don’t listen to any of them ’cause what they say is all “phony”. “Internet relationships” can be possible after all.

Read this story, this married couple met through a blog in a comment section on ESPN. This guy started chatting with this hot girl on an internet blog and she was drop dead gorgeous and beautiful. She’s a perfect 10 brunette too.

http://www.ijreview.com/2015/10/458934-since-they-met-online-his-friends-dont-believe-shes-real-so-he-rings-her-doorbell-shaking-like-a-leaf/?author=sv&utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=owned&utm_campaign=life&utm_term=ijamerica

http://espn.go.com/college-football/story/_/id/13880958/michigan-fans-meet-comments-section-fall-love-just-got-married

So yeah, I really shouldn’t listen to those “critics” out there saying that internet relationships don’t work ’cause they can.

Ya know, just be careful how you do it and do it responsibly, you should be fine. Watch out for the fake dating profiles and watch out for “scammers” and all that stuff. I can tell what’s real and what’s not. People who try internet dating are immediately looked at as “losers” which is unfair, in my opinion. Looking for the right partner online is the same way as looking for the right one in the real world. Maybe I shouldn’t ignore “internet dating” completely and give it a go.

Honestly, there’s a girl I’m kind of crazy about and had a bit of a crush on for years on the internet. She’s from out of country, though and won’t say where. She’s currently taken right now and seeing someone else but I’ll still take her as one of my best friends, though. She’s been an online buddy of mine for the past several years.

Yeah, it’s definitely possible to be in love with somebody on the internet. Don’t listen to the doubters ’cause they’re full of it. It’s completely okay to love somebody online you’ve never met yet as well. Whether it’s online or in person, it’s all good. Love is love that’s all there is to it.

There are plenty of married couples who have met online.

More and more people seem to be hooking up together just by meeting online anyways. It’s a big thing these days. Why? For the most part, people hate the bar & club scene so they feel interent is the best way to go if they want to find someone right for them, ya know? Too many has been using facebook to hook up these days. Everybody’s been doing it in this day and age of technology.

Like I said before, I’ve had too many strange women from out of town, out of state and out of country trying to pursue relationships with me through facebook. They weren’t scammers, they were 100% real.

Internet love can be possible, maybe I should keep at it.

Kev

This is a pretty good read that I thought would be worth passing along. Found it on facebook. 10 things that men don’t care about when it comes to women. I agree with it all.

No, I won’t care if her hair and makeup isn’t perfect today ’cause she’ll always be beautiful no matter what she looks like.

I don’t care if they happen to make more money than me ’cause I won’t use them for the money at all. Whether they make more money or less, I don’t care. I’ll just love her for her if you know what I mean. It’s the love that matters, not how much money she makes. I wish they would understand that about men too. A lot of women won’t date guys if he doesn’t have a good job and all that stuff but that’s not the way it should be, in my opinion. I think they feel that way ’cause they don’t wanna feel “used” that they make more money than us which isn’t true. That’s why some would only date guys with a good paying job ’cause they don’t want to feel like he is using her for the money. Not all women care about how much money a guy makes though ’cause some just want a good guy in their lives, you just gotta find her. Not all women are gold diggers but some of them can be. You will find some women who won’t care how much money you make and will just love you for you, just got to find the right one. Don’t get me wrong, though… I will get myself back to working full time again at some point when the time comes. I won’t stay unemployed for the rest of my life that’s for sure.

A lot of us are not in a rush to jump in bed with her or better known as “sex”, we are willing to wait if she wants to.

I don’t care if women swear either ’cause I actually LOVE it when women aren’t afraid to say the word “fuck” a lot and other cuss words.

I don’t care how perfect women are ’cause nobody is perfect.

Read this full piece here:

10 Things Men Don’t Really Care About

Kev

I used to want to be able to date mature women. Ya know, women that are older than me ’cause I thought they would be better to date ’cause why? I thought they would be better to get along with and no drama. Easier to talk to. I tried to hook up with older women like in her 40’s or 50’s before but I’m not sure if I will or not. Probably not. Why? It’s because older women are turning out just as bad. They can be just as negative and dramatic.

