Being accused of being a jealous person…

Whenever you criticize a band or the local music scene, chances are, you are going to get called a jealous person by other people. Whether you’re criticizing a band’s music or their so called success… you’ll get called jealous. I’ve been dealing with this for years. I’m like, seriously? That’s the best comeback people can come up with? That is usually all people got. When I call out this band or that artist… you’ll get called jealous by their supporters/fans or you would even get called jealous by the band themselves. I usually laugh at these attacks and just ignore them. Why? Think about it. What is there to be jealous about of these bands/artists around the Albany area? Can you think of anything? I’m willing to bet they can’t because simply put, there is nothing to be jealous of.

Sure, they may have gotten a “little” exposure of a few little opportunities that really mean nothing but they are still not the biggest band in the world that these guys make themselves out to be. The truth is that other bands are no bigger or better than me. They are no bigger or better than anybody else either. The question that I have to ask is, if these guys in bands think they’re so damn big and so great at what they do, then what are they doing still stuck in Albany? As long as you’re stuck in Albany playing music, you’re nothing. Albany is not much of a music scene. As musicians, we’re all on the same level together. There’s no such thing as “who’s bigger than who” around here.

So what, you may have won a few contests, opened for a famous act or toured another country someplace, congratulations, I’m happy for ya but that still doesn’t make you bigger than me. You’re still a local musician and you’re still unsigned. If you get accolades, good opportunities, exposure and whatever… the last thing you want to do is act like you’re bigger and better than everyone else after that. Calling people jealous ’cause they’re opinionated is probably the lowest and most unprofessional thing people can do. If you were a real professional musician, you would just accept a critic’s review as an opinion and nothing more. People are gonna be opinionated, there’s nothing you can do about it. Nobody’s jealous. Just honest.

Bands really need to let the music speak on it’s own around here ’cause none of them want to do that. Most all of them want to think they’re good at everything and they have to defend themselves after every time someone says something negative about them. I used to be like that but it’s a pretty unprofessional thing to do. I learned to ignore the critics and learn to accept people’s opinions. Ignore them if I don’t like ’em. You won’t get any respect if all you’re gonna do is keep defending yourself from the critics and negative people. Like I repeatedly say you earn the respect, not demand it. It’s your job to win people over, respect won’t fall in your lap. Just shut up, work on the music, ignore the critics/negative people and music life would be much easier on ya. Trust me.

Musicians like me should have all their right to speak out about bands and the local music scene in general. If all you’re gonna do is call us jealous, then we win. There’s nothing to be jealous of, especially over a local band.

If you wanna prove that you’re good at what you do and if you wanna prove that you’re big/successful… then keep doing what you do. A good attitude to have is to let people have their opinions. Just accept them for what they are, and be flattered  and be inspired by the negative opinions. Don’t just be inspired by the fans. Be inspired by the haters too. Think about it right… you wouldn’t be where you are musically, if some blogger online wasn’t calling you out online, right? Isn’t that a good enough sign that you could be big & successful? Absolutely! If you’re getting a mix of hate and love toward you, then you’re going somewhere. Don’t respond to the negative critics out there and that includes me. You should be flattered as hell that the Brock called you out.

With all this being said, bands will never follow this advice ’cause their egos are so huge. Their egos are just as big as a hot air balloon. They want positive feedback and responses on everything ’cause they obsess with flattery. They want to look like they’re so big all the time. They all live in different delusions and fantasy worlds. I never had that attitude. I always acted like people never cared about my music and it’s better to be that way.

Kev

Actors & Actresses who have changed their birth names for film/TV

After Ashton Kutcher revealing his real name publicly, I thought it would be fun to go around looking for other actors & actresses in Hollywood who has done the same thing. Change their birth names for film and TV work.

Here we go, I’ll name ten of them:

  • Sylvester Stallone – Yes, believe it or not. Sylvester is not his real first name. His real first name was Michael. The name Sylvester is part of his middle name too. Sly’s real birth name is Michael Sylvester Gardenzio Stallone.
  • Nicolas Cage – Cage was born under Nicolas Kim Coppola. I guess he had to change his last name to help avoid confusion with his film maker uncle, Francis Ford Coppola.
  • Marilyn Monroe – Everyone should know that her real name was Norma Jean Mortenson.
  • Michael Caine – Caine was born Maurice Micklewhite.
  • Michael Keaton – Keaton was born Michael John Douglas, yes, this is the guy who is most famous for Batman and Beetlejuice.
  • Charlie Sheen – Charlie was born as Carlos Estevez. He stars in “Machete Kills” under that birthname.
  • Bruce Willis – The same with Ashton, Bruce was actually his middle name. Real birth name, Walter Bruce Willis.
  • Whoopi Goldberg – She was born Caryn Elaine Johnson.
  • Natalie Portman – She was born Natalie Hershlag.
  • Dolph Lundgren – The Rocky IV and Expendables star was born Hans Lundgren.

