A lot of people mistakenly believe that a man staying single for most of his life is sad, pathetic and wrong. They usually get picked on and laughed at by other people since they made a choice. You see it isn’t pathetic and wrong for a man living the single life. It’s actually a very good thing to do really. There are too many people out there who can’t live their life without sex but there are some that can survive without it. There is more to life than just sex and romance, all that stuff. You can actually be happy and find life very enjoyable being a loner, trust me on that. It’s your choice of how you want to live your life. You can settle in and get into a relationship at a late age. I think it’s actually better to settle in at a late age instead of rushing things at a young age. There are too many young people, in this day and age, getting into relationships, rushing to get married and stuff. I look at all this going on, and I’m like really? Why are there too many young people rushing into things? I sort of, blame that on TV and celebrity gossip that people obsess over and they follow along with it. That’s how mainstream media controls people.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve actually tried the relationship thing several times before in my life, but they never worked out. I have been friends with women before and they were just that, just friends. Nothing more.

I think it’s time for me to get a nice woman, sometime, hopefully in the near future. I think I’m ready for it now, before I get any older ’cause I’m gonna be 40 soon. The only thing though, is that’s it’s so tough to get somebody, these days. A lot of women out there seems to be pretty self centered people. All they seem to care about is the money, really. I mean, look who all the women are getting married to lately. Yes, that’s right. They seem to be marrying wealthy guys. Why? It’s so that women can live in a good home and expensive cars, so they can raise a family and have a good life. Divorces are on the rise too, and who are filing the divorce papers mostly? Yes that’s right, it’s the women, so they can get after the money. It’s a harsh reality that all women care about is a guy’s wealth, but it is what it is. Some couples are only together ’cause of the children only.

This is why this relationship and marriage stuff is pretty scary. Women would also only date guys for the good looks and for sex also.

I know not all women are shallow people, there will be one out there who will love you for you and actually care about you, she’s just hard to find. I guess the trick is, that you just need to stop looking if you don’t want to keep getting hurt. You will find the love of your life at some point, it’ll happen when it happens.

I don’t need people helping me to get a woman, this is something I need to do on my own, but I’ve had other people give me tips and advice. I’ve been told to respect her. Give her nice compliments and make her, smile, and happy a lot. Have fun conversations with her and be confident. Start off slow and build your way up. See how things go from there.

I’m looking for true love. A lot of you would never be able to see it but yes, I am capable enough of treating a woman like a queen and can make her a happy person. I can do it, I just need to find the right one. I guess I need to weed out all the bad ones until I find the one who actually cares. That’s the trick I guess.

I usually try not to talk about this relationship stuff on my blog but since Valentine’s Day is coming up around the corner, I figure I would do this and get it out of the way. So enjoy.

Kev

…simply put, I’m starting to get bored. I only post on this blog when I have something worthy to say or something to get off my chest. When I don’t feel like writing anything on here, it means I can’t think of anything to write. I even get writers block for this blog at times!

On top of that, I’ve been finding better things to do like playing my guitar, and other hobbies that I love to do like video gaming or reading or whatever.

I gotta couple of things to get off my chest later tonight, but for now, I’m going to play “Skyrim” for a little while, check out “House of Cards” on Netflix a little later.

I’ll be back on here late tonight.

Kev

I’ve been told by people for years now, that the only reason some follow my blogs or my music is ’cause they find me entertaining and funny to follow. Not because they find the stuff I do enjoyable, people follow me as a way to “make fun” of me. A lot of folks appear to follow me for laughs. They would read my blogs daily, keep hitting refresh all day, waiting for the next post to come up  (don’t lie, I know you all do this), waiting for me to say something stupid so they can make fun of it, all over the internet.

You know, this is all fine and good. I know my web presence can easily be made fun of, I don’t give a fuck. When you bash or make fun of me, that means you’re making fun of me as a person.

One thing you should think about though is, no matter the reaction of your web presence, whether people really support you or not, it means that you are successful at what you do. Whether you get a positive or negative reaction toward your web presence or your music, you are popular ’cause people responded to you. The trolls/haters don’t want to admit that they actually enjoy the stuff that you do, they follow you still ’cause you are addicting to them. As long as people are paying attention to you, positive or negative, you should be proud of that.

You would know that you’re not successful, when people don’t pay attention to you at all.

With that being said, I don’t really get upset at the mixed reactions, ’cause I’ve been saying for years now, I’ve been proud of it. People tell me stuff like, “Everyone only follows you to make fun of you”, as a way to put me down and upset me, when in reality, I’m not. I actually get kind of flattered when people tell me that stuff.

Treat me how you want to treat me. I don’t have any control of how people feel about me, free country, so people feel how they want to. I know I can’t please everyone and I know everything is not gonna be positive, even though I would like everything to be. There’s nothing I can do about it. I’ve been made fun of and bullied by people throughout my entire life anyway, not just the internet. I know people make fun of me ’cause of my appearance, my personal problems, my looks, the way I speak, my writing style, my learning skill, disability, etc. My question is, what makes everyone else any better? Everyone has their own share of insecurities and problems, so what makes people think they’re better than me? I am, who I am. Just being myself. What you see, is what you get. I’m no different than everyone else. I’m not perfect and neither are you.

In my real life off the computer, I just want to be happy and enjoy life, the best I can. Yes, my life needs a lot of improvement and it maybe tough now, but I still find ways to keep me strong and happy. Like working out, playing my guitar, watching movies, reading books, etc. Those are things I do to keep me strong.

Back to the topic, as long as people are paying attention that’s all I care about. You just keep giving me more attention and more success. I like to speak my mind on the internet ’cause it’s a good way to get things off your chest and get things out of your system.

Kev

Edit to add:  I forgot to add something else, when people tell me these things, it does nothing but prove my point that people can be crazy and whacked. I may seem like a good guy but don’t let the nice guy fool ‘ya. Honestly, I can’t stand people in general and I’m sure you can’t blame me.