I believe that women around my age or a little younger would be better to date, in my opinion. The younger women seem to be more adult acting than the older ones. It’s true.

Dating an MILF or a mature person may sound fun but a lot of them can act very childish ’cause why? It’s because a lot of them have a mind of a young woman, why do you think a lot of them are into young men, right?

I think it be better for me if I date women around my age or a little younger. I’m thinking I would date only 20 year olds or 30 year olds. I think the young women are easier to get along with, in my opinion. The older ones can be a piece of work, believe me.

Many would say age don’t matter but it does matter for some people. It’s about preference. If I date an older woman for life, if I grow old, she’s gonna be even older and I don’t think I’d want that after thinking about it a while. Yeah, younger women is definitely the way to go.

Kev

Whenever you start talking to women online or offline, I would avoid talking to women who get all negative & dramatic right away. Meaning that they could start giving you all kinds of problems right away… ya know, things like women complaining to you about their ex’s and things like that. When women start saying stuff like, “My ex cheating on me” and things like that… those are the ones you wanna avoid.

Warning signs that she could be bad news.

The goal in dating and meeting women is that you want to get someone who is positive and joyful, ya know? If you’re getting into fun conversations that are positive and joyful that could be the one for you.

Weed out all the bad ones and only focus on the good ones. I will only focus on the good ones.

I hate it when women come to me with their problems and being all negative and dramatic right away. It does happen sometimes. I want a woman who is positive, joyful and happy, ya know? Those are the ones you wanna go for.

Not all women are gonna be positive and joyful, just one thing to keep in mind. Some will have some pretty bad attitudes and will seem pretty grumpy.

I’ve had women trying to pursue a relationship with me and right away, they start giving me problems. Just take her out of your life right away and move on to the next one. I want a nice girl, not one who seems to be in a bad mood all the time.

Kev

My “take My Breathe Away” cover is still getting great feedback from the ladies (and guys too) but if you want a secret tip on attracting more women… perform love songs. Seriously. This will do the trick. You don’t have to do much to attract women when all you have to do is perform love songs as cover songs. Like songs by Whitney Houston, The Righteous Brothers, Elvis and stuff like that. Performing love songs is a big time chick magnet. Believe me it works. A lot of guys are shy of performing love songs and a lot of them refuse to do it. I’m shy of performing love songs too but after the response toward my Whitney Houston and the Top Gun covers, I figure I wanna do more and I will.

If you’re a guitar player and singer, I’d suggest you give it a try.

Kev

This came across my facebook newsfeed and thought it was interesting so I decided to share it here. This is so true though.

If I ever start dating women at some point, I’m gonna be careful next time around. When you start dating people, you’re gonna get used and get played a lot. Why would women “use” you? Well, for the most part you probably make more money than her and she’s probably dating you just for that aka gold digger. If you drive, she could also be using you to bring her to places where she needs to go aka “free rides”. She could also be coming to you only when she needs something. Whenever she has no one else to talk to or to hang out with, those are the only times when she’ll want to do things with you ’cause she’s bored.

These are the women you want to avoid, “the users” and I’m gonna do my best to avoid them too. When you feel “used” don’t be afraid to dump her yourself ’cause I’m not gonna put up with it anymore. Beware ’cause not all women are really into you at all even though it may seem like it. Not all women are troublemakers I know but some of them can be.

Kev

I get a lot of women adding me in my personal facebook page. I get women adding me from out of town, out of state and sometimes even out of country. Yes, these are definitely 100% real women. THey’re not anonymous people and “scammers” trying to get money off of me or anything like. I can tell what’s real and what’s fake ’cause believe me, I’m not that naive at all. I’m usually pretty careful with facebook. I get women adding me that I don’t know and women adding me that I already know. I’m trying to figure this out. Maybe they do find me good looking and cute after all?

Do these women want to be in a “relationship” with me? I think that’s probably what it is. Maybe they have a crush on me or something.

While I’m flattered as hell that these women add me in facebook and wanna hopefully pursue a relationship with me, I don’t know if I’ll do “long distance” dating or not. I tried it a couple of times before in my life and just don’t agree with it. I’m pretty flattered that these women have an interest in me so I’ll take ’em as an online friend, though.