I didn’t list Arnold Schwarzenegger ’cause that is his real birth name. I’m sure you can find many more if you do google.

Kev

5 reasons why bands shouldn’t neglect improvisation…

Like I explained a long time ago before, improvisation is the most overlooked technique in music whether either playing live on the stage or in the studio. I think the reason is that a lot of musicians don’t understand improv. A lot of musicians find it too difficult for them. I’m not the best at improv yet but I wanna be someday and am working on it, practicing my ear training skills. My goal is to one day become an improv master on guitar! Whether you agree with it or not, improv is the most important part of music. So many bands don’t wanna write songs or play guitar solos in that way. That’s why I prefer to mostly listen to a lot of jam band stuff and rock n’ roll from the 70’s ’cause they did all the improv work in their music. That’s why I love bands such as the Dead, Phish, Led Zep, Hendrix, etc. Bands that just simply love to jam.

Why bands shouldn’t really ignore improvisation??? I can think of 5 reasons…

  • Improv will make you better musicians – When you get up to that point when you can play everything you hear that is when you’ll be ready to be called an actual musician. You’ll get more respect from other musicians around you too if you can follow everything they’re doing.
  • It makes music more unpredictable and more interesting – I can’t stand written guitar solos ’cause you already know what’s going to come up ahead. If you improvise stuff and wing it out, you’ll never know what’s coming. Whatever comes from your mind and from the heart. That’s why I prefer to listen to a lot of virtuoso guitar players ’cause they are all unpredictable guitar players.
  • It makes live performances even more fun – Longer solos and more jamming will for sure, put a thrill to your audience at a gig. A lot of people make assumptions that people get bored at really long solos. Not exactly true. As long as you can play guitar really well, they won’t mind the long solo jams and the audience will stick through them as long as the solos are musical and tasteful.
  • You don’t have to sing much – The best part of long jamming and improv is that you don’t have to sing a whole lot. It’ll give you a nice break from the vocals. If you listen to jam band music and rock n’ roll from the 70’s… you would notice they don’t write too many lyrics in their songs ’cause all they wanna do is jam most of the time.
  • It’s just an important technique that all musicians should do – Improv is an important technique ’cause if you wanna become a professional musician, you gotta know some improv. If you don’t know anything about it, then you’re screwed. There are way too many musicians out there playing in bands who don’t know anything about improv, they just write everything beforehand. If you play with other musicians and then they start playing for no reason, you get lost, what are you gonna do? This is why you have to learn to train your ears. When you get out there playing music with other professionals, other musicians are gonna expect you to have a good ear.

I’m trying the best I can to become that kind of guitar player. Ear training is pretty challenging. It takes years to have a good ear, it doesn’t happen over night. You have to memorize the sound of each note in your head and it’s tough to do. The key to getting good at ear training is knowing what the intervals sound like. After you memorize the sound of the intervals, you’ll be able to play just about anything.

I know bands just wanna get together and play but telling everybody what chords to play or what key to play in is not the way to do it in my opinion. Bands would just get together and play songs right off the bat just out of jamming on them. Just start playing and off you go. I respect bands who can play like that. Who just get together and play just about anything and everything. They don’t just sit down writing stuff on paper. They just rock out!

I love improv music. That’s what I prefer to listen to the most. It’s why I love to listen to a lot of live albums ’cause they are more exciting to listen to than studio albums.

Kev

Cool Video: Ashton Kutcher’s moving Teen Choice Awards speech inspires me too…

Like a lot of people, I too was moved and inspired by Ashton Kutcher’s “Teen Choice Awards” acceptance speech that went viral this week. I used to never be a fan of Ashton Kutcher. I never cared for him as an actor and a person but I think I’ll have a change of heart with him. I was never a fan before but I am now. Love his honesty in this speech. How he revealed his real name and gave advice to the youngsters on how build their lives and being smart. Ashton’s advice should apply to everyone of all ages, not just young kids.

