A lot of couples these days: boyfriend & girlfriend, husband & wife never meet in public places anymore like it used to be in the old days. Couples still meet in public places in person but it doesn’t happen much anymore. Why? It’s simply because that meeting your mate and romantic partner is mostly done online these days. With the likes of facebook, tinder, OkCupid, plentyoffish, craigslist, etc. In my opinion, I think meeting somebody online is kind of a terrible place to meet your lover. Why would you want your first meeting to be remembered for that? When somebody asks you “How did you meet” and if you say “Online”, that would be kind of silly. I mean, don’t you want your first meeting of your significant other to be somewhere special and something you can remember? I think it be better if you meet your partner at a coffeehouse or a grocery store or just meeting her while going out for a stroll or she could have been one of your co-workers on your job. Maybe you met her at a local band show, at the gym or at the library. Yep, people don’t meet their lovers like that anymore. It’s all on facebook or tinder or where ever.

I disagree with online dating ’cause it makes it look too easy and it also makes it looks like you don’t have any confidence at all. That’s why I’m doing all this reading & research on the dating scene so I can learn how to build my confidence and it is working if I must say. For the past year or so, I’ve grown more confidence over women than ever before and I don’t think I’m afraid of them anymore. The goal is that I wanna try to meet somebody out there in public. Not do it online. Grow some confidence and talk to women in person rather than talk to them online. I wanna see if I can do it the old school way.

Of course, back in the old days, we didn’t have any of this technology and internet stuff so couples had no choice but to meet in public places. THat’s my goal, I’m gonna do it the old-school way. See if I can meet her in public places like the cafe in town, the grocery store, the gym, maybe just walking in the street and find somebody interesting. That’s what I’m gonna try to do.

I’m not a big fan of dating online ’cause I’ve had bad experience with that in the past so I don’t think I’ll do it again. You can’t trust people you meet online ’cause a lot of women online can be frauds. I mean… they make themselves look beautiful and hot online but when you actually met her in person, you’ll be like, “No thanks”. Plus a lot of women online lie about their weight too. Women would try to make themselves look skinny and thin when the reality is they are pretty obese so you gotta watch out for that, ya know?

Yep, so I’m not really a big fan of online dating. I’d rather meet her in the real world and that’s my goal.

Kev