Maybe I shouldn’t ignore long distance online dating completely and maybe give it another try? Not sure, thinking about it.

Kev

You see it all the time in dating sites and facebook and in the real world too. Guys telling good looking women on how “beautiful” and “gorgeous” she looks. Nothing wrong with that but it’s a bad idea to do, in my opinion. You shouldn’t compliment her looks at all, not this soon anyway. Guys make the mistake that telling a woman how “beautiful” and “gorgeous” she looks is gonna make them interested in them. Not true. You see, women get compliments about their looks like 50 times a day or more. While I’m sure they’re flattered, I’m sure they get sick of it too. It’s called putting women on pedestals and you don’t want to do that.

Compliment her on other things like the clothes that she’s wearing, her personality and things like that. If she’s in good physical shape by working out in the gym, tell her she’s doing a good job and she’s looking good. If she has good taste in music and movies, tell her that too. Treat her like a real person and maybe she’ll be interested in you. That’s how you get them to like you is by treating them like a real person.

I see guys trying to get women interested in them by telling her how beautiful and pretty she looks all the time and most of the time, guys fail at getting a response from the ladies knowing from my own experience. Treating her like a human being and treating her with respect is the best way to go. That’s how you get women to become your friend, possibly more.

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/dont-compliment-her-looks

Kev

I usually see this debate quite a lot online and I’m sure you’ve seen it too. The “Do Looks Matter” debate has been going on for a long while. I see a lot of men and women declaring that “Yes, looks matter”… men would make the claim that women would only date you if you’re good looking. Women would also make the claim that men only goes after “good looking” girls. If you’re a man or a woman making that claim that “looks matter” then chances are, they aren’t good looking themselves. Usually those claims are coming from people who aren’t really “good looking” anyways. They are either average looking or below that.

To me, looks don’t really matter at all. My dream girl don’t really have to be a 9 or a 10… although that would be nice. Looks don’t really matter to me ’cause rating people on their looks is pretty stupid, in my opinion. I don’t really care how attractive her face is or not as long as she accepts me for who I am and loves me for me, ya know?

This “Looks matter” debate is pretty silly to me ’cause I don’t really pay any attention to any of it ’cause it’s all pretty opinionated, really.

The truth is you’re not gonna really find “good looking” and “perfect” looking people in the real world anyway… leave that shit to Hollywood. So a girl you like may look like a 9 or a 10 but take off all that make-up she wears, she won’t be as attractive looking as you thought she was. Yes, people can be “good looking” and “pretty” but you’re not gonna find “perfect” looking people… like I said leave that to Hollywood. Women don’t really look like that anyways.

Rating people for their looks is dumb. How about accepting people for who they are? A hot girl for me would be nice but I don’t care either way. I’m just looking for a best friend, that’s all I need.

When people make that claim “Yes, looks matter”… I see it as them saying, “Hey, I’m good looking”. Don’t call yourself “good looking”. Stay humble and let other people tell you that.

I don’t think I’m the best looking guy but I’ve been told by some that I’m “cute” but that’s about all. Looks don’t really matter and that’s the truth.

Kev

When trying to get advice on the dating scene, you definitely gotta be careful on who you get your information from for sure. Should you get dating advice from other men or from women? Me? Preferably, I’d rather get help from other women more. Last thing you wanna do is trust guys on the dating scene ’cause they can be a bunch of know it alls and a lot of times they can give you wrong information. A lot of guys have different methods and styles.

It’s definitely better getting dating advice and help from other women ’cause they have a lot more experience doing it and they know exactly what women want.

I appreciate getting advice and help from other guys on women and the dating scene but it’s better getting dating advice by a woman’s perspective ’cause they can be more believable and more trusting. They’re better at teaching single men anyways. With that being said, I would rather have a woman coach me on dating than a guy, ya know? Yeah, a guy may have a lot of experience in the dating scene but that still doesn’t mean he knows what he’s doing and stuff.

Women are better and more intelligent on this stuff so I would much rather listen to them. Plus, women are more humble about it too while a lot of guys act like a bunch of egomaniacs.

Kev