Some of you may ask, why would Ashton change his name when becoming an actor? Well, that’s the way Hollywood works. In order to help become a recognizable star, you gotta change your name if your birth name is not recognizable enough. There’s a lot of movie stars and TV stars who have changed their names. Some actors use their real names but not all of them.

Even though this speech was aimed for young people, like I said, people of all ages should listen too. Even me. My life could be better and I’m working on it.

Ashton just got my respect and I’ll probably check out his Steve Jobs movie. Honestly, I think this speech is just a homage and a tribute kind of thing for Steve, still really cool, though. Ashton seems like a cool guy in real life.

How come President Obama doesn’t give speeches like this?

Kev

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Darren Young wasn’t the first WWE star to come out as gay, there has been a few others, stupid media…

I wish the reporters of the news media would get their facts straight, especially that damn TMZ. Darren Young wasn’t the first WWE star to come out as gay. There have been a few others in the past. They were: Chris Kanyon, Pat Patterson, and Orlando Jordan.

Just more proof that people know nothing about the wrestling business.

I’m pretty sure that there are even more  gay wrestlers but a lot of them haven’t came out yet ’cause they’re afraid it might hurt their careers. I’m sure more wrestlers will come out of the closet now that Darren Young has done it. Other wrestlers will follow for sure. If you don’t know who Darren Young is, he was one of the Nexus members.

It should be no surprise to you that there are going to be plenty of gay wrestlers.

I’m sure Darren Young coming out as gay won’t hurt his career at all. I wouldn’t be surprised if WWE turns it into a storyline. WWE has done gay storylines before (most notably, Billy & Chuck in the 90’s).

Kev

 

 

In reality, there are actually more conservatives than liberals in America, twitter is proof of that…

For a long while now, I used to think that conservatives/right wing people are being destroyed by the left wingers/liberals but it’s actually the other way around. Conservatism is actually more popular than the liberals. The trending topics in twitter is pretty much proof of that. Every day I would see different trending topics such as hashtags like, “Things that make liberals upset”, “MockObamaDay”, etc. Things like that. So I believe I’m in good company with other conservatives. I don’t like liberal people. You can never win political debates against them. I like discussing politics with other conservatives ’cause you can get into more friendlier and positive political discussions with them. No heated arguments, just friendly conversation. They don’t mind the Obama hate ’cause they all hate Obama too. That’s why I prefer to discuss politics with people who have similar political views from now on. If I discuss politics with other people who have different views, they almost always end up heated and negative.

I try to discuss politics in facebook but there are too many liberals in my facebook page. My politics discussions always get heated. It’s not me. That’s the way politics is. Politics is always controversial and dark. I get blamed for starting heated debates but I just talk about current events like everyone else. That’s why I stopped talking politics in facebook ’cause the liberals there drive me crazy so I continue my politics discussion on this blog and on twitter instead.

Some people don’t like me being conservative/Republican but that’s tough. I’ll have my views and thoughts in politics in any way I please. I’ll never make the switch to liberal. I’m proud to be right-winger.

Kev

A local band opening for a national act is not the holy grail of success, get over it…

Another big thing that seems to be happening more lately around the Capital Region’s music scene are local bands and solo artists opening for famous national touring acts. A lot of musicians want to mistakenly believe that is the holy grail of success. Meaning, once they get that opportunity… they’ll jerk themselves off with their accomplishments by thinking that’s a huge step in the right direction to getting signed, they’ll think they’re big and successful and I can go on and on. Don’t get me wrong. Opening for a national band may sound pretty exciting but it’s really nothing all that special. Opening for a national act is not that big of a deal as I’ll just treat it like a regular local gig if I ever get that opportunity. I don’t think I would care to get something like that to begin with. If I wanted to open for a big national act… I would open for somebody who I would like and admire. Somebody who I’m a big fan of. Local bands & musicians would open for any random national act just because they are nationally famous. A local band would open for any national act even if they know nothing about them. They’ll take that opportunity anyway hoping that will help move them forward to the next level and hoping that’ll get them signed. If I get asked to open for somebody big & famous, I’m not gonna jump on the opportunity right away. I’ll want to know who I’m opening for and if I like this band’s music enough. I would turn it down if I don’t agree with it.

