Most dating coaches in youtube are mostly bullshit… not all of them… some of that stuff can actually be very good and very helpful. I only post the videos on my site that I think is worth it and only post the ones that are very good and helpful. I post ’em on here in case other guys out there like me are struggling to get women.

Most dating gurus are full of shit ’cause chances are, they make stuff up as they go along as a way to help promote their products that they sell. A lot of dating gurus try to promote their products like their dating coaching advice on CD/DVD sets which they sell them at ridiculous high prices. They make up advice as they go along to get people excited about them hoping they will buy their products in their online stores. So watch out who you take advice from in those youtube channels.

There are a lot of dating gurus in youtube who are kind enough to never sell anything and give their advice for free… those are the dating gurus you wanna follow.

Some of those guys in the youtube dating community make it seem difficult to get women when it shouldn’t be. They make you go through all of these ridiculous steps in detail… telling what you can and can’t say to women and what you can and can’t do. It’s bullshit. I’d say ignore all of that bullshit and just be yourself. That’s what women want you to be, they want you to be yourself.

They also give you all kinds of ridiculous steps when you want to get their phone number. That’s all bullshit too. It shouldn’t take a rocket scientist to get her phone number when all you have to do is simply ask her for her cell number/home phone or whatever and she’ll gladly give it to you. Most women are willing to give you numbers ’cause they like that attention of being popular with their friends and stuff, ya know?

Watch out who you take advice from online whether it’s through youtube dating sites or online e-books. I gotta stop looking through this stuff myself and think I will. It has become an addiction for me.

Just be yourself in the dating world. Women are easy to talk to and down to earth people… you start talking to her, she’ll make you feel like you already have known her for years. I’ve had conversations with many nice women over the years but never had the guts to ask for their phone numbers. It can’t be that hard at all.

You don’t have to go through step by step dating bullshit. Once again, just be yourself and do the dating thing how you want to. They all have different ways of giving advice. You don’t need to be coached by somebody else. It’s all a waste of money and time. I’ll still take some of their advice ’cause some of that stuff really did help me become more confident with women than ever.

Watch out for these guys, they just wanna sell something and take your money. You don’t need to pay for someone to help you.

If you’re struggling with women talk to other guys with a lot of experience with women and I have been doing that too. Talk to your friends and family to help ya. I would forget the internet bullshit when it comes to dating advice.

I think I learned enough about women. I’ll go out there and start working on it. Next time I go to the gym or the store, I’ll have to start talking to women more. I’ll start talking to guys too even though I’m NOT gay, talking to guys will help my social skills. I gotta improve my social skills and start talking to people more ’cause I’m shy and quiet person and gotta knock it off. One trick that will help me improve my social skills is that I’m thinking about starting video blogs in youtube where I’ll speak my mind on any topic or I could start my own podcasts (without the use of scripts to read off of). I gotta make more friends and be a part of this world more. I’m not an anti-social person, though.

Kev

Here’s another interesting dating advice video from a woman’s perspective.

Do you see an attractive woman you may think you might like but you’re afraid to approach her in public places? Are you afraid that you might bother her? This nice woman by the name of Marni Wing says don’t worry about it. If you like her just walk right up to her and talk to her right away! She won’t be bothered at all.

You could see her in a parking lot of a store, you could be walking around the mall, the grocery store, the library, the gym, you could see her just by walking through the city streets/towns, maybe even at your work place, etc. You shouldn’t have to be afraid to just walk up to her and say, “Hi, how are you”. That’s probably the best and only pickup line you could use. If you wanna tell her that she’s gorgeous/beautiful — go for that as well as it’s recommended. She’ll be interested in talking to you after you told her compliments about her looks.

When you approach women in public places and if she gives you this nasty look and walks away which you will probably get sometimes, don’t worry about it. There are a ton of women out there willing to get approached ’cause they want to be approached. If she has a boyfriend/married, not too worry about that either ’cause she’ll still be willing to talk to you as a friend ’cause I know that women like their guy friends.

Over the years, I’ve seen plenty of women that I was attracted to and think I might like but didn’t have the guts to walk up to her and talk to her. I gotta knock that off. If you see a woman you might like in public places, go up to talk to her right away ’cause chances are, you may never see her again after that. Don’t miss the opportunity as I had plenty of missed opportunities myself. I’ll admit it that I used to get nervous around gorgeous women  but I don’t think I am anymore. I still need work on the confidence a little but it’ll take a little bit at a time ’cause it’s a learning skill.

I agree with this comment in this video: “You’re right Marni, the longer you leave an approach the more women see you as “that creepy guy that keeps looking at me.”

Guys need to stop being so outcome dependant and just focus on living in the moment. If she’s not interested in talking to you, so what. Next!”

If you’re shopping at a store at the mall or just walking the street and you see this gorgeous woman you can’t get your eyes off of… it shouldn’t be that difficult to walk up to her and say hi.

Women won’t bite. That’s all there is to it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5EXhMdlrsc

Kev