Back then when I first started singing, I used to be shit really. I remember back in the day that so many people criticized my vocals and trashed my singing publicly like crazy. These days, I haven’t seen anybody say anything “negative” about my singing at all. Most of the feedback I’ve been getting on my singing lately has been very very positive which means a whole lot. A lot of practice would pay off for sure.

A lot of people make the mistake that you can never improve your singing, you get what you get but not really. Anybody can become a better singer. If I can do it, you can too. You just have to get the “head voice”. Get all of that sound out and singing “clear” most of the time. If you get the “head voice”… the buzzing sensation in your head and when you feel the vibration in your mouth that’s when you got it. That’s how you wanna sing.

In the past, I used to sing really bad ’cause back then I never had the “head voice” then I finally got Jim Gillette’s “Vocal Power” course and that helped me a lot.

The question you have to ask is since I improved my singing so much lately, will I ever further my music into a big career? I’d love to. I’d love to play more gigs and hit the bigger stages. Maybe even join a band but I don’t really care to beocme a big star. I’m just trying to stay humble and leave my ego at the door as much as possible. I just do music for fun and that’s the end of it. I don’t live under the delusion of becoming a big star. Just wanna play music ’cause it’s what I do.

Whenever I start my internet album hopefully this year, I plan to make my singing really good on it as much as possible. I want to give it my best. See if I can melt people’s faces with my singing on my original songs is my goal really. I’m flattered that people enjoy my covers but I wanna see if they can enjoy my original work too and I’m trying all I can to make that happen.

Kev

That’s the problem we’re having in this day and age. In the age of social networking, you see men and women ranting about how people are bringing them down. They have to explain themselves to the person they are getting attacked and bullied by. They have to try and defend themselves, hoping this bully will stop picking on them and the bully will try to be more friendly with you. Never gonna happen. When negative people attack you… they want you to respond. They want you to see you ranting about it. They want to see you pissed off and angry. That’s why they do it is to piss you off and anger you on purpose ’cause they find it amusing and entertaining to them.

When you get negative people judging your life. Judging you by the way you live… you don’t need to explain yourself to them. When you do, all you’re doing is making situations much worse. The bully will continue to be an asshole to you no matter what you say or do knowing from my own experience. So a good way to handle negative people is by not responding to them at all and removing them your life. Pretend that they’re dead is what I do. Ignoring negative people completely is the best thing to do really. Ignoring negative people really does help make your life much more peaceful.

I try to give that advice to other people but they don’t listen to me. They continue to defend themselves against negative people getting all over them. In my facebook newsfeed, you see people ranting everyday about how people are getting all over them especially women mostly.

I’m sure you’ve noticed by now that I don’t respond to negative people at all. I just delete anything negative and just block them. WordPress doesn’t have a block feature so I just delete the comments and ignore it if something negative comes in. I only reply to positive responses, that’s what I look for. People can disagree with me on certain topics as much as they want to as long as the response is positive. I don’t mind people disagreeing with me on things. I just want people to be positive about it. In this day and age of social networking and the internet when people disagree with you on certain topics, they have to be mean and be a douchebag about it. Call you every name in the book, get into all kinds of drama. I know from experience.

When it comes to politics discussion though… liberals have to be so negative when they disagree. They’ll call you a bunch of names, swear up a storm and all that stuff. It’s part of why we’r getting fed up with liberals ’cause they’re really nasty to people. Almost all the time. Wow. They continue to be nasty to people to this day.

There’s so much negative people everywhere these days whether online or offline. You have to eliminate negative people from your life. I don’t have time for negative people. I want to surround myself with positive and joyful people. Don’t give negative people any attention ’cause when you do, all you’re doing is giving them more attention and they don’t deserve it.

Kev