Opening for a national act may give you a little more exposure, yes, no doubt about that; however, you’re still a local band. That’s the thing with local musicians. They think once they get that opportunity and after they performed that gig, they’ll think they’re the world’s biggest music star or something. To be honest, you already have been successful even before then. You got success just by making the music and attracting fans who support it.

In my opinion, success in music is not getting signed to a label or opening for famous acts. Success is making the music and getting people to like it. Bands are pretty obsessed with big opportunities and you don’t have to be. Bands shouldn’t focus on trying to get fame. They need to focus on making the art for the fans who helped get them up there to begin with. They think opening for national acts means a lot to them but with me, it would be pretty meaningless. Not important.

I would enjoy it, sure, and would have fun opening for someone famous but I wouldn’t go acting like it’s the biggest thing that ever happened to me, ya know?

I’m more worried about writing the good songs and that’s all I’ll care about the most.

Kev

Newest fitness progress…

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I may not look like Channing Tatum or those shirtless dudes all over the calendars but this is just a natural look in bodybuilding. I think I’m starting to see a little bit of results in the chest. You see, I still may need some more work on the chest but I think they look pretty decent for now. I just did a lot more pushups and did some free weights work like benching on the Smith machine, different dumbbell presses, cable crossovers, etc. I don’t over train the chest. I hit ’em hard for a few workouts like once a week and did a little more heavier lifting. I’m happy with the way I look currently. However, bodybuilding shouldn’t really be about looking perfect. Trying to have a sexy body is for posers. I just want to get more strength, look a little better with my shirt off, and get healthy. I’m not really trying to impress the ladies (which could be a huge plus, of course)… I just wanna be strong and muscular.

This is my 4th or 5th year on with not too many breaks. Didn’t get injured hardly at all. Hard work just pays off. If you wanna get there, just eat responsibly, work out hard and anybody can get ripped easily. I don’t believe those stupid myths where people say, “it takes a long time to get a big physique” or “you won’t get muscular at all”. Bullshit. You can get ripped in a short time. Just eat right, work hard, don’t listen to the nay sayers and anything is possible.

I’m committed to bodybuilding.

Kev

On top of that, who really cares if musicians don’t like your criticism…

There is a facebook group that is aimed toward local musicians around the Capital Region’s music scene. A facebook group (or a forum as I would rather call it) which is for musicians to get together to discuss how to move forward in your careers. There was a guy that should be nameless at this time who tried to promote this well-known solo-artist (he should be nameless too) by saying “This (solo artist) here is a good example of moving forward in your career…” and kept going on and on about how great this solo artist is. Next thing you know a few other musicians in this forum started to criticize this solo artist that this guy tried to promote. The other musicians were saying that they don’t like the way this guy promotes himself online. On how this solo artist begs/demands for support and promotes himself everywhere. These other musicians were saying how this solo artist has an egotistical way of promoting himself. This solo artist expects to be supported by everyone as if he was saying, “Here I am, like me”. That type of promotion.

Then I get immediately into it and joined in on the action by saying that I agree with those guys and wrote in some more of my thoughts. I started criticizing this solo artist’s music, his attitude, professionalism, etc. Sure enough, this nameless solo artist blocked me from facebook. The guy who tried to promote this solo artist got into a heated argument with me. He was defending this solo artist like he was a die-hard fan. A fanboy type.

Later on in the discussion, I’ve had a few more musicians giving me the thumbs up on my comments and even had one other musician who said they agreed with everything. This guy that was trying to promote this solo artist was saying that I shouldn’t bash him in a negative direction when I don’t really know him and stuff. He started calling me hateful and being jealous, blah blah blah.

So yeah, other musicians have no problem with my band criticism. Like always the responses toward my band criticism has always been a mixed bag.

The weird thing is that the band/artist you’re criticizing will always think you’re hateful, insane, delusional, etc…. while other musicians will agree with what you say and have no problem with it. Fans of this artist will also try to help defend them. This is where I came to believe that musicians can’t handle criticism well at all. They really are sensitive people and they usually get all defensive when criticized by other musicians. When you see the band/artist becoming upset and defensive… I just believe they don’t like hearing the truth. It’s just bothers them. The band/artist you’re criticizing will always think they’re in the right and everyone else is wrong. The band/artist will always want to think they’re good at everything no matter what people think of them. Whenever you see bands/artists being defensive… you’re not doing anything wrong… all it’s proving is that it shows that you’re right and proves how much of an asshole they really are.

It’s an alright thing to do to be critical about bands/artists and the local music scene overall. I try my best to leave names out of things on my blog ’cause I don’t need no controversy over it and I don’t need a huge debate with their fanbase/supporters or even worse, possible lawsuit threats.

If musicians get upset with my criticism. Who cares. It’s not the end of the world, let ’em go. You should have every right to say what you want about them. When you want to become a musician or play in a band, and you put this stuff out there… it opens the doors for criticism and honesty. Musicians are better at telling the truth than anybody. They aren’t afraid to be honest about other bands music and everything else. I know because musicians can be pretty honest about me. They’re pretty smart & intelligent people.

It’s good to keep the world of unsigned music as honest as possible. We don’t do it out of hate and jealousy, however, we just want what is best for all musicians. That’s all. We all look after everybody. We just don’t want to see certain bands & musicians get in trouble and stuff. We depend on other bands & artists like family. If some of them musicians don’t want to discuss things with us like an adult, that’s their problem.

Kev

Why musicians shouldn’t neglect original music…

There seems to be a large number of musicians lately giving up playing original music live and they decide to play covers only at the gigs instead. This seems to be a new trend in the music scene lately. Why? Because a lot of musicians make assumptions that the Capital Region’s music scene doesn’t have much of an original music scene. Maybe they’re partly right that original music doesn’t get much of an audience. That’s why a lot of bands and solo artists has chosen to play covers instead ’cause covers get more of an audience than original music.

The thing is… you should never be a quitter. You should never doubt yourself. You should never be put down or disappointed ’cause you don’t have much of an audience toward your original songs. Nothing wrong with the switch but you should never stop playing original music live. We could have a bigger and more successful original scene again if musicians were more passionate to songwriting. A lot of musicians prefer to play covers more. I’m not knocking musicians who play covers ’cause I play covers too. I always felt it was pretty important to do both. I always did both covers and original songs. Check my youtube channel for proof.

The thing is, if you want the Capital Region’s original music scene to get big again… we need to get together and try harder. We need to work on this together and try to get people interested in original music. We can try. We can do this. I’ll never give up writing original music or performing original music live on the stage. You may not be getting too many fans with your original songs but keep trying. You just never know.

You should keep writing original songs ’cause you like doing it. If you’re not getting much of an audience, you need to look at the quality and talent of your songs. Ask yourself. Are my songs good enough? What can I do to improve them? I think it’s a proven fact that music fans only support music they like. Maybe your original songs isn’t good enough is why a lot of people don’t come out to your original shows? You need to write songs that will catch a listener’s ear. If they like what they hear, they will come out to your shows to see you perform them live. You can promote your original shows as much as you want to but no matter how much you promote yourself, people are still not gonna come out if they don’t like your music. Period.

With my own songwriting, I think I have a plan that might attract even more listeners to my songs. I’m thinking of changing my songwriting to a different direction some. I’m thinking of writing folk music. Topical/political songs. Write songs in poetic form. The type of folk music I’m planning to write is not what you think it is. Slower songs. Ballads. Singing songs with passion and with a little more heart. People seem to be turned off with my aggressive acoustic rock so I’m thinking of changing my genre around some. I’ll always play original rock n’ roll, I just want to change around some. If I want people to take my music a little more seriously, I figure I would write more serious songs that people of all ages and families can listen to.  I want to write music kind of in the likes of Neil Young, Springsteen and maybe Sharon Van Etten but write folk music in my own style, of course. I’m also thinking of ditching my Kev Brock name and release songs under my birth name ’cause I want the songs to be mine.

Never doubt yourself in original music. I never did. I kept going. Decided to take some time off from songwriting to focus on teaching myself guitar lessons and teaching myself how to sing better. I’m always trying to find ways to get better musically. You can do that too.

You shouldn’t give up playing original music live ’cause it’s good to showcase your talent no matter how many people show up. It’s about the passion and the love for music. Cover bands are still dominating the scene but we can still try and make original music big in this area again. We just need to try to focus on writing songs that you think people will like. People always say things like, “Music should be for you” but not really. If you want to be a respected songwriter, you have to write music that will appeal to listener’s ears. It’s good to switch to a different genre. Neil Young did it all the time. The same with Springsteen. It’s good to be versatile.

Kev

 

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